I Don’t Know What We’re Talking About

About I Don’t Know What We’re Talking About

A podcast where the topic’s a mystery and the chaos is guaranteed. Each guest sends in five possible topics. Only one is chosen - and they won’t know which one until we hit record. There’s no script, no plan, and absolutely no idea where the conversation might go. Fun, a little chaotic, and totally unpredictable - just the way we like it.

Publisher

gemmawatchesstuff

Category

society & culture

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

8 Aug 2025

Latest episode

22 Aug 2026

Latest episodes

19 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   22 Aug 2026

   Episode 18: M.C. Huff — Criminal Minds, Golden Trails and the Stories We Carry

   Welcome to Episode 18 of I Don’t Know What We’re Talking About! 🎙️ Our guest for this episode is M.C. Huff, actor, filmmaker, hospice volunteer, and the creator behind The Golden Trail Project. Here's how the show works: every guest sends me five possible topics, and I don't choose one until we hit record. No prep, no plan... just real conversation. My chat with M.C. took us from Hollywood sets to hospice care and everywhere in between. We talked about The Golden Trail Project, her work around hospice, death and dementia, and her journey turning her grandfather’s story into a narrative feature film, a dementia western inspired by his life. And, of course, we had to talk Criminal Minds: Evolution. M.C. appeared in Season 19, Episode 1 as the younger version of Jeri Ryan’s character, giving us a behind-the-scenes look at filming the episode, bringing that character’s past to life, and the journey that led to her landing the job. It’s a conversation about acting, storytelling, grief, memory, life, death and the stories we choose to carry forward. ✨ Follow M.C. Huff on Instagram: @m.c.huff🎬 Check out The Golden Trail Project: @thegoldentrailproject 🎧 Early access & behind-the-scenes extras:patreon.com/gemmawatchesstuff 📲 Come hang out:• Twitter/X → x.com/gemmawatches• TikTok → tiktok.com/@gemmawatchesstuff• Instagram → instagram.com/gemmawatchesstuff

2. 

   29 Jul 2026

   Episode 17: Jennifer Jelsema — Make Friends. Make Stuff.

   Welcome to Episode 17 of I Don’t Know What We’re Talking About! 🎙️ Our guest for this episode is Jennifer Jelsema — actor, filmmaker, and firm believer that the best creative projects start with great people. Here's how the show works: every guest sends me five possible topics, and I don't choose one until we hit record. No prep, no plan... just real conversation. My chat with Jennifer was inspiring, practical, and full of great advice for anyone working in a creative industry. We talked about the importance of building genuine relationships, finding collaborators you love working with, and creating a community of people who make you excited to bring new ideas to life. Sometimes the best career move isn't landing the next job... it's finding the people you want to keep creating with. ✨ Follow Jennifer Jelsema on Instagram: @jenjelsema🎬 Check out The Time Away Series: @timeawayseries 🎧 Early access & behind-the-scenes extras:patreon.com/gemmawatchesstuff 📲 Come hang out:• Twitter/X → x.com/gemmawatches• TikTok → tiktok.com/@gemmawatchesstuff• Instagram → instagram.com/gemmawatchesstuff

3. 

   23 Jun 2026

   Episode 16: Krystal M Harris — From Hollywood to Happily Ever After

   Welcome to Episode 16 of I Don’t Know What We’re Talking About! 🎙️ This week’s guest is Krystal M Harris — an actor whose journey has taken her from Hollywood to a very different chapter of life. Here’s how the show works: every guest sends me five possible topics, and I don’t choose one until we hit record. No prep, no plan... just real conversation. My chat with Krystal was honest, thoughtful, and full of unexpected turns. We talked about her acting career, what led her to leave Hollywood behind, and how life can take you in directions you never expected. Along the way, we explored change, new beginnings, and what happens when the path you end up on looks completely different from the one you first imagined. ✨ Follow Krystal M Harris on Instagram: @krystalmharris 🎧 Early access & behind-the-scenes extras:patreon.com/gemmawatchesstuff NEW EPISODES EVERY WEEK! 📲 Come hang out:• Twitter/X → x.com/gemmawatches• TikTok → tiktok.com/@gemmawatchesstuff• Instagram → instagram.com/gemmawatchesstuff

4. 

