HisNHers Unfiltered

About HisNHers Unfiltered

His & Hers: Unfiltered is where real relationships meet real conversations. Hosted by husband-and-wife duo Joia and Torrence, this isn't your typical relationship podcast. We're bringing honest, unfiltered discussions about love, marriage, dating, family, money, entrepreneurship, pop culture, and everything in between—without the sugarcoating. Every week, we sit down with a signature cocktail in hand and tackle the conversations everyone is having behind closed doors but few are willing to have out loud. From modern dating struggles and marriage realities to viral relationship debates, Black culture, trending topics, and the challenges of building a life together, no topic is off-limits. Expect bold opinions, healthy disagreements, plenty of laughs, and a fresh perspective from both the male and female point of view. Whether you're single, dating, married, divorced, situationship-ing, or simply trying to make sense of today's relationship landscape, you'll find yourself somewhere in these conversations. Each episode features: 🥂 The Signature Sip – A custom cocktail inspired by the week's topic 🎙️ Straight, No Chaser – Unfiltered discussion on the main topic 🍸 Sip or Tell – A game where honesty is tested and secrets may spill 📱 Y'all Said What? – Listener questions, hot takes, and social media drama ⚖️ The Verdict – Final thoughts and takeaways from both sides At the end of the day, we're not relationship experts—we're just a real married couple sharing our experiences, perspectives, wins, mistakes, and lessons learned along the way. So grab a drink, pull up a chair, and join the conversation. Welcome to His & Hers: Unfiltered—where the conversations are honest, the opinions are bold, and the drinks are always flowing. New episodes weekly. Subscribe and join the family

Publisher

Joia & Torrence

Category

comedy · society & culture · society & culture

Language

en

Explicit

Yes

First episode

8 Jun 2026

Latest episode

8 Oct 2026

Latest episodes

19 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   8 Oct 2026

   You Want a Traditional Partner... But Are YOU Traditional?

   Everybody wants a traditional partner. But how many people actually want the responsibilities that come with a traditional relationship? Men want feminine, supportive women. Women want protective, providing men. But once money, housework, childcare, leadership, career sacrifices, submission and responsibility enter the conversation, "traditional" can start looking a lot more complicated. This week, Joia and Torrence put traditional relationships under the microscope, including their own marriage. What does a traditional man actually owe his woman? What does a traditional woman owe her man? Can you expect traditional gender roles while keeping the modern ones that benefit you? And what happens when being traditional actually costs you something? Because maybe the real question isn't whether you can find a traditional partner. Are YOU traditional enough to be one? Listen now and decide where you fall. HisNHers Unfiltered: Where Black Love, Culture & Conversation Collide.

2. 

   1 Oct 2026

   Black Men vs. Black Women: When Did Love Become a Gender War?

   Social media would have you believe Black men and Black women are at war. Black women are "too masculine." Black men are "dusty." Women need to "date out." Men need to "get their passports." Provider, submission, masculinity, femininity, and dating conversations have turned into entire online communities built around telling one side exactly what's wrong with the other. But how much of that reflects real life? In this episode of HisNHers Unfiltered, Joia and Torrence ask a bigger question: Do Black men and Black women really have a relationship problem, or have we built a profitable culture around convincing each other that we're the problem? They unpack the difference between accountability and contempt, how individual hurt becomes collective accusations, the role algorithms and outrage play in amplifying gender-war content, and why validating someone's anger isn't necessarily the same as helping them heal. They also tackle Passport Bros, provider and submission debates, and what happens when Black boys and girls grow up hearing constant messages that the opposite sex within their own community is the enemy. Because this conversation is bigger than dating. Black men and Black women are mothers and sons, fathers and daughters, brothers and sisters, friends, coworkers, business partners, parents, husbands, wives, and members of the same community. Maybe ending the gender war doesn't require agreement on everything. Maybe it requires goodwill. Welcome to HisNHers Unfiltered, where Black Love, Culture & Conversation Collide. Real. Raw. Unfiltered.

