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As we continue with part 2 and conclude the teaching on one of the tactics narcissists employ to exert control and manipulation onto their targets, we will be looking at the different criteria that flying monkeys fall into, as well as how to deal with them.
14 Nov 2022
Flying Monkeys (Part 1) | Sarah Moloi
You feel attacked. People are pointing at you and whispering. Some, are total strangers, and some are people you know. People you thought were your friends seem to be avoiding you lately. You hear that you’re being gossiped about. You’re being lied about. You start to feel like an outcast in your own social group. They spread lies about you and bash you in an attempt to tear you apart from the people and places you love.
I hope you never experience this, but if you do, there is a good chance you are a victim of a narcissistic smear campaign.
Narcissists recruit others to spread the lies, to actively participate in the damage to the target’s reputation.
The psychological term for these associates is:
FLYING MONKEYS.
28 Jan 2022
Gaslighting | Sarah Moloi
Gaslighting is an abusive tactic aimed to make a person doubt their own thoughts and feelings. It is often subtle especially in the beginning when they're still grooming the target to believe the false narratives. For example, if the target tells a story, the abuser may challenge a small detail.
We will be looking at:
-Where it originates from
-Why abusers do it
-Warning signs
-Techniques used
-How it affects you
-How to overcome it
Once again let’s get informed and educated about abuse.
Knowledge is power.
“My people perish because of lack of knowledge “ Hosea 4:6.
7 Jan 2022
Smear Campaign in Narcissism | Sarah Moloi
We will be learning about one of the abusive ways a narcissist employs to further torture their target during and after the relationship.
What is a smear campaign?
It is the intentional and systematic dissemination of deceptive information designed to undermine, discredit, and further isolate you. The narcissist paints you in a misleading and toxic light using strategies including but not limited to exaggeration, instigation of rumours, slander, character assassination and lies.
To get you where it really hurts, they target any person available to them who matters to you. No one and nothing is off-limits to the narcissist. This encompasses your family members, all friends both mutual and non-mutual, employer, co-workers, and members of communities to which you belong (e.g.: neighbours, church, volunteering organisations, sports teams etc.). Anyone accessible to the narcissist in your professional and personal networks is fair game.
Now listen on, be informed and help raise awareness.
31 Dec 2021
Narcissistic Personality Disorder and Abuse (Part 2) | Sarah Moloi
This podcast episode is the final part of the Narcissistic Personality Disorder and Abuse two-part series, focussing on narcissistic mothers.
In this episode we will be looking at:
- types of wrong mother and son relationships
- telltale signs that a man is having an incestuous relationship with his mother
- what to do once a man(son)realises that his relationship with his mother is a bit awkward
Part 1 is available which is a good introduction to NPD, learn about more narcissistic parents, infantilisation and its causes and more.
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