   11 May 2026

   Episode 15: Harrison Keen — Aussie Acting, Vertical Drama and Creative Chaos

   Welcome to Episode 15 of I Don’t Know What We’re Talking About! 🎙️ This week’s guest is the incredibly talented Harrison Keen, an Australian actor working in the world of vertical drama and short form storytelling. Here’s how the show works: every guest sends me five possible topics, and I don’t choose one until we hit record. No prep, no plan… just real conversation. With Harrison, we dove into the fast-moving world of vertical series, the realities of acting in short form content, and what it’s like navigating the industry as an Aussie actor. Naturally, the conversation also spiralled into complete chaos along the way. ✨ Follow Harrison Keen on Instagram: @Harrison_Keen_ 🎧 Early access & behind-the-scenes extras:patreon.com/gemmawatchesstuff NEW EPISODES EVERY MONTH! 📲 Come hang out:• Twitter/X → x.com/gemmawatches• TikTok → tiktok.com/@gemmawatchesstuff• Instagram → instagram.com/gemmawatchesstuff

5. 

   8 Apr 2026

   Episode 14: Imari Williams — Voice Acting and Unexpected Detours

   Welcome to Episode 14 of I Don’t Know What We’re Talking About! 🎙️ This week’s guest is the incredible Imari Williams — a voice actor you might recognise from Kingdom of the Planet of the Apes and Transformers: Rescue Bots. Here’s how the show works: every guest sends me five possible topics, and I don’t choose one until we hit record. No prep, no plan… just real conversation. My chat with Imari was such a fun mix of insight and chaos. We dove into the world of voice acting, the challenges that come with it, and what it really takes to bring characters to life… before getting very sidetracked talking about Christmas trees. ✨ Follow Imari Williams on Instagram: @imarispeaks 🎧 Early access & behind-the-scenes extras:patreon.com/gemmawatchesstuff NEW EPISODES EVERY WEEK! 📲 Come hang out:• Twitter/X → x.com/gemmawatches• TikTok → tiktok.com/@gemmawatchesstuff• Instagram → instagram.com/gemmawatchesstuff

6. 

   7 Mar 2026

   Episode 13: RJ Hatanaka — Ball Boy to BAU

   Welcome to Episode 13 of I Don’t Know What We’re Talking About! 🎙️ Actor RJ Hatanaka joins me for this episode. You’ll know him as Tyler Green on Criminal Minds: Evolution. If you’re new here, the premise is simple. Every guest sends me five possible topics and I don’t pick one until we start recording. No prep, no planning. Whatever happens next is the episode. RJ’s topic led us down a path through some of his earliest jobs, starting with working as a ball boy, and the different careers and experiences he had before acting became his full-time world. We also talk about the moment he landed the role of Tyler Green on Criminal Minds: Evolution and what that journey looked like from his side. It’s a really fun conversation about unexpected career paths, the long road to the industry, and a few classic podcast tangents along the way. ✨ Follow RJ Hatanaka on Instagram at @rjhatanaka 🎧 Early access and behind the scenes extras: patreon.com/gemmawatchesstuff NEW EPISODES EVERY WEEK! 📲 Come hang out:• Twitter/X x.com/gemmawatches• TikTok tiktok.com/@gemmawatchesstuff• Instagram instagram.com/gemmawatchesstuff

7. 

   14 Feb 2026

   Episode 12: Tiffany Yvonne Cox — Words, Direction and Creative Chaos

   Welcome to Episode 12 of I Don’t Know What We’re Talking About! 🎙️ This week’s guest is the wonderful Tiffany Yvonne Cox, actor and creator you might recognise from Reasonable Doubt. Here’s how the show works. Every guest sends me five possible topics, and I do not choose one until we hit record. No prep, no plan, just real conversation. With Tiffany, the conversation went in some really thoughtful directions. We talked about her Word of the Year and how choosing one word can help shape your focus for the year ahead, the launch of her new vertical series Unexpected Company, and a whole bunch of side quests in between. It is reflective, funny, and very on brand for this podcast. ✨ Follow Tiffany Yvonne Cox on Instagram at @tiffanyyvonnecox 🎧 Early access and behind the scenes extras: patreon.com/gemmawatchesstuff NEW EPISODES EVERY WEEK! 📲 Come hang out:• Twitter/X x.com/gemmawatches• TikTok tiktok.com/@gemmawatchesstuff• Instagram instagram.com/gemmawatchesstuff

8. 