3. 

   24 Sept 2026

   Relationship Draft: What If You Could Build the Perfect Partner?

   What happens when a husband and wife have to build their "perfect partner" from the same 15 relationship traits? In this episode of HisNHers Unfiltered, Joia and Torrence are officially on the clock for the 2026 Relationship Draft. We each get five picks. Once a trait is drafted, it's OFF the board. Loyalty. Trustworthiness. Great sex. Financial stability. Emotional intelligence. Physical attraction. Accountability. Peace. Ambition. Communication. And more. But every pick comes with a catch: a hidden relationship question designed to expose WHY we value what we value. Then we put our final rosters to the test with a Steal, a no-explanation Rapid Fire, and the ultimate question: Did we actually build our perfect partners... or did we expose ourselves? Some of these picks surprised us. Some started debates. And a few might have you looking at your own relationship very differently. So you're officially on the clock: You have the #1 overall pick and all 15 relationship traits are available. What are YOU drafting first, and why? 🥂 Welcome to HisNHers Unfiltered, where Black love, culture and conversations collide. Follow @HisNHersUnfiltered if you want to hear BOTH sides of the conversation. #HisNHersUnfiltered #RelationshipDraft #Relationships #BlackLove #RelationshipPodcast #Marriage #RelationshipAdvice

4. 

   17 Sept 2026

   You Don’t Trust Them… So Why Are You Still There?

   What happens when trust is broken in a relationship… but you decide to stay? You forgave them. You stayed. But now you’re checking phones, questioning stories, watching locations, second-guessing decisions and waiting for the next reason not to believe them. So are you actually rebuilding trust—or just staying in a relationship with someone you no longer trust? In this episode of His & Hers: Unfiltered, Joia and Torrence unpack trust issues in relationships, rebuilding trust after betrayal, privacy vs. secrecy, reassurance vs. surveillance, and the uncomfortable reality of choosing to stay after trust has been broken. And trust isn't just about cheating. Can you trust your partner with money? Their judgment? Business decisions? Their friendships? Can you disagree with a decision your spouse makes and still trust them enough to make it? As a married couple and entrepreneurs, Joia and Torrence also get into what trust looks like when marriage and business collide—and why trusting someone's judgment can become just as important as trusting their fidelity. Then we're playing Trust Issue or Red Flag? Is your suspicion coming from insecurity, past relationship trauma or fear—or is your partner's behavior giving you a legitimate reason not to trust them? This week's Signature Sip is The Alibi. 🥃 If someone breaks your trust, they have a responsibility to become trustworthy again. But if you choose to stay, is there eventually a responsibility to allow the relationship to heal? Because staying and rebuilding aren't necessarily the same thing. So let's have the conversation: Can a relationship fully recover after trust has been broken? His & Hers: Unfiltered — Where Black Love, Culture & Conversation Collide. #HisNHersUnfiltered

5. 

   10 Sept 2026

   Is It Cheating... If You Never Touched Them?

   Can you cheat on your partner without ever physically touching another person? No sex. No kiss. Maybe you've never even been in the same room. But what about the DMs you deleted? The coworker you've gotten a little too close to? The ex who still has access? The person you vent to about your relationship? Or the attention you keep entertaining because technically... “nothing happened.” In Episode 14 of His & Hers: Unfiltered, Joia and Torrence are getting into the gray areas of infidelity and asking a bigger question: Where does cheating actually begin? Is it the physical act—or can the betrayal happen long before anybody ever touches? We're talking emotional affairs, flirting, secret DMs, deleted messages, work husbands and work wives, exes, “backup options,” digital sexual content, privacy vs. secrecy, and the difference between something being disrespectful and actually being cheating. And we're putting one definition to the test: INTENTION + SECRECY + ACTION. If your intention is outside the boundaries of your relationship, you're hiding what you're doing because you know it would violate your partner's trust, and you take action to pursue or entertain it anyway... does it really matter that you never got the opportunity to finish? Because “nothing happened” doesn't necessarily mean nothing was happening. This week's Signature Sip is The Side Piece—a strawberry whiskey cocktail that's sweet, smooth, tempting and goes down a little too easy... which is probably how you got yourself into this situation in the first place. So where do YOU draw the line? Is it cheating if you never touched them? His & Hers: Unfiltered — Where Black Love, Culture & Conversation Collide.

