- 12
- Episodes
- 102
- Ratings
- 2024
- First episode
- 19K
- YouTube views
About Hotwife Haven
Hotwife Haven with Ember Rae is a safe & comfortable space to talk all things Hotwife, no matter your kinks or desires. Dive into the intriguing world of hotwifing with real life Hotwife Ember Rae! Whether you’re a curious couple looking to explore or have been on this journey for a while, we’re here to provide support, advice, and personal experiences. Ember shares her journey, her challenges, and her triumphs, all while fostering an open, non-judgmental space for listeners & offers a platform for encouraging & educating likeminded couples. See inside her hotwife life at Emberrae.com
- Publisher
- Hotwife Ember Rae
- Category
- society & culture
- Language
- en
- Explicit
- Yes
- First episode
- 29 Jun 2024
- Latest episode
- 28 Aug 2025
Latest episodes
12 episodes in the feed.
28 Aug 2025
Hotwife Haven Season 3 Episode 1- What, Where, Plans, Fantasies
Hotwife Haven Season 3 Episode 1! What, Where, Plans, & Fantasies Long time no talk!!! Hey there! Season 2? I know, sorry for the quick ending, sometimes I get the guys like that, too. Haha!!! I decided this episode starts season 3! I disappeared again, I know! Deployment was kicking off and I was feeling like I was being faced with a midlife crisis for some reason even though this is nothing new to me. It’s his seventh time being deployed. But I was feeling like I needed to do something more… anyways I quickly learned where I wanted to be… come hear all about it because I’m back. You know, I’m not going anywhere!!! Ready for a fire in your ear? Put your headphones in or turn up the speaker & come listen to what I’ve been doing, what our plans in terms of hotwifing are for the future, plans for the podcast, & more! I can’t wait for you to listen!!! I missed you!!!
16 Jan 2025
Hotwife Haven Season 2 Episode 5- Physical, Emotional, and Social Boundaries in the Hotwife Lifestyle.
Hotwife Ember Rae and her guests explore the importance of physical, emotional, and social boundaries in the hotwife lifestyle, offering insights on setting and navigating these limits for a successful and respectful relationship.
10 Jan 2025
Hotwife Haven Season 2 Ep 4 - MY HUSBAND COMES ON! HEAR FROM HIM!
Hotwife Haven Season 2 Ep 4- A VERY SPECIAL EPISODE!! My husband joins me & you get to hear from him! Thanks for coming back for another episode of the Hotwife Haven podcast!!! Today is an incredibly special release! FOR THE FIRST TIME EVER! YOU GET TO HEAR FROM MY STAG!!! My husband joined me on the episode and we discussed the things we get asked about the most, more about where we came from & how we started dating. You’ll hear how I’ve always been a little bit slutty, how hotwifing has been going for us, we talk about if we experience negative moments, and more on him and another woman! For our first podcast I don’t think we did too bad! We only had a small window of time to get this done but we both wanted to so badly! I got emotional at the end & had to clip it. It was inaudible with my crying. Him joining me meant the absolute world to me. I loved having this moment with him. He’s my biggest fan, as he should be, but he shows it, too! He’s definitely coming back on for more episodes so feel free to send me any questions or anything that you have for him specifically! Hes always willing to answer questions!!! ••••••••••• Thanks for listening to the Hotwife Haven Podcast! A safe & comfortable space to talk all things hotwife lifestyle, no matter your kinks or desires! If you're interested in sharing your own hotwife life stories or advice for others here in my podcast, email me at hotwifehavenpodcast@gmail.com and let's connect! All lifestyle individuals welcome! Cucks, Stags, Bulls, Vixens, Hotwives, come join us! xx, Ember Rae Find me on all of my links! www.emberrae.com www.xxemberrae.com About Host Ember Rae - Ember Rae is known as a hotwife, which means she is part of a consensual relationship where she has sexual relationships with other individuals outside her marriage, with the full knowledge and consent of her husband. She is active on platforms like Reddit, OnlyFans, Fansly, and Twitter, where she shares content related to her lifestyle. She also hosts "Hotwife Haven," a podcast where she discusses topics related to the hotwife lifestyle, sharing personal experiences, advice, and answering questions from her audience. She has been featured on various podcasts, including "Strictly Anonymous Confessions" and "Bulls & Queens," where she discusses her experiences and preferences within the lifestyle. Her public persona is centered around her love for big black cocks (BBC), her relationship dynamics with her husband (described as a stag rather than a cuckold) Beyond podcasting, Ember Rae creates adult content, often involving her sexual encounters, which she shares on platforms like Pornhub and ManyVids. She is noted for her focus on interracial content and specific kinks like size queen preferences, small penis humiliation (SPH), and cuckolding sessions. She engages with her community not just through content but also by offering sessions for humiliation or discussing the lifestyle, providing a platform for those interested in or living a similar lifestyle to connect, learn, and share. Ember Rae's activities and content are aimed at an adult audience, focusing on the exploration and celebration of alternative relationship dynamics within the context of sexual freedom and consensual non-monogamy. see more on her links at Emberrae.com (https://emberrae.com/)
