
How Are We 40?
Hosted by Whit and Tay and Taylor · Taylor Harris & Whitney Casser-Harris | Women’s Lifestyle & Relationships Podcast
5.0from 60 ratings
- 78
- Episodes
- 32
- Transcribed
- 60
- Ratings
- Monthly
- Cadence
- 2025
- First episode
- 8K
- YouTube views
About How Are We 40?
Welcome to How Are We 40?, a podcast for women in their late 30s and 40s navigating adulthood, relationships, and the unhinged reality of modern womanhood. Each week, sisters-in-law Taylor and Whitney—one deep in mom life and mental load, the other spiraling about dating and singledom—unpack the brutal and hilarious realities of being millennial woman in the 2020s. Expect unfiltered conversations about marriage, dating, friendship, careers, motherhood, body changes, aging, and identity crises. From perimenopause Google searches to relationship fights, work burnout, and making friends as an adult, nothing is off limits. If you love podcasts for women about relationships, life transitions, mental health, and figuring out who you are after 35, you’re in the right place. Expect oversharing, questionable advice, and the comforting reminder that nobody has “having it all” figured out — everyone is just making it up as they go. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy (https://acast.com/privacy) for more information.
- Publisher
- Taylor Harris & Whitney Casser-Harris | Women’s Lifestyle & Relationships Podcast
- Category
- society & culture · society & culture
- Language
- en
- Explicit
- No
- First episode
- 14 Apr 2025
- Latest episode
- 19 Oct 2026
Latest episodes
32 of 78 episodes have a transcript.

19 Oct 2026TRANSCRIPT
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Molly, You In Danger Girl
Published 19 Oct 2026 · Transcript excerpt
[…] Three months, whatever it is. It's just one of those periods of life where everything is happening at the exact same time. Very sort of everything, everywhere, all at once style. Like I've spent years feeling like nothing has changed. And then bam, like seven major life events just kind of like punched me in the face at the same time, which is lovely because they're all fabulous. But it's, I got engaged. I spent the entire summer planning a wedding on another continent. I started IVF. I wrote an essay for Vogue, which was like my first published work in a few years. I got married. I turned 40. […]
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- Jessie Murphy
- Martin
- Ryan
- Young-Yi Clinton
- Caleigh O'Donnell
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- YouTube views
- 7,842
- Score snapshot 15 Sept 2025
- Apple Podcasts (US)
- 5.0 / 5
- 46 ratings
- Spotify
- 5.0 / 5
- 14 ratings
Podcast Authority Score: 61 / 100
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- Quality
- 75
- Social presence
- 0
- YouTube
- 65
- Engagement
- 51
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Who hosts How Are We 40??
Whit and Tay and Taylor host the show. Published by Taylor Harris & Whitney Casser-Harris | Women’s Lifestyle & Relationships Podcast.
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