6. 

   3 Sept 2026

   Great Chemistry... Terrible Compatibility

   Have you ever had INSANE chemistry with someone you had absolutely no business building a life with? The attraction is there. The conversation flows. The sex is amazing. You can't stay away from each other... But when it comes to money, communication, children, ambition, lifestyle, values or how you actually want to live your lives—you don't work. In Episode 13 of His & Hers: Unfiltered, Joia and Torrence are breaking down the difference between chemistry and compatibility—and why confusing the two can keep us in relationships long past their expiration date. We're talking about whether butterflies are always a good thing, why chaos can sometimes feel like passion, how great sex can make us negotiate with red flags, and what happens when someone checks every box on paper... but there's no spark. We also get into the compatibility issues that actually matter when you're trying to build a life together: money, children, ambition, lifestyle, values, communication and sexual compatibility. Plus, what happens when the qualities that attracted you to someone become the exact things you can't stand years later? And are you actually compatible with the person you're dating, or with the potential version of them you've created in your head? This week's Signature Sip is Toxic Attraction, because sometimes something can look good, feel good and have you coming right back for more... even when you KNOW it isn't good for you. The question we're answering: Would you rather have 10/10 chemistry and 5/10 compatibility—or 7/10 chemistry and 10/10 compatibility? Because chemistry can make you fall in love. Compatibility determines whether you can actually build a life together. His & Hers: Unfiltered — Where Black Love, Culture & Conversation Collide.

7. 

   27 Aug 2026

   Are You in Love... or Just Codependent?

   We hear it all the time after a breakup or divorce: I'm finally getting back to me. Suddenly they're traveling again, reconnecting with friends, getting back in the gym, rediscovering old hobbies and celebrating their newfound freedom. But that raises an uncomfortable question: If becoming single feels like getting yourself back... where did YOU go? In this episode of His & Hers: Unfiltered, Joia and Torrence unpack the complicated line between deep love, healthy dependence and codependency—and whether we've romanticized losing ourselves in relationships. Can your partner be your best friend without becoming your entire social life? Is wanting to do everything together romantic or unhealthy? Should married couples have separate friends, hobbies and experiences? And why can a partner's individual growth sometimes feel threatening? They also tackle the other extreme: hyper-independence. Because the answer to codependency isn't I don't need anybody. Healthy relationships require vulnerability, reliance and sometimes genuinely needing the person you've chosen to build a life with. The goal isn't complete independence. It's healthy interdependence—being able to build an us without erasing the me. This week's Signature Sip is The Other Half, inspired by another phrase we love to romanticize. But maybe two healthy people aren't two halves trying to become whole. Maybe they're two whole people intentionally choosing to build one life. So ask yourself: If your relationship ended tomorrow, what parts of your life and identity would still belong completely to YOU? Because you shouldn't have to become single again just to remember who you are. His & Hers: Unfiltered — Where Black Love, Culture & Conversation Collide.

8. 

   20 Aug 2026

   What Would YOU Do?