8 Jan 2025
Hotwife Haven Season 2 Ep 3-Finding Her confidence, the Husband’s Role, & Challenges for Beginners
Welcome back to another episode!!! Season 2- episode 3 of the Hotwife Haven podcast! We’re discussing Her confidence, the Husband’s Role, & Challenges for Hot Wives to Step Into the Spotlight & put themselves out there ! For many wives, stepping into this lifestyle can feel intimidating. You’re putting yourself in a position to be seen, appreciated, even desired by others in ways you haven’t experienced before. That can feel overwhelming, but once you start putting yourself out there it can also be incredibly empowering. This episode will go over some things you can do as a woman to gain & embrace your confidence & sexual freedom, how your husband can support you (MEN LISTEN UP), & some sexy challenges you can do as a couple to break into the lifestyle and as a woman to try to get comfortable putting herself out there! The hot wife lifestyle is a journey of growth, connection, and mutual empowerment. It’s also not a sprint! So take it slow, enjoy the process, and celebrate each milestone together. You’ll be amazed at how much closer this can bring you as a couple. Thanks for listening to the Hotwife Haven Podcast! A safe & comfortable space to talk all things hotwife lifestyle, no matter your things or desires! If you're interested in sharing your own hotwife life stories or advice for others here in my podcast, email me at hotwifehavenpodcast@gmail.com and let's connect! All lifestyle individuals welcome! Cucks, Stags, Bulls, Vixens, Hotwives, come join us! xx, Ember Rae Find me on all of my links! www.xxemberrae.com www.emberrae.com About Host Ember Rae - Ember Rae is known as a hotwife, which means she is part of a consensual relationship where she has sexual relationships with other individuals outside her marriage, with the full knowledge and consent of her husband. She is active on platforms like Reddit, OnlyFans, Fansly, and Twitter, where she shares content related to her lifestyle. She also hosts "Hotwife Haven," a podcast where she discusses topics related to the hotwife lifestyle, sharing personal experiences, advice, and answering questions from her audience. She has been featured on various podcasts, including "Strictly Anonymous Confessions" and "Bulls & Queens," where she discusses her experiences and preferences within the lifestyle. Her public persona is centered around her love for big black cocks (BBC), her relationship dynamics with her husband (described as a stag rather than a cuckold) Beyond podcasting, Ember Rae creates adult content, often involving her sexual encounters, which she shares on platforms like Pornhub and ManyVids. She is noted for her focus on interracial content and specific kinks like size queen preferences, small penis humiliation (SPH), and cuckolding sessions. She engages with her community not just through content but also by offering sessions for humiliation or discussing the lifestyle, providing a platform for those interested in or living a similar lifestyle to connect, learn, and share. Ember Rae's activities and content are aimed at an adult audience, focusing on the exploration and celebration of alternative relationship dynamics within the context of sexual freedom and consensual non-monogamy. see more on her links at Emberrae.com
3 Jan 2025
Hotwife Haven Season 2 Ep 2 Girls, Girls, Girls. My first hotwife date ever, and addressing more assumptions
HOTWIFE HAVEN PODCAST SEASON 2 EPISODE 2 - Girls on girls, my first hotwife date ever, & addressing more assumptions! Today on Hotwife Haven Season 2- Episode 2 - I tell you all about my bisexual obsession with females, how that started pretty much everything, and how that led to so much more! I give you a walk down memory lane of my first hotwife date ever & how my husband was deployed during the whole thing & FaceTime connected him to the experience! I address some more assumptions & give you my favorite resource for finding a bull in the lifestyle who knows what he’s doing! Listen Now! emberrae.com xxemberrae.com Mentioned in the podcast are my other episodes with- Doc Chocolate Bulls and Queens Podcast, Strictly Anonymous, Adventures of a Hotwife, and Consenting Adults.
