Comedian Remy Kassimir had NEVER had an orgasm, so she started this podcast to figure it out. Spoiler alert: SHE DID IT! And now in its 5th season How C*m has helped thousands of Cumpanions have their first O's, hundreds of expert guests (scientists/porn/Fran Drescher + beyond) tell Remy their first time c*mming stories, all with huge laughs along the way. C*m join us!
Can't believe we are saying this but How Cum is now-- How Came, and How Went! In other words, after 6 seasons and countless guests and a million different topics we are finished.
Today's episode is all about what got this whole thing started-- female healthcare (or the lack thereof) and we are discussing it with Tia's Dr. Shreya Reddy and comedian Lauren Hope Krass. We are talking why Dr. Reddy entered this field, Tia (a clinic specifically for female healthcare), and how Lauren's life has been changed by Tia.
My life was changed IMMENSELY by this podcast and I am so so grateful to everyone who supported this journey and who came along for the ride.
We may still record some new episodes -- and if we do, they will ONLY be posted on Patreon (patreon.com/howcum), and maybe someday it will even C*M BACK in a big way. But for now it is so long, and thank you, and I love you all very much.
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31 Jan 2026TRANSCRIPT
38 The Art of Dressing and Undressing (Jessie Jolles)
Comedian and creator Jessie Jolles turns the art of getting dressed into an act of seduction—of self, of confidence, of truth. In this intimate, laugh-out-loud conversation, she strips down the layers of performance and slips into something far more revealing: radical self-love. From the thrill of a perfectly fitted outfit to the power of saying no with style, Jessie reminds us that the sexiest thing you can wear is your own comfort.
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31 Jan 2026TRANSCRIPT
39 Abort Mission: Rewriting the Narrative (Alison Leiby)
Comedian and writer Alison Leiby (The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel, Broad City, The President Show) comes on to discuss her memoir "I'm a Lot", exploring deeply personal and cultural topics such as abortion, sexuality, relationships, and media representation. From there, she takes us behind the screen and reveals the ways television shapes how we see women, sex, and control. From the glossy chaos of Bravo to the tired tropes of "very special episodes," Allison and Remy unpack how pop culture scripts our ideas about abortion, pleasure, and power—and what happens when comedians rewrite those stories with honesty and humor. It's a sharp, funny, and fearless look at the TV narratives that raised us, and the new ones we're ready to tell.
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Who has been a guest on How C*m
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Josh Gondelman
Sophia Wilson Pelton
Srilatha Rajamani
Tracey Carnazzo
Anna Roisman
Reach and audience
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Apple Podcasts (US)
4.8 / 5
2,121 ratings
Spotify
4.6 / 5
277 ratings
Podcast Authority Score: 71 / 100
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Quality
93
Social presence
97
YouTube
0
Engagement
76
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