Do you find yourself wishing that your parents had taught you more about how to take care of yourself, your emotions and your health? This show offers practical guidance for outwardly successful but inwardly lost adults like you. It’s the philosophy of life that you should have received when you turned 18, but didn’t. Each episode attempts to arrive at principled answers to a single question about how we might find happiness and peace. We are driven by a mission to democratize self-assurance.
How to Be an Adult
Claim This Podcastby Luke Chao and Kate Voss
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37 episodes
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Do you find yourself wishing that your parents had taught you more about how to take care of yourself, your emotions and your health? This show offers practical guidance for outwardly successful but inwardly lost adults like you. It’s the philosophy of life that you should have received when you turned 18, but didn’t. Each episode attempts to arrive at principled answers to a single question about how we might find happiness and peace. We are driven by a mission to democratize self-assurance.
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July 6, 2026
How to “Take Care of Yourself” (Ep. 37)
<p>If you’ve ever heard the clichéd phrase, “take care of yourself,” you might have been flummoxed about how, especially if your needs were unmet in early life. Yet, as Luke will argue in this episode, taking care of yourself is a defining feature of adulthood: at last, you have a capable guardian. We shall use Maslow’s hierarchy of needs as a framework:</p> <ul> <li>As adults, we serve as our own primary caregivers, responsible for meeting our own needs rather than relying on parents, partners, or employers.</li> <li>Taking care of oneself is a positive-sum game, analogous to the airline safety instruction to ‘put on your own mask first’ before assisting others.</li> <li>Neglecting self-care erases oneself from one’s own life, a behavior that must be unlearned to improve well-being and capability to support others.</li> <li>We use the hierarchy of needs framework by Abraham Maslow to categorize requirements from basic physiological needs to higher-level self-actualization.</li> <li>Setting clear boundaries through verbal communication is a modern method for ensuring personal safety and security.</li> <li>You are encouraged to examine inherited behaviors from your parents and intentionally choose to overcome generational neglect by prioritizing your own well-being and values.</li> </ul> <p>Table of Contents:</p> <p>0:00 – Introduction<br /> 2:01 – You Are Your Primary Caregiver<br /> 11:04 – Count Yourself In<br /> 13:43 – Self Care Is a Positive-Sum Game<br /> 18:10 – Introduction to Maslow’s Hierarchy<br /> 18:38 – Physiological Needs<br /> 19:09 – Safety and Security Needs<br /> 21:09 – Love and Belonging<br /> 21:57 – Respect and Esteem<br /> 22:25 – Self-actualization<br /> 27:09 – The Impact of Your Upbringing<br /> 30:41 – Outro</p> <p>Listen above, on Apple Podcasts or on Spotify, or watch the full video on YouTube. Remember to like, subscribe and share!</p> <p><iframe title="YouTube video player" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/WFoHZEMnIwU" width="640" height="360" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen="allowfullscreen"></iframe></p> <p>The post <a href="https://www.morpheusclinic.com/how-to-take-care-of-yourself-ep-37/">How to “Take Care of Yourself” (Ep. 37)</a> appeared first on <a href="https://www.morpheusclinic.com">The Morpheus Clinic for Hypnosis</a>.</p>
June 22, 2026
How to Have Better Sex (Ep. 36)
<p>Good sex is not an accident: it happens deliberately. In this dual-hosted episode of How to Be an Adult with Luke and Kate, we strip away the cultural noise to look at the reality of physical intimacy. We break down what it actually means to be present with another person and how to engage in the unapologetic, shameless exchange of mutual pleasure:</p> <ul> <li>We define good sex as a mutually pleasurable, safe, and relaxing activity that aligns physical, emotional and mental wellness, characterized by mutual validation rather than performance.</li> <li>We emphasize that sex should be fun, not stressful, and that adults have the moral authority to move past shame or guilt that is rooted in one’s upbringing or societal expectations.</li> <li>Communication is the cornerstone of healthy sexual experiences; partners should explicitly discuss their desires, boundaries, and preferences to ensure mutual enjoyment.