I Got it Girl Podcast

About I Got it Girl Podcast

Have you ever said “I got it” . . .I’m fine, I’m good, I’ve got this. . . while silently holding everything together with sheer willpower and exhaustion? Yeah… same. Welcome to The I Got It Girl Podcast—a space for recovering I Got It Girls who are tired of surviving on control, hustle, and self-reliance, and are ready for something different. Here, we talk about the moment when having it all together stops working. This podcast shares real, raw stories from my own journey—and from other women who have lived successful, responsible, “good” lives… yet realized they were living from survival instead of trust. Control instead of freedom. Fear instead of love. Together, we explore what happens when you loosen the grip. When you stop muscling your way through life. When you surrender—not to give up, but to finally thrive. Expect conversations about: Letting go of control without losing yourself Moving from chaos to peace Releasing the identity of “the strong one” Learning to trust life, love, and yourself again Finding freedom in the middle of real life—not a perfect one This show is for you if you want more ease, joy, and authenticity… but aren’t quite sure what that looks like yet—or how to get there. Hang out with me. Learn through real experiences. Take the pressure off having it all figured out. And discover that you’re not broken, you’re not crazy—and you’re definitely not alone. Hit follow so you don’t miss the powerful little nuggets that remind you that it gets to be different and you don’t have to do it all by yourself anymore. Here all all things Coach Jackie (https://destinymakers.net/links)

Publisher

Jackie Cote

Category

business · education

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

19 Mar 2026

Latest episode

5 Oct 2026

Latest episodes

36 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   5 Oct 2026

   Finding Love, Trust & Safety in a Second-Chapter Relationship with Carol Koppelman

   On this episode Coach Jackie gets to interview my friend and peer, Carol Koppelman. She is an Arizona-based book editor, 13-time international bestselling author, and host of the Silver Linings Resilience and Remarkable Rebounds podcast. We explore the “I got it” woman archetype: fierce independence, control, and self-sufficiency that can block receiving love and support, and how letting go shifts life from fear and survival into trust and thriving. Carol shares being a “para parent” as the oldest of four, divorcing in her early 50s, returning to dating in her 60s, and remarrying at 61 to a trusted, traditional, kind partner. They discuss fears of losing independence (especially financial), learning safety through caregiving experiences, identity changes in later-life chapters, dating advice (coffee dates, know what you want, avoid old patterns), somatic healing, and the reminder that you’re not alone. 00:00 Welcome and Guest Intro 01:23 What Is an I Got It Girl 02:39 Carol’s Independence Story 04:15 Dating Again and Remarrying 06:09 Learning to Receive Support 08:51 Trust Built Through Caregiving 10:45 Independence Fears and Boundaries 16:53 Money Independence and Partnership 18:20 Advice for Dating Later in Life 19:15 Ditch the Bad Boys 21:07 Coffee Dates and No Pressure 21:30 Somatic Healing and Control 23:24 Make the Values List 25:35 Kindness Over Checklists 28:23 Psychological Safety in Love 31:32 Second Chapter Identity Shift 35:40 Where to Find Carol 37:41 You Are Not Alone 39:01 Closing Thanks and Share You can find all of Carol’s stuff here: https://linktr.ee/carolkoppelman (https://linktr.ee/carolkoppelman) You can find all things Coach Jackie, Your Freedom Mentor at the following link: https://destinymakers.net/links (https://destinymakers.net/links) This includes links to Connect and coffee chat, her Destiny Makers Inner Circle mastermind, Destiny Makers Membership, Free intentional goal setting video, Freedom and Adventure Retreats, How to work with her in one on one coaching containers and so much more!

2. 