   What would you do if the person you love put you in a situation where there was no obvious right answer? In this episode of His & Hers: Unfiltered, Joia and Torrence put themselves—and each other—to the test with 10 relationship dilemmas where love, loyalty, trust, attraction, money, family, and boundaries collide. What happens when you still love your partner but the attraction is gone? Would you uproot your life for their dream opportunity? Is secretly giving thousands of dollars to family an act of loyalty—or financial betrayal? How close is too close with an ex? And when your partner's family crosses the line, whose responsibility is it to check them? From hidden debt and opposite-sex friendships to blended families, co-parenting, career sacrifices, and prenups, these aren't situations with easy answers. They're the kind of decisions that force you to figure out what you really believe about love, commitment, forgiveness, and your own boundaries. Then Joia and Torrence pull out the paddles for Let It Slide or Crash Out, where there's no time to overthink it—just pick a side and defend it. This week's Signature Sip is The Crossroads, because sometimes relationships bring you to a place where there isn't a perfect choice. You just have to decide which direction you're going. So grab your Signature Sip and play along. Which scenario would have YOU completely torn? And most importantly... what would YOU do? His & Hers: Unfiltered — Where Black Love, Culture & Conversation Collide.

9. 

   13 Aug 2026

   The Hardest Relationship to Build... Is After Kids

   Nobody warns you how much having kids can change your relationship. You can love your children deeply, become amazing parents... and somewhere between the school schedules, practices, bills, bedtime routines, and exhaustion, realize you've stopped being intentional about each other. In this episode of His & Hers: Unfiltered, Joia and Torrence get real about what happens to relationships after kids—and why becoming great parents doesn't automatically mean you're still being great partners. They unpack the shift from lovers to co-managers, what happens to intimacy and connection when parenting consumes your energy, and the challenge of remembering who you were before everything became about the kids. The conversation also gets personal as Joia reflects on how single motherhood shaped the way she entered marriage, while Torrence shares the male perspective of dating a single mother, finding his place in an already-established family, and building trust without trying to replace the parent who came before him. Plus, they get into dating with kids, blended families, co-parenting boundaries, discipline, and one question every parent in a relationship should consider: If your child's future relationship looked exactly like yours... would you be proud? This week's Signature Sip is After Hours, their take on a classic Lemon Drop—because after the homework, practices, bedtime routines, and responsibilities are handled, your relationship still deserves your attention. The kids will grow up. The schedules will eventually slow down. The house will get quiet. The question is: Will you still know each other when it does? Grab your Signature Sip and join the conversation. Real. Raw. Unfiltered.

10. 

    6 Aug 2026

    Strong Black Woman... But At What Cost? (The Conversation We Need to Have)

    Being a Strong Black Woman has never been the problem. For many women, strength wasn't a choice—it was survival. But what happens when the very habits that helped you survive begin to make it harder to trust, receive love, and build a healthy partnership? In this episode of His & Hers: Unfiltered, Joia and Torrence tackle one of the most honest conversations they've had yet. Joia shares her personal journey from single motherhood and hyper-independence to learning how to trust, receive, and allow her husband to lead. Torrence offers a man's perspective on loving someone who has spent years believing they had to carry everything alone. Together, they explore: • The difference between survival and partnership • Why hyper-independence can quietly sabotage intimacy • The cost of always being "the strong one" • Learning to trust after years of doing everything yourself • What healthy leadership really looks like in a relationship • How our children learn about love by watching us Plus, this week's Signature Sip, The Armor, is a bold whiskey cocktail that reminds us that while armor may protect us, it can also keep the right people out. Whether you're single, dating, married, or healing from past relationships, this conversation is an invitation to ask yourself one question: Is your strength protecting you... or preventing you from experiencing the love you've been praying for? Grab your Signature Sip, join the conversation, and don't forget to subscribe, rate, and share with someone who needs to hear it. The Video will be available at 7pm EST

11. 

    30 Jul 2026

    When Little Things Become BIG Things...