1 Jan 2025
Hotwife Haven Season 2 Episode 1- The Story of my First BBC hotwife Date ever!
HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!! Presenting SEASON 2 !!! NEW YEAR! NEW SEASON! NEW EPISODES EVERY WEDNESDAY!!!! WE AREN'T MAKING ANY EXCUSES THIS YEAR! I'm going to deliver what the people want!!! You are asking and I am listening!!! We're starting it off with my most highly requested story since the start of my podcast- the story of when I met my first BBC ever in the lifestyle! I get asked for this one a lot and what better way to start the new year than to start it and the new season with the most sought after story! Come and listen to me tell you all about my first BBC experience ever and why it's actually such a big deal this meet even happened- I had previously sworn off hotwifing forever!!! Yeah, at one point I said Id never even let another man see me naked again! Did you love listening to this? Leave a comment, and please don't forget to like and subscribe! Tune in EVERY WEDNESDAY !!! This year we are going to be sharing stories, answering Q & A's, hosting Hotwife-How-To's, helping couples connect and explore intimacy, and so much more, so keep coming back for more! Visit my link- emberrae.com to see more of me and see more into my life! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/hotwifehaven/support (https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/hotwifehaven/support)
13 Sept 2024
Hotwife Haven Season 1- Episode 6- Two Guys with one plan for a Hotwife Summer Surprise, Future Girlfriends, Current Situations, and why I'm ready for my husband's retirement!
Hey there! Welcome back to another episode of the Hotwife Haven Podcast with Hotwife Next Door- Ember Rae! This is a safe and comfortable space to talk all things hotwife lifestyle, no matter your kinks or desires! Today you're listening to episode SIX! NO I DIDNT GET FUCKED BY TWO GUYS!!! BUT TWO AMAZING GUYS PLANNED AN AMAZING ADVENTURE FOR ME!!!! And I am telling you all about my hotwife summer surprise that my husband and mister maverik pulled off! Just two guys making plans I was oblivious to! I landed in Vegas but I didn't stay there! and as the whole ass ROAD TRIP went on.. I thought... am I getting kidnapped? HA! I wasn't but I was brought to the most beautiful Air BNB I'd EVER SEEN for a weekend of nothing but sex!!!! YES!!!!! Plus I tell you where my husband and I are on bringing a female into the room, what life is currently like, and why I can't wait for him to retire! If you're interested in sharing your own hotwife life stories or advice for others here in my podcast, email me at hotwifehavenpodcast@gmail.com and let's connect! All lifestyle individuals welcome! Cucks, Stags, Bulls, Vixens, Hotwives, Swingers, Poly, whatever you are, come join us! xx, ember rae Come find me everywhere! Onlyfans, Fansly, Manyvids, PornHub & Twitter- xxemberraexx Reddit- xxemberraexx Instagram- xoemberrae Snapchat- ember_rae24 www.xxemberraexx.com www.emberrae.com --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/hotwifehaven/support (https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/hotwifehaven/support)
9 Aug 2024
Hotwife Haven Season 1 Episode 5- WHY I LOVE BBC!
