How to Be a Couple
Claim This Podcastby Giuliano Grimaudo
Podcast Overview
<p>What if the goal of your relationship isn’t to stay together forever… but to actually enjoy it today?</p><p></p><p>Welcome to a relationship podcast for couples who are done settling for “good enough.” If you’re married, engaged, or in a long-term relationship and you’re tired of the low-grade tension, petty arguments, and advice that says marriage is supposed to be hard work, this is for you.</p><p></p><p>Most people aim for longevity.<br />We aim for quality.</p><p></p><p>On this show, we challenge the myths around “til death do us part,” break down why divorce is always an option (and why that’s not a threat), and teach you how to become your own favorite couple. You’ll learn practical relationship advice you can apply immediately, including:</p><p></p><p>• How to stop constant micro-conflict<br />• How to use love languages the right way (not the meme version)<br />• How to separate hard moments from a “hard relationship”<br />• How to improve communication without turning everything into a therapy session<br />• How to create intimacy, connection, and emotional safety in real time</p><p></p><p>This isn’t about surviving your marriage.<br />It’s about enjoying it.</p><p></p><p>Whether you’re looking for marriage advice, relationship coaching, communication tools for couples, or a better way to think about love and commitment, you’ll find grounded, direct conversations that help you show up as a better partner today.</p><p></p><p>Because the success of a relationship isn’t measured by how long it lasts. It’s measured by how good it feels while you’re in it.</p><p></p><p>Welcome :)</p><p>Giuliano Grimaudo</p><p></p><p>Get more at <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://howtobeacouple.co/" target="_blank">https://howtobeacouple.co/</a></p>
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Recent Episodes
April 5, 2026
The Truth About Commitment in Relationships
<p>Most people think commitment is the foundation of a strong relationship. I don’t.</p><p></p><p>In this episode, I break down why putting commitment at the center of your relationship might actually be the thing holding it back. Because when you focus on staying no matter what, you start tolerating things you shouldn’t, ignoring what matters, and showing up in ways that don’t feel good.</p><p></p><p>I share a different way to think about relationships. One where the goal isn’t just to last, but to actually feel good to be in. Where your focus shifts away from the relationship itself and back onto you… and how you show up inside of it.</p><p></p><p>We talk about why commitment can come from fear, why “till death do us part” might not be the standard you think it is, and what happens when you stop trying to force a relationship to work and instead focus on being the best version of yourself.</p><p></p><p>If you want personalized relationship coaching, I have a waitlist going to work with me 1:1. Send me a DM that says WAITLIST to @<a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.instagram.com/howtobeacouple.co" target="_blank">howtobeacouple.co</a> on Instagram, I'll add you to the list and let you know when a slot opens up.</p>
April 1, 2026
Why You Keep Thinking Your Partner Is Cheating
<p>This episode is about why you keep thinking your partner is cheating… even if you don’t have real proof.</p><p></p><p>I break down what’s actually going on underneath that feeling, and why looking for “signs” is the worst thing you can do if you want a healthy relationship.</p><p></p><p>Because once you start scanning for problems, you’ll find them. Not always because they’re real… but because your brain is wired to confirm what you’re already focused on.</p><p></p><p>So now you’re stuck. Questioning things. Overanalyzing. Creating tension that might not have even been there before.</p><p></p><p>We also get into where this fear is really coming from. Not just “I don’t trust them”… but what you’re actually trying to avoid feeling if it were true.</p><p></p><p>And that changes everything.</p><p></p><p>Because the goal isn’t to become better at catching your partner doing something wrong. It’s to understand yourself well enough that you’re not living in constant suspicion.</p><p></p><p>If you’ve ever caught yourself overthinking your partner’s behavior, reading into small things, or feeling like something is off… this will hit.</p><p></p><p>If you want personalized relationship coaching, I have a waitlist going to work with me 1:1. Send me a DM that says WAITLIST to @<a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.instagram.com/howtobeacouple.co" target="_blank">howtobeacouple.co</a> on Instagram, I'll add you to the list and let you know when a slot opens up.</p>
March 31, 2026
Stop Letting Others Define Your Relationship
<p>Stop letting other people define what your relationship should look like. This episode is about trusting yourself more than outside opinions when it comes to love, dating, and partnership.</p><p></p><p>I got a comment recently that said people shouldn’t have premarital sex because it leads to choosing someone for the wrong reasons. And while I’m not here to argue that specific point, it made me realize how often we let outside voices shape what we think a “good” relationship is supposed to be. Whether it’s religion, culture, family, or social media, a lot of us are following rules we never actually chose for ourselves.</p><p></p><p>In this episode, I break down why that happens and why it can quietly pull you away from the kind of relationship you actually want. I talk about the difference between doing what you think you should do versus what actually feels right to you, and why that gap is where a lot of frustration comes from.</p><p></p><p>We also get into the idea that you already know more than you think you do. Not in a perfect, logical way… but in a deeper sense. The kind of knowing that shows up when something feels right, or when something clearly doesn’t.</p><p></p><p>This isn’t about ignoring advice or pretending no one else has anything valuable to say. It’s about learning how to filter everything through yourself first, so you can build a relationship that actually fits you… not one you’re just trying to live up to.</p><p></p><p>If you want personalized relationship coaching, I have a waitlist going to work with me 1:1. Send me a DM that says WAITLIST to @<a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.instagram.com/howtobeacouple.co" target="_blank">howtobeacouple.co</a> on Instagram, I'll add you to the list and let you know when a slot opens up.</p>
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- What is How to Be a Couple?
<p>What if the goal of your relationship isn’t to stay together forever… but to actually enjoy it today?</p><p></p><p>Welcome to a relationship podcast for couples who are done settling for “good enough.” If you’re married, engaged, or in a long-term relationship and you’re tired of the low-grade tension, petty arguments, and advice that says marriage is supposed to be hard work, this is for you.</p><p></p><p>Most people aim for longevity.<br />We aim for quality.</p><p></p><p>On this show, we challenge the myths around “til death do us part,” break down why divorce is always an option (and why that’s not a threat), and teach you how to become your own favorite couple. You’ll learn practical relationship advice you can apply immediately, including:</p><p></p><p>• How to stop constant micro-conflict<br />• How to use love languages the right way (not the meme version)<br />• How to separate hard moments from a “hard relationship”<br />• How to improve communication without turning everything into a therapy session<br />• How to create intimacy, connection, and emotional safety in real time</p><p></p><p>This isn’t about surviving your marriage.<br />It’s about enjoying it.</p><p></p><p>Whether you’re looking for marriage advice, relationship coaching, communication tools for couples, or a better way to think about love and commitment, you’ll find grounded, direct conversations that help you show up as a better partner today.</p><p></p><p>Because the success of a relationship isn’t measured by how long it lasts. It’s measured by how good it feels while you’re in it.</p><p></p><p>Welcome :)</p><p>Giuliano Grimaudo</p><p></p><p>Get more at <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://howtobeacouple.co/" target="_blank">https://howtobeacouple.co/</a></p> - How often does this podcast release new episodes?
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