    They're just little things." We've all said it. The late replies. The lack of affection. The money habits. The family dynamics. The friendships. The communication style. The little annoyances we convince ourselves don't really matter. ...until one day, they do. In this episode of His & Hers: Unfiltered, Joia and Torrence dive into the "fine print" of relationships—the habits, behaviors, and differences we often ignore while dating that eventually become some of the biggest sources of conflict. Are we overlooking red flags because we're in love? Should every issue be a dealbreaker? Or are some things only revealed with time? Pour up this week's Signature Sip, The Fine Print, and join the conversation as we discuss: • The little things couples dismiss too quickly • Why compatibility is more than chemistry • When compromise becomes settling • The difference between a preference and a dealbreaker • Why "it doesn't matter" can become "I can't do this anymore" Sometimes it's not the big moments that end relationships... It's the things we thought would never matter. Love. Culture. Unfiltered Conversation. #HisAndHersUnfiltered #Relationships #RelationshipPodcast #BlackLove #DatingAdvice #Marriage #Communication #HealthyRelationships #RelationshipGoals #Love #SelfGrowth #Accountability

12. 

    23 Jul 2026

    Mind Your Business... Until When!?

    YouTube & Captivate Description Episode 7: Mind Your Business... Until When? Everyone has heard the phrase "Mind your business." But is there ever a point when staying silent does more harm than speaking up? In this episode of His & Hers: Unfiltered, Torrence and Joia tackle one of the most uncomfortable questions in relationships and family dynamics: When is it your place to step in—and when should you stay out of it? From toxic relationships and cheating to abusive situations, enabling loved ones, and knowing when to protect your peace, this conversation explores the blurry line between respecting boundaries and showing up for the people you love. As always, the conversation gets real with honest perspectives, personal experiences, and plenty of accountability. This week's Signature Sip is The Gray Area, a refreshing cocktail inspired by the fact that not every situation is black and white. In This Episode: Does "mind your business" always apply? When should family or friends intervene in a relationship? Are you helping... or enabling? The difference between support and interference. When silence becomes complicity. Our Sip or Tell game. Real listener scenarios in Y'all Said What?! The Verdict: Knowing when to step in—and when to let go. Whether you're single, dating, married, or somewhere in between, this episode will challenge you to think differently about boundaries, accountability, and what it truly means to care about someone. If you enjoyed this conversation, be sure to Like, Comment, Subscribe, and Share with someone who's ever had to decide whether to mind their business... or get involved. Follow us everywhere: Instagram: @HisNHersUnfiltered TikTok: @HisNHersUnfiltered Facebook: HisnHers Unfiltered Join the Conversation at: www.hisnhersunfiltered.com New episodes every Thursday. Love. Culture. Unfiltered Conversation. #Relationships #RelationshipPodcast #BlackLove #DatingAdvice #Marriage #Boundaries #Accountability #Podcast #HisAndHersUnfiltered #BlackPodcast

13. 

    16 Jul 2026

    Love Isn't Hard, Maybe Loving YOU Is

    In this episode of His & Hers: Unfiltered, we're challenging one of the biggest myths in modern relationships. Too often we blame dating, marriage, or our partners when the real issue may be staring back at us in the mirror. We're talking accountability, emotional maturity, communication, unrealistic expectations, healing from past trauma, and the habits that quietly sabotage healthy relationships. Because sometimes the hardest part of love isn't finding the right person—it's becoming the right partner. 🥂 This week's Signature Sip: The Gray Area—because relationships aren't always black and white. In this episode, we discuss: • Why accountability is so hard in relationships • Signs you might be the difficult partner • Communication vs. constant conflict • Healing before expecting someone else to heal you • How pride, ego, and past experiences affect love • When compromise is healthy—and when it isn't • The difference between being misunderstood and being unwilling to grow • The gray areas that every relationship has to navigate Plus, we dive into Sip & Tell, Y'all Said WHAT?!, and give our unfiltered verdict on whether love is really difficult... or if sometimes, loving us is. 🎙️ Where Black Love, Culture & Conversation Collide. Follow & Connect Instagram: @HisNHersUnfiltered TikTok: @HisNHersUnfiltered YouTube: @HisNHersUnfiltered Facebook: HisnHers Unfiltered Website: www.HisNHersUnfiltered.com #Relationships #Marriage #Dating #BlackLove #Communication #RelationshipAdvice #Accountability #HisAndHersUnfiltered

14. 

