A show where two Asian American dating coaches go deep on frothy shit. We unpack the relationship psychology and dating themes on reality TV shows, especially The Bachelor. Tune in for our weekly analysis of every episode of The Bachelor, The Bachelorette, Bachelor in Paradise, and Golden Bachelor, as well as other popular dating shows and movies.
For video recaps, head on over to our YouTube Channel (youtube.com/HereToFindLove).
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The most horrific ending to a Bachelorette season | The Bachelorette recap: Jenn’s season finale
We’re in shock.
Jenn Tran’s Bachelorette story comes to a horrifying ending in the season finale, and we are devastated and frankly livid with this franchise. In this Bachelorette recap, we review the season finale where we learn Jenn and Devin’s engagement came to a near-immediate end shortly after filming ended and then see a disgustingly cruel After the Final Rose live finale where Jenn is made to watch her proposal to Devin for the first time on stage with him setting next to her. This show failed Jenn in so many ways.
We are absolutely aghast that this season — which we had been so excited and hopeful about, which loudly promoted Jenn as their first Asian American lead and promised us an incredible love story with her as the main character — ended in such a horrific way. We unpack that horrible ATFR segment, what happened between Jenn and Devin (and why we weren’t surprised by his swerve), as well as takeaways from the Jenn and Marcus breakup (because we’ve known men like Marcus).
We’re Kelly and Julie, and we’re Here to Find Love: a show where two Asian American dating coaches go deep on frothy sh!t. We post reality TV dating show analysis and Bachelor recap videos. Welcome to HTFL! (And in case you're wondering: this is a spoiler-free Bachelor podcast!)
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29 Aug 2024
Jenn’s anxious fairytale | The Bachelorette recap: Jenn’s fantasy suites & Men Tell All
Fantasy suites brought us *two* surprise confessions of love, and if we’re being honest, neither of them felt great.
In this Bachelorette recap of Jenn Tran’s season episodes 8 & 9, we deep dive into Jenn’s connection with Marcus and why she’s so invested in making their relationship work when there’s little reciprocation— and why one of us (for better or worse... er, well, mostly for worse) actually swooned just a little over them this week.
Then, we get to the Devin of it all. Devin spirals with doubt, Jenn confesses she doesn’t know how to be in a healthy relationship, and they finish with “I love you’s” prompting us to dig into how the conversation could’ve really gone—if they were being honest.
We’re Kelly and Julie, and we’re Here to Find Love: a show where two Asian American dating coaches go deep on frothy sh!t. We post reality TV dating show analysis and Bachelor recap videos. Welcome to HTFL! (And in case you're wondering: this is a spoiler-free Bachelor podcast!)
Watch the live recording of this podcast on our YouTube channel: youtube.com/HereToFindLove (http://youtube.com/HereToFindLove)
Get personal with us on Instagram: @heretofindloveshow (https://www.instagram.com/heretofindloveshow/)
21 Aug 2024
Are Jenn’s men falling behind? | The Bachelorette recap: Jenn’s hometowns
Why did Jenn’s hometown dates feel so… concerning?
It’s hometowns week on Jenn Tran’s season of The Bachelorette (Season 21, Episode 7). Usually hometowns is a big ol’ nothing-burger, but Jenn’s hometowns with Devin, Jeremy, Jonathon, and Marcus actually raised many new questions and concerns about her final four men and the relationships she has with each of them. Devin says I love you to Jenn, but the rest of the men seem to be way far behind in terms of their feelings for her. Jeremy goes home for it, but Jonathon and Marcus both also seem to be struggling to emotionally get there with Jenn.
In this Bachelorette recap, we dig into why Jenn’s final men all seem to be hesitating now that we’re getting to the end of the season, how Marcus became the new unavailable man in Jenn’s life, and how Jenn get still get the happy ending she deserves.
We’re Kelly and Julie, and we’re Here to Find Love: a show where two Asian American dating coaches go deep on frothy sh!t. We post reality TV dating show analysis and Bachelor recap videos. Welcome to HTFL! (And in case you're wondering: this is a spoiler-free Bachelor podcast!)
Watch the live recording of this podcast on our YouTube channel: youtube.com/HereToFindLove (http://youtube.com/HereToFindLove)
Get personal with us on Instagram: @heretofindloveshow (https://www.instagram.com/heretofindloveshow/)
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