I Buy My Own Roses

About I Buy My Own Roses

I Buy My Own Roses is a self love podcast that encourages childfree Black women to cultivate fulfilling lives with or without a romantic partner. To the woman who is the love of her own life....this one's for you!

Publisher

Arielle

Category

education

Language

en

Explicit

Yes

First episode

21 Feb 2023

Latest episode

23 Jun 2024

Latest episodes

13 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   23 Jun 2024

   Facing Fibroids as a Black Woman

   Hey Single Roses! In this episode, I am joined by a former classmate, Karlyssa, who bravely shares her personal experience with fibroids. From diagnosis to treatment options and the profound lessons learned along the way, this conversation is a must-listen for anyone with a uterus, whether you intend to have children or remain childfree. We discuss: 🌹Understanding fibroids: What are they and how do they affect women's health? 🌹Karylssa's journey: From initial symptoms to diagnosis and treatment decisions. 🌹Exploring treatment options: Medical interventions, lifestyle changes, and holistic approaches. 🌹Lessons learned and personal growth: How facing fibroids impacted Karylssa's life and perspective. 🌹Implications for women's health: What every woman should know about fibroids and proactive health management. Learn more about fibroids here (https://www.womenshealth.gov/a-z-topics/uterine-fibroids#:~:text=What%20are%20fibroids%3F-,Fibroids%20are%20muscular%20tumors%20that%20grow%20in%20the%20wall%20of,of%20them%20in%20the%20uterus.) **Disclaimer:** The information provided in this podcast episode is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. The views and opinions expressed by the guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect the official policies or positions of Arielle or I Buy My Own Roses podcast. 👂🏾Listen on Youtube (https://youtu.be/7DYDgYfc70w) 🔔 Subscribe to I Buy My Own Roses (http://www.youtube.com/@ibuymyownroses) What are fibroids?Why should women know about fibroids?Who gets fibroids?Where can fibroids grow?What are symptoms of fibroids?What causes fibroids?Can fibroids turn into cancer?What if I become pregnant and have fibroids?How do I know for sure that I have fibroids?What questions should I ask my doctor if I have fibroids?How are fibroids treated?What new treatments are available for uterine fibroids?More information on uterine fibroids --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ibuymyownroses/message

2. 

   1 Mar 2024

   Her Earring Business Started as a Hobby

   Hey Single Roses! In this episode, I’m chatting with my lovely friend, Samone! She is an earring designer and the owner of Custom Clayed, a polymer clay earring business. If you are interested in starting a new maker hobby that you can turn into a side hustle, this is the episode for you. Sidenote: I’m actually wearing a pair of Samone’s earrings in the picture on the screen 😊 Follow Custom Clayed here: https://www.instagram.com/customclayed/ Shop Custom Clayed Earrings: https://customclayed.com/ (https://customclayed.com/) Candle business mention: https://kyskandles.com/ (https://kyskandles.com/) I Buy My Own Roses on YouTube (www.youtube.com/channel/UCNC3LiBRJsFJjzwkTCNOP9w?sub_confirmation=1⁠) 0:00 Intro 2:04 How it all started 3:31 Process of making polymer clay earrings 4:55 Being a vendor at markets 6:32 Making money selling earrings online and at markets 8:15 Full time vs. part time 9:09 Business goals 10:15 Marketing on social media and word of mouth 12:34 Building Community, relationships, and networking 13:52 Other small business ideas that do well 14:55 Lessons learned as business owner 15:34 What makes your business unique 16:41 Start up cost 18:33 Classes and workshops 19:28 Advice for aspiring small business owners 20:58 Where to find Custom Clayed online --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ibuymyownroses/message

3. 