    9 Jul 2026

    At What Point Is It YOUR Fault?

    Everybody wants a healthy relationship—but are you willing to take an honest look at the role you play? In this episode of His & Hers: Unfiltered, we're having the conversation most people avoid: personal accountability. It's easy to blame exes, bad dating experiences, or "all men" or "all women," but at what point do we stop pointing fingers and start looking in the mirror? We're discussing how your communication style, emotional maturity, unresolved trauma, defensiveness, and daily habits can either strengthen your relationships—or slowly destroy them. This episode isn't about blame. It's about growth. In this episode: 🥃 Our Signature Sip of the Week 🗣️ Straight, No Chaser: At What Point Is It YOUR Fault? 🎲 Sip or Tell – Our hottest relationship game yet 📢 Y'all Said WHAT?! – We react to your anonymous relationship stories and opinions ⚖️ The Verdict – Our final thoughts and takeaways We discuss: • Why accountability is so hard • Are you repeating the same relationship patterns? • The difference between confidence and defensiveness • How emotional maturity changes relationships • What attracts emotionally healthy partners • Why healing is your responsibility—not your partner's • The habits that quietly sabotage good relationships • How to know when you're the common denominator Whether you're single, dating, engaged, or married, this episode will challenge you to stop asking, "Why does this keep happening to me?" and start asking, "What can I do differently?" Drop your thoughts in the comments: At what point do we have to admit we're part of the problem? If you enjoyed this episode, don't forget to: 👍 Like this video 💬 Join the conversation in the comments 🔔 Subscribe for new episodes every week Follow us everywhere: Instagram: @HisnHersUnfiltered TikTok: @HisnHersUnfiltered Facebook: HisnHers Unfiltered YouTube:@ HisnHersUnfiltered #HisAndHersUnfiltered #RelationshipPodcast #DatingAdvice #Marriage #Relationships #Communication #SelfReflection #EmotionalIntelligence #PersonalGrowth #BlackLove #Dating #Podcast

15. 

    2 Jul 2026

    Would. YOU. Stay?

    Everybody says they'd leave... until it's their relationship. In this episode of His & Hers: Unfiltered, we're putting love, loyalty, and dealbreakers to the ultimate test. We tackle some of the toughest relationship scenarios and ask one simple question: Would. You. Stay? From secret children and infidelity to emotional betrayal, financial struggles, and major life changes, we're debating what deserves a second chance—and what should end a relationship for good. Is cheating always a dealbreaker? Could you forgive a life-changing lie? Does love conquer all, or are some boundaries meant to stay non-negotiable? As always, Joia and Torrence don't always agree... and that's exactly what makes the conversation worth having. In This Episode: Would you stay after infidelity? Is emotional cheating worse than physical cheating? Could a secret child destroy a marriage? Is severe weight gain a dealbreaker? When does forgiveness become settling? Are some lies impossible to recover from? Sip or Tell: Red Flag or Reach 🚩 The Verdict: Where do you draw the line? Join the Conversation Would YOU stay? Tell us in the comments or connect with us on social media. We want to hear your take! 📱 Instagram: @HisNHersUnfiltered 🎵 TikTok: @HisNHersUnfiltered ▶️ YouTube: @HisNHersUnfiltered 📘 Facebook: HisnHers Unfiltered 📧 Email: cheers@hisnhersunfiltered.com (mailto:cheers@hisnhersunfiltered.com) 🌐 Website: www.hisnhersunfiltered.com (http://www.hisnhersunfiltered.com) If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow, rate, and leave a review. It helps us reach more people and continue creating the conversations everyone is thinking—but few are having. Remember… Real. Raw. Unfiltered. Because where his side and her side meet, there's always room for the conversation.