   14 Jan 2026

   Episode 11 (part 2): Kirsten Vangsness — From Criminal Minds to Sparkly Finds

   Welcome to Episode 11 (Part 2) of I Don’t Know What We’re Talking About! 🎙️The second half of our very special bonus episode. This week’s guest is the absolutely wonderful Kirsten Vangsness, who you’ll know and love as Penelope Garcia from Criminal Minds. Here’s how the show works. Every guest sends me five possible topics, and I don’t choose one until we hit record. No prep, no plan, just real conversation. In Part 2, our conversation goes even deeper. We talk more about Kirsten’s relationship with Garcia, how her work and personal values have evolved over time, and what it means to keep choosing authenticity in a very public industry. It’s thoughtful, funny, and full of heart. ✨ Follow Kirsten Vangsness on Instagram: @kirstenvangsness 💛 Want access to Kirsten’s exclusive Q and A, including her answers to your questions and all things Criminal Minds Season 19? That bonus session is available for Patreon subscribers at patreon.com/gemmawatchesstuff. NEW EPISODES EVERY WEEK, with bonus surprises like this one. 📲 Come hang out:• Twitter/X → x.com/gemmawatches• TikTok → tiktok.com/@gemmawatchesstuff• Instagram → instagram.com/gemmawatchesstuff

9. 

   7 Jan 2026

   Episode 11 (part 1): Kirsten Vangsness — From Criminal Minds to Sparkly Finds

   Welcome to Episode 11 (Part 1) of I Don’t Know What We’re Talking About! 🎙️A very special bonus episode. This week’s guest is the absolutely wonderful Kirsten Vangsness, an actor you’ll know and love as Penelope Garcia from Criminal Minds. Here’s how the show works. Every guest sends me five possible topics, and I don’t choose one until we hit record. No prep, no plan, just real conversation. This chat with Kirsten was honest, funny, and genuinely meaningful. We talked about her journey with Garcia, what that character has meant to people over the years, and what it really looks like to show up as your authentic self, on screen and off. ✨ Follow Kirsten Vangsness on Instagram: @kirstenvangsness 🎧 Early access and behind the scenes extras:patreon.com/gemmawatchesstuff Want to see Kirsten's Q and A? Including all the deets on Criminal Minds season 19? Join our UnSub Club on Patreon!  patreon.com/gemmawatchesstuff NEW EPISODES EVERY WEEK 📲 Come hang out:• Twitter/X → x.com/gemmawatches• TikTok → tiktok.com/@gemmawatchesstuff• Instagram → instagram.com/gemmawatchesstuff

10. 

    27 Nov 2025

    Episode 10: Nick Marini — Cobra Kai and Canine Chaos

    Welcome to Episode 10 of I Don’t Know What We’re Talking About! 🎙️ This week’s guest is the wonderful Nick Marini — an actor you might recognise from Cobra Kai or Chicago Med. Here’s how the show works: every guest sends me five possible topics, and I don’t choose one until we hit record. No prep, no plan… just real conversation. My chat with Nick was surprisingly sweet and genuinely wholesome. We talked about his acting career, what life was like growing up, and shared plenty of heart-warming memories and moments along the way. ✨ Follow Nick Marini on Instagram: @nickamarini 🎧 Early access & behind-the-scenes extras:patreon.com/gemmawatchesstuff NEW EPISODES EVERY WEEK! 📲 Come hang out:• Twitter/X → x.com/gemmawatches• TikTok → tiktok.com/@gemmawatchesstuff• Instagram → instagram.com/gemmawatchesstuff

11. 

    15 Oct 2025

    Episode 9: Mynor Luken — From Trauma to Trek: Resilience Among the Stars

    Welcome to Episode 9 of I Don’t Know What We’re Talking About! 🌌 This week’s guest is the amazing Mynor Luken — actor and performer you might recognise from Star Trek: Strange New Worlds. Here’s how the show works: every guest sends me five possible topics, and I don’t choose one until we hit record. No prep, no plan… just real conversation. With Mynor, things got raw and real. We talked about his upbringing, the impact of trauma, and how Star Trek has shaped the way he sees the world. It’s honest, vulnerable, and full of depth — a truly powerful chat. ✨ Follow Mynor Luken on Instagram at @mynorluken 🎧 Early access & behind-the-scenes extras: patreon.com/gemmawatchesstuff NEW EPISODES EVERY WEEK! 📲 Come hang out:• Twitter/X → x.com/gemmawatches• TikTok → tiktok.com/@gemmawatchesstuff• Instagram → instagram.com/gemmawatchesstuff

12. 