   17 Feb 2024

   (Self) Love Don't Cost a Thing 💗

   Hey Single Roses! 🌹 Like many millennials, I love early 2000s music! As I was listening to J Lo's 2001 hit, Love Don't Cost a Thing, I thought to myself that with a slight shift in perspective, this song would actually make a good self love lesson, in a world where self love has become entangled with consumerism through our fixation on external validation and material possessions. In this episode, I talk about self love and her homegirls-self awareness, self acceptance, self esteem, self discipline, and self respect, to express why the most valuable treasures in life are the ones we cultivate within ourselves....for free. Treat YOURSELF right and give YOURSELF all the things you need that money can't buy...or Whatever Jennifer Lopez was saying lol 💗 Subscribe on YouTube (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCNC3LiBRJsFJjzwkTCNOP9w?sub_confirmation=1) 💗 Follow on IG (https://www.instagram.com/ibuymyownroses/) ⌚Timestamps⌚ 00:00 Welcome to I Buy My Own Roses Podcast 00:39- Self love for sale 06:12- I am human 06:58- How to be self aware 09:58-How to accept yourself 12:09-How to build high self esteem 14:31- How to respect yourself 17:36 -Self discipline is hard 21:05-Gratitude 22:25- I don't want to be "That Girl" 23:32- How to actually love yourself --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ibuymyownroses/message

4. 

   5 Jan 2024

   Skip the spouse. Buy a house!

   Hey Single Roses! Have you ever thought about buying a home for yourself but feel like it's not within reach? This episode is for you!  I had a conversation with Aerial Austin, a successful local NC real estate agent. Aerial and I talked about the benefits of purchasing a home as a single woman, even if you plan to partner later. We talk about what to look for in a good real estate agent, what red flags to look out for when purchasing your first home, what you’ll need to do to start the process and more! I purchased my home in 2022 as a single woman with 1 income (less than 6 figures) and only $20,000 to invest! If I could do it, there's hope for you too! It is completely possible to find a home that fits your lifestyle and budget, even as a single woman. I will share my home buying story in a different episode if you all are interested. Please follow Aerial on IG! (https://www.instagram.com/aeriscorner_/) Her IG is great for homebuying education and inspiration. Following her on IG inspired me to take the leap into homeownership! Watch on Youtube: Skip the spouse. Buy a house! (https://youtu.be/a3gfYLyewdY) Disclaimer: This video is for entertainment purposes only, and the information provided may not be comprehensive. Viewers are strongly advised to independently research and verify any information before making decisions or taking actions based on the content of this video. The views expressed are solely those of the creator, and we disclaim any responsibility for errors or inaccuracies. Viewers assume their own risk and responsibility for their decisions. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ibuymyownroses/message

5. 

   31 Dec 2023

   I'd rather be the ugly friend

   No, I don't actually believe I'm ugly... lol In this episode, I revisit a viral moment about a women who felt insecure because she was never approached by men when she goes out with her friends. I share why I don't believe that male attention is worth having and what I do with it when I receive it. This episode explores, desirability politics, pretty privledge, beauty standards, and decentering the male gaze. Watch on Youtube (https://youtu.be/lhqsWT_Sj5A) --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ibuymyownroses/message

6. 

   24 Dec 2023

   Single Black Women Are Just Jealous of Simone's Love Story?

   Heeeeey Single Roses! This is a quick episode where I share my thoughts about how Simone Biles took a quiet jab at single Black Women in her response to the backlash her husband received on social media. Listen on Youtube (https://youtu.be/3nky1DZQ0bU) --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ibuymyownroses/message

7. 

   30 Nov 2023

   Surviving Matching Pajama Season as a Single Woman Spending the Holidays Alone

   Hey Single Roses! I typically spend the holidays alone and really enjoy my time with myself! If seeing pictures of cute couples in their matching pajamas makes you feel a bit lonely, excluded, or jealous, no worries! I got you! Whether you’re single by choice or by circumstance, don’t let being single and alone for the holidays keep you from participating in your favorite holiday traditions. After listening to this episode, you won’t be too worried about the cute couples on social media because you’ll know how to enjoy being single for the holidays! In this single girl’s survival guide to the holidays, I talk about how I deal with being alone for the holidays, what it’s like to be single during the holidays, how to be single during the holidays and love it, being single and happy during the holidays, what to do if you’re single for the holidays, benefits of being single for the holidays, how I take care of myself living alone, celebrating the holidays when you’re alone, and reasons being single for the holidays is the best thing ever. If you have any tips, tricks, or fun single woman holiday plans, please share! Watch on Youtube (https://youtu.be/qVKOGDA_MJs) --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ibuymyownroses/message

8. 

