Heauxly Coitus

About Heauxly Coitus

To be a heaux is to engage in consensual sex, be kind to yourself and partner(s), creative, fully embodied, unapologetic, powerful, and free. A former virgin of 31 years and now heaux of 3, Ms. Heauxly Coitus (HC) loves talking to people who are coming to terms with their journey of sex, fu€king, Tinder dates, loving their bodies, unlearning from harmful teaching and purity culture, developing her sexual ethic, (re)claiming their sexual agency, and always in search of great sex (or not). Come share your heaux story on the pod and join the Heaux Revolution!

Publisher

Heauxly

Category

health & fitness

Language

en

Explicit

Yes

First episode

29 Jan 2021

Latest episode

13 Jan 2023

Latest episodes

39 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   13 Jan 2023

   S1E37. Beth’s Heaux Story: SDA Pastor’s kid, Marriage, New Lesbian

   I was raised as a Seventh-Day Adventist pastor’s kid, attending SDA schools through college. While I never really bought into it and mostly stopped going to church in my 20s, I didn’t start deconstruction and doing trauma therapy until last year at 42 years old. Through deconstructing and with the help of trauma therapy - which I can’t recommend enough! - I started unpacking purity culture and realized I’m lesbian. I’m so excited for the future and being able to live authentically is such a gift and I’m so grateful. Therapy is magic! . A heaux is someone who follows and honors their own desires, who finds joy in being true to themselves first and foremost. A heaux is also very sex and body positive! . I just really love this pic and this variation is not one I’ve seen often! This represents how I think of myself and my body - beautiful. ____________ Ms. Heauxly Coitus @heauxlycoitus 💦For Heaux T-shirts and mugs and bags: bit.ly/3OTXitQ 💦Come share your heaux story on the pod! Be the next guest. Inbox me, Ms. Heauxly Coitus @heauxlycoitus 💦For pictures, past episodes, and stories: bit.ly/3OTXitQ 💦For salacious heaux stories from Ms. Heauxly Coitus, find her column here: bit.ly/3OTXitQ . ~To be a heaux is to engage in consensual sex, be kind your yourself and partner(s), creative, fully embodied, unapologetic, powerful, and free.~

2. 

   3 Dec 2022

   S1E36. Patrick’s Heaux Story: Polyamory, Parenting, and European Secularism

   Patrick @secure_not_pure is from Germany and has American roots - not only by blood, but he considers himself a transatlantic dropout from 1990s American purity culture. His ongoing journey of de/reconstruction has led him away from toxic church structures and a static view of the divine, towards a more healthy and inclusive mindset - and all the way into consensual non-monogamy (which he actually didn't see coming). Patrick is healing from early trauma and shame, and learning to embrace his own body and sexuality. Topics covered in this conversation include European secularism and faith, the True Love Waits movement, sex positivity, therapy, and the importance of consent and good communication in unconventional (meaning non-monogamous/polyamorous) relationship/family structures. . 💦For Heaux T-shirts and mugs and bags: bit.ly/3OTXitQ 💦Come share your heaux story on the pod! Be the next guest. Inbox me, Ms. Heauxly Coitus @heauxlycoitus 💦For pictures, past episodes, and stories: bit.ly/3OTXitQ 💦For salacious heaux stories from Ms. Heauxly Coitus, find her column here: bit.ly/3OTXitQ . ~To be a heaux is to engage in consensual sex, be kind your yourself and partner(s), creative, fully embodied, unapologetic, powerful, and free.~ .

3. 

   23 Nov 2022

   S1E35. Sarah’s Heaux Story: Loving after Death, Healing from C-PTSD and Religious Abuse, Wholeness

   I was raised in the fundamentalist Evangelical Christian movement, where there were very strict predetermined ideas of what was acceptable, holy, and sacred, and what was considered rebellious, evil, and profane. When I started exploring outside of those strict beliefs, I discovered to my surprise, that the sacred is often found with the profane. I often saw the most beautiful examples of God and God’s love wrapped up with what was considered sinful by the church. As a response to my exploring, I was rejected by my church of origin and suffered emotional abuse and spiritual trauma, resulting in a complex PTSD diagnosis. Through this painful journey I developed a faith in my own goodness and the goodness of a divinity that can be found by anyone of any religion, culture, or background; a divinity of Oneness and Love. I believe we each have something unique and valuable to bring to the table and that all voices need to be heard. It's my passion today to speak out on issues of religious oppression and abuse through my writing and in conversations. I am particularly passionate about connecting with anyone who has a story of spiritual trauma and/or PTSD, and mutually empowering each other by speaking our truths and healing together. Instagram: @sacredunraveling Blog: sacredunraveling.com ~ Sarah Van Etten Leupold~ . @heauxlycoitus 💦For Heaux T-shirts and mugs and bags: @heauxlycoitus | Linktree 💦Come share your heaux story on the pod! Be the next guest. Inbox me, Ms. Heauxly Coitus @heauxlycoitus 💦For pictures, past episodes, and stories: @heauxlycoitus | Linktree 💦For salacious heaux stories from Ms. Heauxly Coitus, find her column here: @heauxlycoitus | Linktree . ~To be a heaux is to engage in consensual sex, be kind your yourself and partner(s), creative, fully embodied, unapologetic, powerful, and free.~ @heauxlycoitus | Linktree

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