how to make a mess

About how to make a mess

We all have that friend that we love but will always find a way to challenge us.. we laugh we cry and we learn new things about ourselves with them. Ace Enders and Trevor (T- Williams) Bowman get into discussions, arguments, big ideas and life lessons in "how to make a mess".

Publisher

Ace Enders, Trevor Bowman

Category

music

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

19 Feb 2025

Latest episode

23 May 2025

Latest episodes

10 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   23 May 2025

   This salad is for Mickey

   This episode explores podcasting, allergies, movies, and family, touching on health, creativity, and personal growth through storytelling and reflections.

2. 

   16 May 2025

   Tingles of Nostalgia

   camping, family time, parenting, tick safety, outdoor adventures, nostalgia, job interests, personal experiences, nostalgia, music, nature, technology, childhood, mall culture, getting lost, skipping school, memories, innovation

3. 

   6 May 2025

   Team Therapy -Feat. couples therapist - Scott Utter

   We talk to the wonderful Scott Utter in this co-host couples therapy info session. AI says-- In this engaging conversation, Trevor Bowman, Ace, and Scott Utter delve into the world of podcasting, therapy, and personal experiences. They discuss the importance of capturing genuine moments in podcasting, Scott's journey as a couples therapist, and the dynamics of relationships. The conversation highlights therapeutic techniques, the significance of effort in relationships, and the challenges of maintaining consistency in personal connections. Scott shares his insights on working with couples and the varying levels of engagement he observes in therapy sessions, while also reflecting on his own experiences as a listener and fan of the podcast. In this conversation, the speakers delve into the complexities of communication, particularly in the context of their podcasting journey. They explore themes of miscommunication, assumptions about each other's intentions, and the importance of transparency in relationships. The discussion highlights the challenges they face in their collaboration, emphasizing the need for open dialogue and understanding. They also touch on the significance of separating beliefs from reality, especially in navigating emotions and interpersonal dynamics. In this conversation, the speakers delve into the complexities of feelings and beliefs in relationships, emphasizing the importance of understanding and communication. They discuss how feelings can be both a hindrance and a tool for connection, the significance of listening, and the ongoing journey of personal growth and learning in relationships. The dialogue highlights the vulnerability involved in sharing emotions and the necessity of creating a safe space for open communication.

4. 

   31 Mar 2025

   Don't Get Cozy...

   music, emotions, venting, parenting, astronauts, aliens, family activities, personal stories, nostalgia, school memories, Big movie, nostalgia, childhood, creative process, taxes, country music, songwriting, film analysis, pop culture

5. 

   21 Mar 2025

   Pardon me while I travel

   travel, airport, family, challenges, storytelling, humor, experiences, technology, adventures, war films, air travel, emergency landings, mental health, pep talks, turbulence, flying experiences, webcams, airplane etiquette, safety, audio issues, marketing, QVC, career reflections, creativity, authenticity, AI in art, generational differences, uplifting messages, creative paths

6. 

   14 Mar 2025

   how to hold on to your fire.. maybe

   coffee, comedy, stand-up, creativity, music industry, influencers, societal change, aspirations, passions, personal growth, asteroid, life perspective, urgency, pandemic, creativity, change, personal growth, community, collaboration, music

7. 

   7 Mar 2025

   old enough to have health anxiety

   Summary In this conversation, Trevor and Ace discuss various topics ranging from health anxiety, personal health experiences, and the impact of aging on mental health. They share personal anecdotes about panic attacks and the challenges of navigating doctor's advice. The conversation also touches on the excitement surrounding upcoming performances and nostalgic moments in the music industry. In this conversation, Trevor and Ace explore various themes including nostalgia in music, personal health and growth, the dynamics of communication in relationships, the importance of positivity and energy exchange, conflict resolution strategies, and the art of songwriting, particularly focusing on acoustic music. They reflect on their experiences and philosophies, emphasizing the significance of emotional intelligence and the impact of their interactions with others. In this conversation, Ace and Trevor explore the intricacies of music creation, the significance of personal experiences with instruments, and the emotional journey of completing an album. They discuss the balance between fear and creativity, the impact of past mistakes, and the evolution of Ace as an artist. The dialogue reflects on the importance of genuine emotional investment in music and the challenges faced in the modern music industry.

8. 

   25 Feb 2025

   AI vs. the old school mentality

   In this conversation, Trevor and Ace discuss the challenges of content creation, the impact of AI on creativity, and the struggles within the music industry. They explore the balance between art and business, the importance of energy for creators, and the future of creativity in a rapidly changing landscape. The dialogue highlights the frustrations of maintaining artistic integrity while navigating the demands of the industry and the role of technology in shaping their work. In this conversation, Ace and Trevor explore the intricacies of songwriting, the impact of technology on creativity, and the evolving landscape of artistic expression. They discuss the importance of adapting to change, the role of AI in the creative process, and the generational differences in experiencing technology. The dialogue emphasizes survival in a rapidly changing world and the need for artists to navigate their craft amidst these challenges. In this conversation, Trevor and Ace explore the evolving landscape of work, creativity, and technology. They discuss the implications of AI on job creation, the music industry, and the future of artistic expression. The dialogue also touches on generational differences in work ethic and the importance of adapting to new norms in a rapidly changing world.

9. 

   21 Feb 2025

   Ep. 2- my lack of (communication) skill

   T-Williams takes this one from his car. says that ace is bad at communication..but at the core its all about taking chances and not being too afraid to start up that big idea

10. 

    19 Feb 2025

    Ep. 1- What is it?

    Not gonna lie, there's a lot of bickering in this one... but it's all love. We're diving into the chaotic art of podcasting in this episode, trying to navigate the minefield of political discussions without actually discussing politics. It's meta, it's messy, and it's our attempt to figure out what this podcast even is. So, if you're curious about the behind-the-scenes of making a podcast while trying to keep the peace, tune in to see if we manage to succeed, or if we just end up making an even bigger mess. Welcome to "How to Make a Mess" - the podcast about making a podcast.

Reach and audience

Public platform figures. Ratings count people who left a rating, not total listeners.

YouTube views

9,934

Score snapshot 15 Sept 2025

Apple Podcasts (US)

5.0 / 5

5 ratings

Podcast Authority Score: 30 / 100

A composite of feed quality, social presence, YouTube performance and engagement. Read the methodology.

Quality

21

Social presence

0

YouTube

68

Engagement

32

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