Hey there! Welcome back to another episode of the Hotwife Haven Podcast with Hotwife Next Door- Ember Rae! Today on Episode 5 I'm telling you why I love BBC! And it's probably not at all what you're expecting to hear! Make sure to listen to the whole episode before leaving any comments and know that I only speak from my own experiences! Now, enjoy the Episode AND If you're interested in sharing your own hotwife life stories or advice for others here in my podcast, email me at hotwifehavenpodcast@gmail.com and let's connect! All lifestyle individuals welcome! Cucks, Stags, Bulls, Vixens, Hotwives, come join us! xx, Ember Rae Find me everywhere! Onlyfans, Fansly, Manyvids, Reddit, X/Twitter, Porn Hub- xxemberraexx Instagram(xoemberrae) ALL LINKS www.xxemberraexx.com www.emberrae.com --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/hotwifehaven/support (https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/hotwifehaven/support)
2 Aug 2024
Hotwife Haven Episode 4- Answering our most common received questions and crushing assumptions and misconceptions of the Hotwife and Cuckolding Lifestyle
xxemberraexx.com / emberrae.com Welcome back to another episode of the Hotwife Haven Podcast with Hotwife Next Door- Ember Rae! Today on Episode 4 I cover more of mine & my husband’s history; where we came from (highschool sweethearts- to now almost 20 years together), answering some of the most common questions that I receive, & crushing some common assumptions/misconceptions from others about my own life, & also in the hotwife & cuckolding lifestyle in general! Some questions like- How did we get in the lifestyle? Why I prefer a regular partner in the lifestyle, who knows how to fuck me, instead of meeting new people all the time. Variety is not always key! Do we go to parties and lifestyle clubs? Future fantasies? Have we talked about feelings developing? Is my husband’s dick small? Does he still satisfy me in bed? Do I humiliate my husband? Will I share my husband with a female & our feelings around that. Does this make us swingers? & more! You have asked and I am answering!!! I might have a small issue with rambling sometimes so please leave me feedback if there’s anything you don’t care for!! Thank you so much for listening! Now, enjoy the Episode AND If you're interested in sharing your own hotwife life stories or advice for others here in my podcast, email me at hotwifehavenpodcast@gmail.com and let's connect! All lifestyle individuals welcome! Cucks, Stags, Bulls, Vixens, Hotwives, come join us! xx, Ember Rae Find me everywhere! Onlyfans, Fansly, Manyvids, Reddit, X/Twitter, Porn Hub- xxemberraexx Instagram(xoemberrae) ALL LINKS www.xxemberraexx.com www.emberrae.com
19 Jul 2024
Hotwife Haven Episode 3- Breaking into the lifestyle- Vulnerability, Communication, Boundaries, and finding a Bull!
