Welcome to the How Real It Is Podcast! Join us (Hayden THC & Suavee) as we discuss intersectionality, different upbringings, mental health, & more.
Welcome back AGAIN to the How Real It Is Podcast! Join us ( @haydenthc & @s_suavee ) as we discuss intersectionality, different upbringings, mental health, & more.
Well, well, well, it's been OVER a year since our last episode, and we're SO glad to be back! For real this time! In the first episode of Season 3, we break down where exactly we've been, what's been going on in our lives, and why we had to take a break from the podcast for a while.
Thanks to all of y'all who've stuck with us throughout the years; we genuinely wouldn't be here without you guys, and we appreciate y'all so much 🫶.
How was y'all's week? How've y'all been? Give us y'all's check-ins in the comments 👇👇👇
Tune in for another episode coming soon! And as always, please let us know what other topics y'all would like us to cover on the podcast. We love hearing y'all's suggestions!
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24 Feb 2025
S2 Ep. 1 - We're Back!
Welcome BACK to the How Real It Is Podcast! Join us (Hayden THC & Suavee) as we discuss intersectionality, different upbringings, mental health, & more.It's been almost a year y'all, and we're glad to be back! In this episode, we give y'all a rundown of what happened while we were gone, WHY we left, and where the podcast is going moving forward. We also talk about Suavee's upcoming album "Personalities", and how some of the challenges we were facing last year grew into the creation of this album.
Be sure to pre-save "Personalities" here, and let us know which songs are y'all's favorites! 👇
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How was y'all's week? How've y'all been? Give us y'all's check-ins in the comments 👇👇👇
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20 Mar 2024
Ep. 8 - Overcoming Obstacles as a Black Woman Entrepreneur (feat. KaySaidIt)
Welcome to the How Real It Is Podcast! Join us (Hayden THC & Suavee) as we discuss intersectionality, different upbringings, mental health, & more.
This week, we have a very special guest on the show, KaySaidIt! In this episode, we talk to Kay about her journey as an entrepreneur, the challenges she has faced as a businesswoman of color, and how she has overcome obstacles in her life, both personal and professional. We discuss how perspective is the key to everything, and how you can allow obstacles to be roadblocks or speed bumps. Kay also talks about her experience as a woman in business vs a person of color in business. This was a great episode y'all, Kay took us to church this Wednesday!
How was y'all's week? Give us y'all's check-ins in the comments 👇👇👇
Tune in next week for another episode! And as always, let us know what other topics y'all would like us to cover on the podcast.
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13 Mar 2024
Ep. 7 - Mental Health, Checking In, and the Fear of Success
Welcome to the How Real It Is Podcast! Join us (Hayden THC & Suavee) as we discuss intersectionality, different upbringings, mental health, & more.
This week, we start a new segment where we do check-ins with each other (and our guests) because hey, it's important to see how your peoples are doing! In that vein, we discuss the importance of mental health and how it has impacted our lives. We also talk about something rarely discussed, which is the fear of success. Sometimes success is so foreign to us, that it can be scary, and failure can just be a more comfortable option for people sometimes. But without success, how can you grow? We discuss all this and more on this week's episode.
Tune in next week for a special interview with KaySaidIt! And as always, let us know what other topics y'all would like us to cover on the podcast.
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Welcome to the How Real It Is Podcast! Join us (Hayden THC & Suavee) as we discuss intersectionality, different upbringings, mental health, & more.
This week, we join our friends Unicorn Nipple (aka Morgan Bosman) & Calvin Tigre as we discuss relationships, the challenges we face as interracial couples, and the differences between growing up in the South vs the West Coast vs the Midwest. We all used to be roommates and we're all great friends, so this episode ended up being so much fun! Which is also why it's a bit longer than usual lol.
Tune in next week for another new episode! And as always, let us know what other topics y'all would like us to cover on the podcast.
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21 Feb 2024
Ep. 5 - Coming Out
Welcome to the How Real It Is Podcast! Join us (Hayden THC & Suavee) as we discuss intersectionality, different upbringings, mental health, & more.
This one gets real personal y'all! Today, we share with y'all our stories about coming out, our struggles with our own sexualities, and the differences between growing up gay in the South vs. the West Coast. We keep it all the way real about everything we went through, how our family and friends reacted, and some of the crazy things we heard and went through, all just because we decided to finally be ourselves.
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14 Feb 2024
Ep. 4 - Valentine's Day Special! What is Real Love?
Welcome to the How Real It Is Podcast! Join us (Hayden THC & Suavee) as we discuss intersectionality, different upbringings, mental health, & more.
In this Valentine's Day Special episode, we talk about our own love story, what real love is to us, and the relationship dynamics we had to unlearn from our upbringings. We also discuss why loving yourself is the most important way to find real love. You're worthy of it!
Tune in next week for another new episode! And as always, let us know what other topics y'all would like us to cover on the podcast, and let us know if y'all liked the open discussion format!
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7 Feb 2024
Ep. 3 - Racial Difference or Regional Difference? Interview with Trez Bell
Welcome to the How Real It Is Podcast! Join us (Hayden THC & Suavee) as we discuss intersectionality, different upbringings, mental health, & more.
In this episode, we interview Trez Bell, as we discuss his experience with music, the loss of his brother, and growing up black in the South. We also talk about cultural differences (between growing up white vs growing up black) versus regional differences (between growing up in the South vs growing up on the West Coast), and how they affected us as adults.
Stay tuned for a special preview of Trez Bell's new single "Lifetime" dropping via Da Factory Ent on 02/14/2024!
Tune in next week for a Valentine's Day special! And as always, let us know what other topics y'all would like us to cover on the podcast.
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31 Jan 2024
Ep. 2 - Suavee Interviews Hayden THC - Moving Around vs Born-n-Raised
Welcome to the How Real It Is Podcast! Join us (Hayden THC & Suavee) as we discuss intersectionality, different upbringings, mental health, & more.
In this episode, Suavee interviews Hayden THC as Hayden discusses his life story, music, and the effects of moving around a lot while growing up. We also discuss Hayden's daily routine and the infamous story behind the name "Hayden THC".
Tune in next week for a special guest interview with Trez Bell! And let us know what other topics y'all would like us to cover on the podcast.
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Welcome to the How Real It Is Podcast! Join us (Hayden THC & Suavee) as we discuss intersectionality, different upbringings, mental health, & more.
In this episode, Hayden THC interviews Suavee as Suavee discusses his life story, differences in upbringing, and how his childhood trauma affected his life in adulthood. We also break down some of the topics that we will be covering in this podcast.
Tune in next week for Suavee's interview of Hayden THC where we learn about his story!
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