How To Battle With Carlos Vasquez

About How To Battle With Carlos Vasquez

This channel explores transformation, resilience, leadership, healing, purpose, relationships, faith, identity, and what it means to live a meaningful life. I sit down with remarkable people from all walks of life to talk honestly about what they’ve survived, what they’ve learned, and who they’ve become, while also sharing my own perspectives, experiences, lessons, and questions about life, leadership, healing, mindset, success, relationships, consciousness, and personal growth. Through Conversations I Wish I Had With My Father, alongside Dan Olschwang, I also explore the deeper questions many of us were never taught how to ask—about love, fear, pain, authenticity, purpose, family, identity, relationships, death, and what it means to be human. These are real, unscripted conversations rooted in adversity, redemption, resilience, lived experience, curiosity, and a willingness to go deeper—without pretending to have perfect answers. New episodes every Wednesday. Visit: www.carlosvasquezofficial.com (https://www.carlosvasquezofficial.com)

Publisher

Carlos Vasquez

Category

education

Language

en

Explicit

Yes

First episode

10 Jun 2024

Latest episode

17 Oct 2026

Latest episodes

97 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   17 Oct 2026

   97. Why Do We Evolve? The Human Drive for More | CIWIHWMF series

   What if evolution isn't only something that happens to a species over millions of years? What if it's happening inside you right now? In episode 97, Dan and Carlos explore one of the biggest questions we've taken on yet: Why do we evolve? Why is there something inside human beings that keeps reaching for more? More experience. More understanding. More growth. More expression. More life. And why is pain so often the thing that finally forces us to change? Dan introduces the idea of two very different forces that can move a human life forward: being pushed by fear, pain and circumstances—or being pulled by curiosity, passion and the desire to experience more of what life has to offer. That distinction opens the door to a much deeper conversation. We explore questions including: • What does evolution actually mean? • Why are human beings constantly driven toward “more”? • Does technology mean humanity is actually evolving? • Were human beings built for comfort—or challenge? • Why does pain accelerate transformation? • Are you being pushed by fear or pulled by purpose? • Can someone evolve without first reaching a crisis? • Why can material success still leave someone feeling empty? • How much of what we believe we want is actually programming? • Are most people living on autopilot? • What happens when we resist change? • Does evolution require pain? • Why is curiosity such a powerful driver of growth? • What can Darwin's theory tell us—and what questions does it leave unanswered? • Why do we evolve at all? • What is consciousness? • Is consciousness connected to what people call God or Source? • Why does the human experience exist? • Why are humans driven to create and express themselves? • Can evolution happen within a single lifetime? • Is death part of the evolutionary experience? • Why are human beings so afraid of death? • Can making peace with mortality make us more free? • What role could AI play in the next stage of human evolution? • If knowledge becomes universally available, does creativity become more valuable? • Can AI ever become conscious? • How do we choose the right teachers as we evolve? • What happens when we resist our own evolution? This is Conversations I Wish I Had With My Father — an unscripted series of the How To Battle Podcast with Carlos Vasquez and Dan Olschwang exploring the deeper questions about life, identity, relationships, pain, consciousness, purpose and the human experience that so many of us never had the opportunity to ask. If there is a conversation you wish you could have had with your father, leave the question in the comments. It may become a future episode. Subscribe and join us for a new conversation every week. Learn more about Dan Olschwang: https://www.danolschwang.com/ (https://www.danolschwang.com/) Join Carlos Vasquez on Substack: https://substack.com/@carlosvasquezofficial (https://substack.com/@carlosvasquezofficial) #ConversationsIWishIHadWithMyFather #HowToBattle #CIWIHWMF #Evolution #PersonalGrowth #Consciousness #HumanPotential #SelfRealization #Spirituality #Purpose #InnerWork #Transformation #Curiosity #ArtificialIntelligence #HumanEvolution