   13 Nov 2023

   Is it safer to be single? What single women can learn from #kekepalmer

   In this episode, I talk about the community response to learning about the nature of Keke Palmer's relationship with her son's father, Darius Jackson. I use the allegations to discuss how culture influences the abuse that women in our community experience. Correction: In the video I share some statistics for The National Coalition Against Domestic Violence but call it The National Center for Domestic Violence by mistake. Here (https://ncadv.org/) is their website for more information. Here is the article (https://www.lehighvalleylive.com/reckon/2023/11/keke-palmers-abuse-allegations-shines-light-on-harrowing-reality-for-pregnant-people.html#:~:text=Palmer) I used as a source to make this episode. 🌹 YouTube (https://youtu.be/t5RWUS_3uhw) 🌹Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/ibuymyownroses_/) 🌹 TikTok (https://www.tiktok.com/@ibuymyownroses?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc) 🌹Last episode ( https://youtu.be/ZhRfsO6lxVM?si=pO_4Ny47nxjjqqrB) --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ibuymyownroses/message

9. 

   6 Nov 2023

   Still Single at 32, Why I'm Staying Single Forever

   Heyyyy! I've been single for many years and I love it here! Instead of putting all of my energy into trying to change my relationship status, I've decided to commit to living a fulfilling life as a single woman. In this episode I share: 🌹How I became single 🌹Why I'm still single 🌹How I've made peace with being single 🌹Why relationships aren't a good fit for me This is not intended to be advice. I am just sharing my own thoughts and experiences. I wanna know your thoughts too! Listen on YouTube: https://youtu.be/ZhRfsO6lxVM --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ibuymyownroses/message

10. 

    17 Oct 2023

    We're here to learn a few lessons from Will and Jada.

    Heeeeyyy Single Roses! This is just a quick episode of my unsolicited opinion on why Jada is constantly drowning the general public in her relationship drama and why I don't have sympathy for Will. Like most of you, I want to be removed from the group chat but they refuse to let us go! 😂 Regardless of what we think, we can all learn a few lessons about life and love from Will and Jada Smith. Watch on Youtube (https://youtu.be/ekN9uyUfngk)! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ibuymyownroses/message

11. 

    9 Oct 2023

    Childfree by Choice While Black: The top 3 reasons I don't want kids as a Black Woman.

    Hey Single Roses! I'm BACK! 😂 Join me as I share my thoughts, experiences, and reasons behind my childfree decision. Whether you're considering a similar path or simply curious about the childfree lifestyle, this video will provide valuable insights and food for thought. You can also find this episode on Youtube! (https://youtu.be/WwqBmdkBsmY) In this video I share why I don't want to have kids, why I'm childfree by choice in my 30's, top 3 reasons I don't want to have kids, motherhood isn't for everyone, and if the childfree movement has gone too far. Ideas for next episode: 1. Why I no longer date 2. Making friends as an adult 3. The time I quit my job without a back up plan 4. Something else? Give me an idea! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ibuymyownroses/message

12. 

    6 Mar 2023

    The Soft Life to Pick Me Pipeline & The False Promise of Hypergamy for Black Women

    Hi Single Roses! In this episode, I share my thoughts on the soft life trend and how it has become a bit toxic to the community. Youtube: @ibuymyownroses --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ibuymyownroses/message

13. 

    21 Feb 2023

    Why Do You Want a Romantic Relationship? Interview with Dr. Kris Marsh

    Hey Single Roses! I sat down with Sociologist Dr. Kris Marsh, author of The Love Jones Cohort: Single and Living Alone in the Black Middle Class. Our conversation centered around destigmatizing singleness in the Black community so that we don't settle for toxic relationships that disrupt our peace. Dr. Marsh encourages us to ask ourselves, "Why do you want to be in a romantic relationship?" This thought exercise helps us to determine if we genuinely want a romantic partner or if we are yielding to the pressure to partner in a society that caters to marriage and systematically discriminates against single people. We discussed the barriers to partnership for Black Women and how structural forces (racism) constrain our personal choices when it comes to choosing a suitable partner. Finally, Dr. Marsh advises us on how we can build fulfilling lives as single women by leveraging our non-romantic relationships. There were so many gems in this interview and I really hope you take something valuable away from the conversation! Please go purchase The Love Jones Cohort: Single and Living Alone in the Black Middle Class on Amazon! It is a great read! Don't forget to rate the Podcast on Spotify or Apple and make sure you are subscribed to @ibuymyownroses on YouTube! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ibuymyownroses/message

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Apple Podcasts (US)

5.0 / 5

3 ratings

Spotify

5.0 / 5

6 ratings

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