   28 Sept 2026

   Reinvention, Sisterhood, and Building Visibility with Valentina Escobar Gonzalez

   Coach Jackie welcomes Valentina Escobar Gonzalez, founder of Beyond Engagement Social Media Solutions, who shares her 14-year journey in social media marketing and her recent move from the South to Pennsylvania, where she had to rebuild community and business from scratch. They discuss the “I Got It Girl” shift from survival-driven independence to receiving support, trust, and surrender, including Jackie’s experience letting her husband support her during family health crises. Valentina describes putting herself in uncomfortable networking rooms, leveraging sisterhood groups like Polka Dot Powerhouse and the Junior League, and using curiosity to form connections. Business growth themes include investing in education, authenticity and storytelling, and practical visibility strategies—especially that LinkedIn comments can outperform posts for reach—plus choosing one “happy place” platform and defining consistency in a sustainable way. Valentina’s website is beyond-engagement.com (http://beyond-engagement.com). 00:00 Podcast Welcome 00:19 Meet Valentina 01:42 Bulldog Adoption Story 03:23 What Is I Got It Girl 05:44 Letting Love In 11:00 Valentina Restarting Life 13:42 Networking From Scratch 14:50 Social Butterfly Mindset 17:26 Receiving Help And Support 21:05 Breaking Into Northeast Circles 22:19 Northeast Food Debate 22:55 Mexican Food Takes 23:25 Business Shifts Mindset 24:36 Invest Learn Network 25:40 Vulnerability Storytelling 27:53 Coaching Overload Trap 29:42 Social Media Diary 31:36 Visibility Through Comments 33:15 Where To Find Her 34:11 Consistency And Platforms 37:37 Energy Over Obligation 39:05 Content Calendar Balance 40:43 Final Thanks Wrap You can find Valentina at the following places: Website: https://beyond-engagement.com (https://beyond-engagement.com) Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/equinevalentina (https://www.linkedin.com/in/equinevalentina) Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/valentinaeg/ (https://www.instagram.com/valentinaeg/) Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BeyondEngagement (https://www.facebook.com/BeyondEngagement) You can find all things Coach Jackie, Your Freedom Mentor at the following link: https://destinymakers.net/links (https://destinymakers.net/links) This includes links to connect, her small group programs, free intentional goal setting, retreats, one on one coaching and so much more!

3. 

   21 Sept 2026

   The Power of Rediscovery and Resilience with Confidence Coach Christy Meaux

   Jackie welcomes Christy Meaux, a cohesive confidence coach focused on networking, value exchange, and using color analysis to create magnetic, subconscious communication through personal style and business alignment. Christy shares being a lifelong Texan in Fort Worth, turning 50, celebrating in Paris, and entering a season of rediscovery and reinvention. Jackie explains the show’s theme of moving from survival, control, and fear into thriving through connection, receiving support, and self-development. Christy discusses “unlearning” limiting messages like “that’s cute,” adopting “I get to” language, creating a vision, and releasing others’ expectations to define success for herself after misalignment in her mortgage career. They discuss flexibility, learnings vs failures, hard seasons, community support, and radical responsibility. Your can find all her links below. 00:00 Welcome And Guest Intro 00:55 Christy’s Story And Reinvention 02:23 Color And Cohesive Confidence 03:02 Texas Heat And Nomad Life 06:38 Podcast Mission Thriving 09:05 Unlearning And What If 13:00 Get To Language Shift 15:08 Fear Safety And Awareness 17:33 Breaking Expectations Branding 20:44 No Expectations Dating 21:53 Standards Versus Pressure 22:44 Reframing Failure Lessons 23:24 Entrepreneur Visibility Goals 26:38 PARR Respond Not React 29:58 Rock Bottom Rebuild Story 31:21 Support Systems Safety 35:07 Meaning Over Victimhood 36:18 Where To Find Christi 37:26 Networking Group Invite 38:15 Final Thanks Wrap Up You can find Christy Meaux at the following places: www.cohesiveconfidence.com (http://www.cohesiveconfidence.com) FB: www.facebook.com/cohesiveconfidence (http://www.facebook.com/cohesiveconfidence) LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/christymeaux/ (https://www.linkedin.com/in/christymeaux/) Instagram: https:/www.instagram.com/cohesiveconfidence (http://www.instagram.com/cohesiveconfidence) TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cohesiveconfidence (https://www.tiktok.com/@cohesiveconfidence) And here is a $50 color analysis coupon code GOTITGIRL50 for the following link https://cohesiveconfidence.com/color-analysis (https://cohesiveconfidence.com/color-analysis). And if you live in North Fort Worth Texas check out her Global Women’s Empire chapter. You can find all things Coach Jackie, Your Freedom Mentor at the following link: https://destinymakers.net/links (https://destinymakers.net/links) This includes links to connect, her small group programs, free intentional goal setting, retreats, one on one coaching and so much more!

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