    29 Sept 2025

    Episode 8: JR Williams — Multiverse Maps, Star Wars & Side Quests

    Welcome to Episode 8 of I Don’t Know What We’re Talking About! This week’s guest is the brilliantly nerdy JR Williams — actual play creator and all-round chaos connoisseur behind Nomads of the Multiverse, a TTRPG series blending big space energy, deep lore, and epic dice rolls. Here’s how the show works: every guest sends me five possible topics, and I don’t choose one until we hit record. No prep, no plan… just real conversation. With JR, we went full nerd mode — diving into the world of tabletop roleplaying games, building fictional universes, and (accidentally) starting a war over Star Wars hot takes. It’s chaotic, passionate, and honestly one of the most fun episodes yet. ✨ Follow JR on Instagram at @jrwilliamsiswriting🚀 Follow Nomads of the Multiverse at @nomadsofthemultiverse 🎧 Early access & behind-the-scenes extras: patreon.com/gemmawatchesstuff NEW EPISODES EVERY WEEK! 📲 Come hang out:• Twitter/X → x.com/gemmawatches• TikTok → tiktok.com/@gemmawatchesstuff• Instagram → instagram.com/gemmawatchesstuff

13. 

    19 Sept 2025

    Episode 7: Nicole Pacent — Criminal Minds, Community and Cult Chaos

    Welcome to Episode 7 of I Don’t Know What We’re Talking About! This week’s guest is the amazing Nicole Pacent — actor and advocate who you might recognise from Criminal Minds: Evolution, where she plays Rebecca Wilson. The way this show works: every guest sends me five possible topics, and I don’t choose one until we hit record. No prep, no plan… just real conversation. With Nicole, we dived into some big ones: the importance of found family, building healthy relationships, and an absolutely wild discussion on cults and communes. It was the kind of conversation that bounced between heartfelt, hilarious, and a little unhinged — exactly what this podcast is all about. ✨ Follow Nicole on Instagram at @nicolepacent to keep up with her projects! 🎧 Early access & behind-the-scenes extras: patreon.com/gemmawatchesstuff NEW EPISODES EVERY WEEK! 📲 Come hang out:• Twitter/X → x.com/gemmawatches• TikTok → tiktok.com/@gemmawatchesstuff• Instagram → instagram.com/gemmawatchesstuff

14. 

    12 Sept 2025

    Episode 6: Justin Mane — Cheese, Chaos & Mental Health

    Welcome to Episode 6 of I Don’t Know What We’re Talking About! This week’s guest is the multi-talented Justin Mane — actor, stunt performer, professional wrestler, and personal trainer. You might’ve seen him in Chicago PD, American Rust, and Deadlock. The way this show works: every guest sends me five possible topics, and I don’t choose one until we hit record. No prep, no plan… just real conversation. With Justin, we smashed through two big ones: his strong (and hilarious) views on cheese 🧀, and an honest, thoughtful chat about men’s mental health. Somehow, it all made sense together — equal parts chaos, laughter, and heart. ✨ Follow Justin on Instagram at @justinmaneofficial to keep up with his projects! 🎧 Early access & behind-the-scenes extras: patreon.com/gemmawatchesstuff 📲 Come hang out:• Twitter/X → x.com/gemmawatches• TikTok → tiktok.com/@gemmawatchesstuff• Instagram → instagram.com/gemmawatchesstuff

15. 

    5 Sept 2025

    Episode 5: Amy Vorpahl – Ukuleles, Wall Paint & Water Bottles

    Welcome to Episode 5 of I Don’t Know What We’re Talking About! This week’s guest is the endlessly creative Amy Vorpahl — actor, writer, musician, and self-described professional nerd. She’s brought her unique spark to the world of Dungeons & Dragons (yes, official content), music, comedy, and so much more. The way this show works: every guest sends me five possible topics, and I don’t choose one until we hit record. No prep, no plan… just real conversation. With Amy, the conversation was as random and joyful as you’d expect. We went from emotional support water bottles to ukuleles, to painting walls and everything in between. Pure chaos, plenty of laughs, and a whole lot of fun. ✨ Go follow Amy on Instagram at @vorpahlsword to keep up with all her latest projects and adventures! 🎧 Early access & behind-the-scenes extras: patreon.com/gemmawatchesstuff 📲 Come hang out:• Twitter/X → x.com/gemmawatches• TikTok → tiktok.com/@gemmawatchesstuff• Instagram → instagram.com/gemmawatchesstuff

16. 

