Hermit Haven is a cozy, safe space for women seeking self-growth, healing, and inspiration. Hosted by Ashley and Jacqui, this podcast offers heartfelt conversations about personal transformation, overcoming challenges, and becoming your truest self. Whether you're sipping coffee or on the go, join us for supportive, judgment-free discussions that empower you to embrace your journey at your own pace. Welcome to the community where hermits unite! đâ¨
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We all have dreams.
Some are big and sparkly. Some are quiet little dreams weâve barely told anyone about. And some start as nothing more than a tiny thought: Wouldnât it be cool ifâŚ?
But dreaming is only the beginning.
At some point, you have to start showing up for the dream. And then you have to keep showing up.
Not perfectly. Not without getting distracted. Not without changing your plan.
Just consistently enough that one day you look around and realize:
Wait⌠this thing I dreamed about is actually happening. đ¤
As we sit here recording Episode 99 and getting ready to celebrate 100 episodes of Hermit Haven, weâve been thinking about how we actually got here.
It wasnât one giant moment.
It was one conversation. One recording. One episode. One week. Then another.
We built this podcast while raising babies, working, managing families, living through busy seasons, dealing with sick days and technical problems, and figuring things out as we went.
We didnât wait for life to become perfectly calm.
We kept making room for something that mattered to us.
In this episode, weâre talking about what it really means to pursue a dream and keep showing up for it, even when life gets messy.
In this episode:
Why everyone deserves to have dreams that are their own
The difference between dreaming about something and taking action toward it
What âkeep showing upâ actually looks like in real life
Why consistency doesnât mean perfection
Building something while raising kids and living a full life
How to keep going when your original plan changes
Why you donât need to know exactly how youâll get there
How your consistent actions shape the person youâre becoming
What to do when you get distracted, discouraged, or off track
Asking yourself what your dream is actually asking from you
The full-circle feeling of being just one episode away from 100
We couldnât have known when we started Hermit Haven that weâd one day be sitting here recording Episode 99.
We just kept showing up.
And maybe thatâs the magic.
You dream about the life you want, you take the next step, you adjust when you need to, and you keep going.
Until one day you look around and realize -
Oh my gosh. We actually did it. â¨
xoxo,
Ashley & Jacqui
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30 Sept 2026
98: What If You Said Yes Without Knowing How It Would End?
What if you said yes without knowing exactly how it would work out?
Itâs so easy to want a guarantee before we begin. We want to know that the job will work out, the idea will succeed, the relationship will last, the dream will happen, or the effort will be worth it.
But we canât control the outcome.
We can control how we show up, how much effort we put in, what we learn, how we respond when things donât go according to plan, and whether weâre willing to try again.
And sometimes, even when something doesnât turn out the way we hoped, we still walk away with something valuable.
An experience.
A lesson.
A new skill.
A new perspective.
A story weâll probably laugh about later. đ
In this episode, weâre talking about what happens when we stop requiring a guarantee before weâre willing to say yes.
Weâre sharing our own experience with starting Hermit Haven, what weâve learned from putting ourselves out there without knowing where it would lead, and why course-correcting doesnât mean youâre failing.
Because you donât have to know how something will end to know itâs worth experiencing. đ¤
In this episode:
Why weâre sometimes afraid to say yes to new experiences
The fear of failing, wasting time, or making the wrong decision
Saying yes for the experience, not just the outcome
What starting Hermit Haven taught us about taking a chance
The difference between controlling the work and controlling the outcome
What we can learn when something doesnât work out
Why course-correcting is part of the process
The airplane analogy and why getting slightly off course doesnât mean youâve failed
Asking âWhat if it works?â instead of always asking âWhat if it doesnât?â
Thinking about what you might be willing to say yes to
Maybe the goal isnât to know exactly where every yes will take you.
Maybe sometimes you just have to take the first step and let the experience show you what comes next. â¨
xoxo,
Ashley & Jacqui
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23 Sept 2026
97: Why Every Moment Matters
What if we stopped rushing toward the next thing long enough to actually notice the life we're living right now?
Itâs so easy to spend our days thinking about whatâs coming next. Getting through this week. Getting to the next season. Reaching the next goal. Waiting for things to calm down.
And sometimes we donât realize how much of our lives weâre experiencing while weâre busy waiting for the next part to begin.
That doesnât mean we have to love every moment. Some moments are hard, exhausting, messy, boring, or chaotic. We donât have to romanticize those things or pretend theyâre something theyâre not.
But maybe thereâs something beautiful about being present enough to experience them anyway.
The moments that become meaningful memories arenât always the big ones. Sometimes theyâre the ordinary conversations, the random adventures, the little family traditions, the people who surprised us, or the things we almost said no to.
Sometimes we donât even realize weâre living a memory until weâre looking back on it.
In this episode, weâre talking about what it means to appreciate the moments weâre given and how being more present can make us more open to the people, experiences, and memories that make our lives meaningful. đ¤
In this episode:
Why weâre so quick to rush toward whatâs next
The difference between loving a moment and being present for it
How being present can change the way we see other people
Letting go of first impressions and staying curious about peopleâs stories
Being more open to new experiences
Collecting memories instead of simply checking boxes
The little moments we donât realize will become memories
Simple ways to slow down and notice the life happening around us
Maybe every moment doesnât need to be extraordinary, but rather it just needs to be experienced. ⨠xoxo,
Ashley & Jacqui
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