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   14 Oct 2026

   96. Pregnant at 13, Foster Care, Toxic Love—Then She Rebuilt Her Life | Valaery Rose

   She became pregnant at 13. Had her daughter at 14. Entered foster care. Grew up surrounded by poverty, gangs, drugs and violence. And for years, Valaery Rose struggled with the belief that maybe this was simply the life she had been given. But eventually, she made a different decision: The cycle was going to end with her. In this episode of the How To Battle Podcast, Carlos sits down with Valaery Rose for a raw conversation about teen motherhood, foster care, gang culture, toxic relationships, self-worth, motherhood, healing, personal development and the power of choosing a different future. Timestamps: 00:00 Pregnant at 13 and entering foster care 01:08 Surviving darkness and becoming a light for others 03:18 Growing up around gangs, poverty and addiction 05:02 Feeling abandoned by her parents 07:15 The streets, fighting and becoming a teen mom 08:25 What it feels like to be pregnant at 13 10:32 The moment motherhood changed everything 11:29 “I became the mother I wish I had” 12:06 Leaving her daughter’s father and breaking the pattern 17:03 Nine years inside a toxic relationship 19:48 How she finally found the courage to leave 20:25 “No one is going to come save me” 24:41 Stepping into the unknown and rebuilding herself 27:15 The personal-development practices that changed her life 32:20 Why Carlos began living life like an adventure 36:00 Why young people are drawn to gangs 40:52 Be loyal to yourself—not the streets 42:34 The social worker who showed her another life 45:07 How Valaery became a life coach 49:39 Her definition of success 54:29 Becoming a motivational speaker 55:31 Why Carlos sometimes feels like it’s never enough 59:39 Do we need rock bottom to change? 1:00:20 Where Valaery sees herself in five years 1:04:03 The power of vulnerability 1:06:52 Build a life that you love Valaery's life is proof that your environment can influence you without having to define you. Your family can shape you without determining your future. Your mistakes can become lessons. And the life you're living today does not have to be the life you're living five years from now. Sometimes transformation begins with one very uncomfortable question: What am I allowing in my life that I already know needs to change? If this episode speaks to you, subscribe to the How To Battle Podcast and share it with someone who may need the reminder that they are allowed to want more for their life. Connect with Valaery Rose Instagram: @valaery.rose Linktree: https://linktr.ee/valaeryrose (https://linktr.ee/valaeryrose) Connect with Carlos Instagram: https://instagram.com/carlosvasquezofficial (https://instagram.com/carlosvasquezofficial) Substack: https://open.substack.com/pub/carlosvasquezofficial (https://open.substack.com/pub/carlosvasquezofficial) #BreakingTheCycle #TeenMom #SelfLeadership #Resilience #ValaeryRose #CarlosVasquez #HowToBattle #HowToBattlePodcast

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   8 Oct 2026

   95. How Your Family Shapes Who You Become | CIWIHWMF series

   Our family is the first place we learn what love feels like. But it's also the first place we learn fear, expectations, beliefs, rules, identity and what we're told life is supposed to look like. So how much of who we become is actually us, and how much was handed to us by the family we were born into? In Episode 95, I sit down with Dan to explore one of the most complicated forces in the human experience: Family. The good, the bad and the ugly. We explore how our earliest experiences with parents and caregivers begin shaping the way we understand ourselves and the world long before we're old enough to question any of it. Dan describes the family as our first “mold” — the environment where we begin learning whether we're safe, whether we're okay, how relationships work, what is expected of us and what we believe is possible. But parents are human too. They carry their own fears, wounds, insecurities, beliefs and inherited patterns, and whether they intend to or not, some of those patterns inevitably become part of the next generation. That raises some uncomfortable questions. Are parents automatically right simply because they're parents? Should children follow the path their parents choose for them? Is rebellion sometimes a healthy part of becoming yourself? Why can family members trigger us more deeply than almost anyone else? How do you set boundaries without completely abandoning the people you love? And do we actually owe our family anything? Dan and I also explore generational trauma, parenting, unconditional love, family hierarchy, the influence of technology and social media on younger generations, blended families and what happens when one person decides to break a pattern that has existed for generations. I also share my own experience of reconnecting with my family after years in the streets and prison, and realizing that loving my family did not mean I couldn't establish boundaries with them. Sometimes those boundaries actually made the relationship stronger. Subscribe and join us for a new conversation every Wednesday. Learn more about Dan Olschwang: https://www.danolschwang.com (https://www.danolschwang.com) Join Carlos Vasquez on Substack: https://substack.com/@carlosvasquezofficial (https://substack.com/@carlosvasquezofficial) We explore questions including: • How much does your family shape who you become? • Are parents automatically right because they're parents? • What does a healthy family actually look like? • What gets passed from one generation to the next? • What is generational trauma? • How do you break patterns that existed before you were born? • Can parents unintentionally pass their own fear onto their children? • Why are children sometimes our greatest teachers? • Should parents allow their children to rebel? • How much freedom should children have to discover their own path? • Why does your family know exactly how to push your buttons? • What is unconditional love between a parent and child? • Does a child's struggle mean the parent failed? • Do we owe our parents or family anything? • Can you love your family and still separate yourself from them? • How do blended and adoptive families fit into the definition of family? • Can healing one person change an entire family system? • Can breaking your own patterns change the generations that come after you? #ConversationsIWishIHadWithMyFather #HowToBattle #CIWIHWMF #Family #GenerationalTrauma #Parenting #FamilyHealing #Boundaries #ChildhoodTrauma #BreakingTheCycle #PersonalGrowth #InnerWork #Healing #SelfDiscovery #Transformation

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• Dr Payal Beri
• Zeara Jea
• Bruce Bryan
• Joe White
• Ernesto Sanchez

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YouTube views

209,259

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Apple Podcasts (US)

5.0 / 5

7 ratings

Spotify

5.0 / 5

1 ratings

Podcast Authority Score: 42 / 100

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Quality

38

Social presence

0

YouTube

86

Engagement

32

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