Hi, I’m Vincent Hazenboom, and this is an introvert’s guide to being a man.
I share my journey of navigating porn addiction recovery, and finding soulful connections, even as a highly sensitive person (HSP) and introvert in an increasingly confusing dating world. My guests and I show listeners how to reconnect to themselves, return to balanced masculine-feminine energy, and empower others through their own heart-centered, personal leadership. 🌱💫
The F*cking Truth About Sex: Melissa Louise on Healing & Wholeness.
🎙️ Episode 44: The F*cking Truth About Sex: Melissa Louise on Healing & Wholeness
🦁 Hey Lions, ever felt like your sexuality was something to hide… or even be ashamed of?
In this episode of the HowToHeart Show, we dive deep into the power of sacred sexuality, masculine presence, and emotional reclamation with Melissa Louise — Founder & CEO of Jewil International, erotic blueprint coach, sexology specialist, keynote speaker, and fierce advocate for guilt-free sexual and menstrual education.
Melissa shares her raw, unapologetic story of surviving religious trauma, addiction, and sexual shame — and how those battles led her to reclaim her body, her truth, and her voice. Today, she helps men and women heal their connection to pleasure, intimacy, and their deepest desires in a world full of judgment and toxic conditioning.
🌟 What You’ll Learn in This Episode: 🌟✔ Why pleasure matters for your well-being✔ How shame damages intimacy and connection✔ Melissa’s story of healing through sexuality✔ Masculine & feminine energy in real life✔ How vulnerability leads to deeper love✔ Why sex mirrors how you live your life
💬 “How we show up in life is how we show up in the bedroom. How we do sex is how we do life.” – Melissa Louise
✨ Claim Your Sacred Power🎁 Learn more about Melissa’s work and offerings to reclaim intimacy, pleasure & truth👉 Explore Now: https://melissalouise.mykajabi.com/opt-in-bc44226a-f0a7-4010-b3da-14c899977c9e
🦁 Connect with Melissa Louise🦁🌐 Website: www.melissalouise.world📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepleasurestudio/👥 Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1628484537465314✍️ Substack: https://melissalouise.substack.com/subscribe
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🔥 Lead with strength. Live with your heart.🚨 New Episode Every Friday! Subscribe & Start Your Healing Journey. 🚨
10 Jul 2025
Conquer Video Game Addiction: My First Therapy Session.
🎙️ Episode 43: How Therapy Helped Me Face What Gaming Was Hiding
🦁 Hey Lions, ever felt trapped in your own escape?What if the thing that numbs your stress is also what’s holding you back?
In this raw and honest episode of the HowToHeartShow, I open up about my personal journey through therapy—and how I overcame a long-standing addiction to video games. I share what led me to seek help, how gaming impacted my mental health, and how I began rebuilding my focus, energy, and self-respect.
We explore the fear of asking for help, time management, and the importance of making informed choices around mental health and medication. If you’ve ever used distractions to avoid real life—this episode is for you.
💭 Feeling overwhelmed and stuck in loops you can’t break?💭 Wondering if therapy could help, but not sure where to start?
🌟 What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
How video game addiction became a silent trap in my life
Why therapy was the turning point
Tools I used to manage my time and energy
How to seek help without shame
Why you need to question — not fear — mental health treatment
What it means to take control of your healing journey
💬 "I realized that my video game habits had become a self-imposed prison. It became an all-consuming escape from reality, holding me captive." – Vincent
🦁 Connect with Vincent & Join the Tribe
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🔥 Lead with strength. Live with your heart.✨ Follow the HowToHeartShow—a space for introverted men who want to break free from limiting beliefs, overcome challenges, and live a life led by their authentic heart.🚨 New Episode Every Friday. Subscribe Now. 🚨
Holistic facilitator Eleanor Hayward discusses trauma's impact on men's healing with Vincent Hazenboom, emphasizing accountability and emotional awareness as keys to breaking patterns in this interview.
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