</li> <li>The ultimate authority in the bedroom belongs solely to the partners involved, overriding outside influences like religious figures, parents, or generalized media advice.</li> <li>We advise approaching sex as a five-sense experience, similar to a gourmet meal, to stay present in the moment and avoid disembodied, anxious thoughts.</li> <li>Consent must be ongoing and should be enthusiastic; the hosts advocate for a risk-aware approach to kink, noting that activities like bondage or impact play require higher levels of communication and safety planning.</li> <li>The podcast warns against relying on pornographic depictions, which are often inauthentic and performative, instead encouraging individuals to cultivate self-love and self-respect to engage in genuine, reciprocal intimacy.</li> <li>The hosts encourage listeners to treat themselves with unconditional acceptance, similar to how infants are cared for, to break generational cycles of shame and fully embrace their natural, primal desires.</li> </ul> <p>Table of Contents:</p> <p>00:00 – Beginning<br /> 02:37 – What is Good Sex?<br /> 04:43 – Approaching Sex as an Adult<br /> 07:04 – Your Self-Authority<br /> 14:38 – Love Yourself First<br /> 22:04 – A Place to Be in Your Nature<br /> 23:43 – A Five Sense Experience<br /> 28:38 – How to Make Consent Sexy<br /> 34:35 – “Performance”<br /> 39:30 – Setting Boundaries<br /> 40:57 – Kink<br /> 45:23 – Outro</p> <p>Listen above, on Apple Podcasts or on Spotify, or watch the full video on YouTube. Remember to like, subscribe and share!</p> <p><iframe title="YouTube video player" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/jklV3iebzJ4" width="640" height="360" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen="allowfullscreen"></iframe></p> <p>The post <a href="https://www.morpheusclinic.com/how-to-have-better-sex-ep-36/">How to Have Better Sex (Ep. 36)</a> appeared first on <a href="https://www.morpheusclinic.com">The Morpheus Clinic for Hypnosis</a>.</p>
June 1, 2026
How to Dress Like an Adult: Pour Homme (Ep. 35: Part 2 of 2)
<p>In the second of this two-part episode about how to dress like an adult, pour homme, Luke shares what he has learned about outerwear, accessories and how to put together an outfit:</p> <ul> <li>For cold weather, invest in a quality wool overcoat such as a Chesterfield, polo coat, or balmacaan to wear over suits, and consider a trench coat or barbour coat for shoulder seasons.</li> <li>While often criticized, a high-quality fedora made of fur felt is considered appropriate headgear for suits, provided it is not paired with casual clothing.</li> <li>Practicality takes precedence in extreme winter, but for general accessories, leather gloves, scarves, and pocket squares add personality and color to a wardrobe.</li> <li>Transition from backpacks to leather satchels or briefcases to elevate professional appearance. <li>When selecting a watch, opt for a ‘go anywhere, do anything’ (GADA) style, such as a metal-braceleted sports watch, which is versatile enough for both formal and casual settings.</li> <li>To coordinate outfits, stick to a neutral color palette, avoid mixing more than two patterns unless they differ in size, and match leather items like belts and watch straps when possible.</li> <li>It isn’t cheating to use AI chatbots as a tool to help curate and coordinate clothing items while developing a personal sense of style.</li> <li>Dressing intentionally and well-fitted is encouraged as a way to increase self-esteem, garner respect from others, and improve attractiveness.</li> </ul> <p>Table of Contents:</p> <p>0:00 – Introduction<br /> 0:43 – How to Look Good in the Cold<br /> 2:26 – The Importance of Hats<br /> 8:14 – Finishing Touches<br /> 15:20 – Putting Together an Outfit<br /> 16:43 – Colour Continued<br /> 19:40 – Formality and Propriety<br /> 26:35 – The Mindset of Dressing Well</p> <p>Listen above, on Apple Podcasts or on Spotify, or watch the full video on YouTube. Remember to like, subscribe and share!</p> <p><iframe title="YouTube video player" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/Vtb91GtaGCI" width="640" height="360" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen="allowfullscreen"></iframe></p> <p>The post <a href="https://www.morpheusclinic.com/how-to-dress-like-an-adult-pour-homme-ep-35-part-2-of-2/">How to Dress Like an Adult: Pour Homme (Ep. 35: Part 2 of 2)</a> appeared first on <a href="https://www.morpheusclinic.com">The Morpheus Clinic for Hypnosis</a>.</p>
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