High Vibe Divorce

About High Vibe Divorce

High Vibe Divorce is a place where divorce, wellness, and spirituality meet. High Vibe Divorce is hosted by a family law mediator, divorcee, and recovering divorce litigator of 10 years, Melissa Wheeler Farag. On this podcast, Melissa and featured guests discuss how divorce can be a catalyst for a more fulfilling, authentic, and transformed life. This isn’t a place to bemoan the horrors and pain points of divorce; this is a place to look for higher vibe solutions and optimism. The only way out is through.

Publisher

Melissa Wheeler Farag

Category

education · religion & spirituality · society & culture

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

1 Jul 2024

Latest episode

16 Sept 2026

Latest episodes

54 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   16 Sept 2026

   54 - Clearing Patterns to Create Extraordinary Love After Divorce with Riana Malia

   What if the relationship patterns you keep repeating aren’t conscious choices at all? In Episode 54 of High Vibe Divorce, Melissa sits down with Riana Malia, Board-Certified Integrative Neurosomatic Practitioner and Identity Architect, to explore how unconscious patterns can shape who we choose, what feels familiar, and the kind of love we allow ourselves to receive. Riana shares her Clear, Create, Claim framework for releasing old stories and patterns, rebuilding self-trust, and creating a new identity after divorce. She also opens up about her own journey through divorce, betrayal, an abusive relationship, forgiveness, and ultimately finding extraordinary love. In this episode, we discuss: Why we can be drawn to familiar relationship dynamics—even unhealthy ones How divorce can become a catalyst for redefining who you are The difference between being in your story and standing on your story Why creating a different future may require you to stop continually telling the old story Rebuilding trust in your ”picker” after divorce Forgiveness without excusing behavior or abandoning boundaries Dating after divorce and recognizing healthier relationship patterns Riana’s Clear, Create, Claim approach to transformation Whether you’re newly divorced, considering dating again, or simply ready to stop repeating old patterns, this episode is an invitation to ask: Who do I want to be now—and what kind of love am I ready to create? About Riana Malia: Riana is the creator of the Extraordinary Love Method™ and Extraordinary Love Index™ and author of The Last Piece on Substack. Start with her 30-question Extraordinary Love Index at taketheeli.com. Hosted by Melissa Wheeler Farag, Family Law Mediator and Recovering Divorce Litigator. Subscribe, rate, review, and share High Vibe Divorce with someone who could use this conversation. Keep the vibes high and the conflict low.

2. 

   19 Aug 2026

   53 - Redefining Family: Two Divorced Attorneys on Co-Parenting, Mediation, and Regulating Through Divorce

   In Episode 53 of High Vibe Divorce, Melissa sits down with Rebecca Tierney and Chris Koepsel, co-founders of Redefining Family—two attorneys turned mediators, divorce coaches, and co-parenting coaches who bring a uniquely personal perspective to their work: they were once married to each other. After meeting in law school, building careers in Big Law, marrying, having two children, and eventually divorcing, Rebecca and Chris learned how to restructure their family and become allies as co-parents. Nearly eight years later, they now run a divorce practice together, helping other families navigate separation with greater intention, compassion, and clarity. Melissa, Rebecca, and Chris discuss divorce as a restructuring rather than an ending, creating detailed parenting plans that reduce future conflict, evolving parenting schedules as children grow, gender roles and invisible labor, and helping a former spouse step into new parenting responsibilities. They also explore the emotional side of divorce—including grief, identity shifts, family-of-origin conditioning, nervous system regulation, and the particular challenges men can face finding community and support after separation. Rebecca and Chris share simple practices for staying grounded and explain why divorce can ultimately become an opportunity to reconsider who you are, what you value, and how you want to show up as a parent. In this episode: Divorce as a family restructuring Co-parenting after an amicable—or not-so-amicable—split Creating parenting plans that provide structure and flexibility The “leading” versus “lagging” spouse Gender roles and invisible labor after divorce Supporting dads as they step into more active parenting roles Nervous system regulation and wellness during divorce Finding community and support after separation Turning divorce into an opportunity for growth Rebecca and Chris offer divorce and co-parenting coaching nationwide and mediation and limited-scope legal services in California through Redefining Family. Connect with Redefining Family: redefiningfamily.com Instagram & Social Media: @RedefiningFamilyLA High Vibe Divorce is hosted by Melissa Wheeler Farag, family law mediator and recovering divorce litigator. Until next time, keep the vibes high and the conflict low.

3. 

   15 Apr 2026

   52 - Embrace Change and GROW with Ryah Arthur

   Episode 52: Embrace Change and GROW with Ryah Arthur In this episode, Melissa sits down with wellness coach and former professional surfer Ryah Arthur to explore how movement, community, and daily habits can support healing during divorce and major life transitions. They discuss the power of getting out of your head and into your body, building discipline as a form of self-love, and creating resilience through small, consistent actions. Ryah shares his 90-day GROW program, which focuses on hydration, nutrition, sleep, movement, and stress regulation—tailored to each individual’s life and needs. If you’re feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or disconnected, this conversation is a reminder that transformation starts with simple, intentional steps—and the support of a strong community. Affirmation: “I use the creative power of my personal vibration. I speak it into being.” Connect with Ryah: ryaharthur.com | @ryaharthur

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Apple Podcasts (US)

5.0 / 5

4 ratings

Spotify

5.0 / 5

16 ratings

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