Hotwife Haven Episode 3- I'm covering the basics of Breaking into the lifestyle- - Vulnerability, Communication, Boundaries, and finding a Bull! If you're trying to figure out how to approach the hotwife conversation with your wife and find a bull, this episode is definitely for you!!! And in terms of finding a bull-I really only recommend one place and that's SLS (swinglifestyle)- that's just from my own experience and even though I found Maverik in a telegram group and the rest is history, that was pure luck. What we created doesn't get found everyday on social media so I am simply recommending what was our bread and butter when searching in the lifestyle before I found Maverik! That's not to say you yourself can't find others on social media, it just doesn't happen everyday! And a shoutout to @sharedutahwife on twitter who is an authentic real life hotwife sharing her journey online! Find me and follow my hotwife journey on all of my links! www.xxemberrae.com www.emberrae.com
3 Jul 2024
Hotwife Haven Episode 2- America, Pornstars, Fabulous Las Vegas, and MisterMaverik
My second podcast episode is here!!! Hotwife Haven Podcast Episode 2! America, Hotwife updates, Fabulous Las Vegas, and MisterMaverik! & the clarity in my voice with my new microphone 💯! Totally NEW PODCAST ALL AROUND!!! Find me on all of my links! www.xxemberrae.com www.emberrae.com Onlyfans, Fansly, Manyvids, Reddit, Instagram, X/Twitter, Porn Hub! We got home to America in June 2023 and I'd started seeing a few creators/ actual Porn Stars in the industry last year when I wasn't finding reliable people locally yet after being back a couple of months. Creators like Maasai Warrior, DFW Knight, Derk Diggler, JayPlayHard, MarsBlacXXX, Misterfun88 (who I rudely forget to name in the actual episode, not on purpose, that's just a lot of dick to remember hahaha), all came to see me here in my state and make content and I appreciate them all making the trip! I even had a GG date and saw Jamie Croft and the her husband Brian Edger! More on that later! However.. come December, we were halfway through deployment and I found myself going just a little crazy for numerous reasons and although my husband and I agreed months prior I wouldn't travel until he was home and like 100 people tried to get me to travel of whom I told no to, there was something about @mistermaverik that had me dripping with anticipation (I'd met him long before December, but one part was due to his little devil emoji making his face a mystery, then when you finally see it - WOAH !!! haha then I of course loved his content I’d been seeing, I’d been watching him!) & had me dying to hop a flight to Vegas to spend days on end getting completely manhandled and dominated by him! AND I DID!!! And they have been some of the most exhilarating experiences of my life since entering the lifestyle I went back not once but MULTIPLE times during the rest of my husbands deployment. He not only rocked my world in the bed but he took me on dates and gave me experiences and truly showed me a time that just can't compare, a MisterMaverik Hotwife Weekend was exactly what I needed and continue to crave! I appreciate more than anything him accepting me the way he did & all he did for me! And of course dicking me down like he does! Unforgettable! It was INSANE!!!! And I'm NOT DONE SEEING HIM!!! I have so many stories and I can't wait to tell you all of them! You'll hear all about my adventures in Sin city - I just didn't want to spill it all right now, as much as I can't contain myself! I can't wait to tell you more! These memories and stories fill me passion and excitement! I felt like I started losing a little of myself last year, but I was able to find myself again. I am so grateful to have an incredible husband that supports me doing what I love with who I love to do it with! He's truly the best husband and Stag and he always keeps my happiness one of his biggest priorities! AND YES WE DO DISCUSS bringing a girl into the room, it just has to be the right one, thats all!!! I am not denying him his experiences, at all regardless what some might think from other podcasts! Now, enjoy the Episode AND If you're interested in sharing your own hotwife life stories or advice for others here in my podcast, email me at hotwifehavenpodcast@gmail.com and let's connect! All lifestyle individuals welcome! Cucks, Stags, Bulls, Vixens, Hotwives, come join us! xx, Ember Rae
29 Jun 2024
Hotwife Haven Episode 1- How it all began!
EPISODE #1- In this first episode EVER you can listen to my sexy seductive voice as I tell you all about what you can expect to hear on the podcast, & then the story of how I’ve been a nympho since I was basically alive, how I love the taste of a female, how I went from sleeping with women during my marriage to how we got into hotwifing and me sleeping with other men with my husband's consent! There’s so much to listen to just in episode one & I can’t wait for you to listen! Podcast episodes will ALWAYS be posted to my paid pages like this & others before anywhere else! 45 minutes- all me! Send your thoughts!!! IM STOKED!! Also mentioned on this podcast is Doc Chocolate - the owner of bulls & queens podcast & the first podcast interview I EVER DID!! Also featured on Consenting adults & strictly anonymous, and the Adventures of a Hotwife.
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- 4.3 / 5
- 102 ratings
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