    29 Aug 2025

    Episode 4: Rebekah Kennedy – From Drama to Horror and Everything Between

    Welcome to Episode 4 of I Don’t Know What We’re Talking About! This week’s guest is the brilliant Rebekah Kennedy — you might know her from Criminal Minds, Law and Order: SVU, Station 19, or her standout roles in horror films like Two Witches, The Veil, and Crust. She’s one of those actors who disappears into every role, and sitting down with her was such a treat. The way this show works: every guest sends me five possible topics, and I don’t choose one until we hit record. No prep, no plan… just real conversation. With Rebekah, things went deep fast. We talked about facing the very real challenges actors have weathered in recent years — from COVID shutdowns and the SAG-AFTRA strikes to literal fires and more. It’s an honest look at resilience and creativity when the world feels upside down. And of course, it wouldn’t be this podcast without a few tangents, laughs, and a little chaos woven in too. 🎧 Early access & behind-the-scenes extras: patreon.com/gemmawatchesstuff 📲 Come hang out: • Twitter/X → x.com/gemmawatches • TikTok → tiktok.com/@gemmawatchesstuff • Instagram → instagram.com/gemmawatchesstuff

17. 

    22 Aug 2025

    Episode 3: Hal Lublin — From Thrilling Adventure to Maximum Chaos

    Welcome to Episode 3 of I Don’t Know What We’re Talking About! This week I’m joined by actor, voice-over artist, and podcast extraordinaire Hal Lublin. You’ve probably heard his voice more times than you realise — from The Thrilling Adventure Hour and Welcome to Night Vale to cartoons and beyond. As always, my guests each send me five possible topics, but I don’t pick one until we start recording. No prep. No script. Just an honest, unscripted conversation to see where it goes. We set out to talk about Hal’s professional philosophy, but in true chaotic fashion, we spiralled into so much more — from how colleagues become lifelong friends and the importance of kindness to tangents about life, laughter, and (way too many) spiders. Equal parts heartfelt and unhinged. 🎧 Early access & bonus content: patreon.com/gemmawatchesstuff 📲 Follow me for updates & chaos:• YouTube: youtube.com/@GemmaWatchesStuff• Twitter/X: x.com/gemmawatches• TikTok: tiktok.com/@gemmawatchesstuff• Instagram: instagram.com/gemmawatchesstuff

18. 

    15 Aug 2025

    Episode 2: Brain Field — Our Connected Disconnectedness

    Welcome to Episode 2 of I Don’t Know What We’re Talking About! I’m joined by musician, composer, and actor Brian Field! His work has been performed across the globe, he’s composed for stage, screen, and the concert hall, and his environmental initiative Passions for our Tortured Planet supports climate advocacy through music. You can find out more about his work at brianfield.com. As always, my guests send me five possible topics, but I don’t pick one until we start recording. No prep. No script. Just an honest, unscripted conversation to see where it goes. The topic we landed on was our connected disconnectedness — how we’re more linked than ever, yet often feel more apart. Naturally, we veer off into tangents, swap stories, and have more than a few “what were we talking about again?” moments. 🎧 Early access & bonus content: patreon.com/gemmawatchesstuff 📲 Follow me for updates & chaos:• X: x.com/gemmawatches• TikTok: tiktok.com/@gemmawatchesstuff• Instagram: instagram.com/gemmawatchesstuff

19. 

    8 Aug 2025

    Episode 1: Barton Bund — No Notes. No Script. No Problem!

    Actor, filmmaker, and teacher Barton Bund joins me for the very first episode of I Don’t Know What We’re Talking About! You might recognise Barton from Batman v Superman: Dawn of Justice, The Dunes, Age of Ice, and more. Each guest on this show sends me five possible topics — but I don’t choose one until we hit record. No prep. No script. Just an honest, unscripted conversation to see where it goes. This time, we landed on method acting — from extreme Hollywood stories to Barton’s own experiences and thoughts on the craft. We talk about what works, what doesn’t, and why “living the role” can sometimes be more harmful than helpful. Plus, plenty of tangents, laughs, and moments where neither of us knows what’s going on (in the best way). 🎧 Early access & bonus content: https://patreon.com/gemmawatchesstuff 📲 Follow me for updates & chaos: X: https://x.com/gemmawatches TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@gemmawatchesstuff Instagram: https://instagram.com/gemmawatchesstuff

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