16. 

    25 Jun 2026

    Is It love?... Or Just Attachment

    Is it love... or just attachment? In Episode 3 of His & Hers: Unfiltered, Joia and Torrence tackle one of the most misunderstood topics in relationships: the difference between love and attachment. Have you ever stayed because you genuinely loved someone—or because you were comfortable, afraid to start over, or emotionally dependent? From soul ties and trauma bonds to companionship, security, and fear of being alone, we're unpacking the reasons people stay in relationships long after the love may be gone. In this episode, we discuss: The difference between love and attachment Signs you're attached but not in love Trauma bonds and unhealthy relationship patterns Fear of loneliness and starting over Why people stay in relationships that no longer serve them How attachment can be mistaken for love Building healthier emotional connections Plus, we're sipping on our Signature Sip: the Delulu Daiquiri, sharing listener submissions, and giving our verdict on whether your relationship is rooted in genuine love or something else entirely. So be honest... Are you in love with the person—or attached to the feeling? Subscribe for weekly conversations about relationships, marriage, culture, entrepreneurship, and life's hottest debates.

17. 

    18 Jun 2026

    Is Marriage Still Worth It?

    Is marriage still worth it in 2026? With divorce rates, changing relationship dynamics, social media influence, and more people choosing to remain single, it's a question many people are asking. In this episode of His & Hers: Unfiltered, Joia and Torrence tackle one of the biggest relationship debates of our generation. From the benefits of partnership and building wealth together to the challenges of communication, commitment, sacrifice, and modern expectations, we're discussing the realities of marriage—the good, the bad, and everything in between. In this episode: • Why fewer people are choosing marriage • The benefits and challenges of married life • Social media's impact on relationship expectations • Traditional vs. modern marriage roles • Financial partnerships and building together • What marriage has taught us personally • Whether marriage is still worth pursuing today Plus, we share our Signature Sip, answer listener questions, and give our final verdict on whether marriage is still a worthwhile commitment in today's world. So what's your take? Is marriage still worth it, or has the institution become outdated? Drop your thoughts in the comments and join the conversation. Follow His & Hers: Unfiltered for weekly conversations on relationships, marriage, culture, entrepreneurship, and everything in between. #HisAndHersUnfiltered #Marriage #Relationships #BlackLove #MarriagePodcast #ModernRelationships #LoveAndMarriage #Couples #RelationshipAdvice #Podcast

18. 

    15 Jun 2026

    Why Dating in 2026 is So Ghetto

    In Episode 1 of His & Hers: Unfiltered, we're asking the question everybody's been thinking: Why is dating in 2026 so ghetto? From ghosting and situationships to unrealistic expectations, social media influence, dating apps, and the never-ending battle of who should pay on the first date, we're breaking down the chaos of modern dating from both the male and female perspective. Join Joia and Torrence as they share personal experiences, unpopular opinions, hard truths, and plenty of laughs while discussing what has changed in today's dating culture—and whether finding real love is harder than ever. Grab a drink and pull up a chair as we tackle: • Dating apps vs. real-life connections • Ghosting, breadcrumbing, and situationships • Social media's impact on relationships • Gender roles and dating expectations • Why so many people are frustrated with dating today • What singles can do to navigate the madness Do you think dating is harder than ever, or are people just choosing the wrong partners? Let us know your thoughts in the comments. Subscribe for weekly conversations about relationships, marriage, culture, entrepreneurship, and everything in between. #HisAndHersUnfiltered (https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/hisandhersunfiltered) #DatingIn2026 (https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/datingin2026) #ModernDating (https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/moderndating) #RelationshipPodcast (https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/relationshippodcast) #DatingApps (https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/datingapps) #BlackLove (https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/blacklove) #Marriage (https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/marriage) #Relationships (https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/relationships) #Podcast (https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/podcast) #DatingAdvice (https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/datingadvice)

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    8 Jun 2026

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