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I Have a Story For You

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by Dr. Sonja Adzovic

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I Have a Story for You is a podcast about power, environment, and the gap between the rules women were taught to play by and the rules that actually determine what gets recognized. Hosted by Dr. Sonja Adzovic — doctor turned high-stakes decisions strategist — this show is for capable, accomplished women who are working harder without changing position, and who suspect the problem isn't their effort. It's the read. Each episode begins with a story — personal, historical, or cultural — and follows it into the kinds of questions women carry privately: Why do I keep over-functioning in rooms that don't reward it? Why does competence stop translating at a certain level? Why does the next move feel impossible to make from where I'm standing? Why am I being told I'm "almost ready" by people whose feedback is operationally meaningless? This is not a podcast about hustle, productivity, mindset, or confidence. It's about reading the system clearly — power, environment, identity, perception — so the next decision isn't shaped by an inaccurate map. Expect research. Expect pattern reads. Expect the relief of finally having language for something you've been feeling but couldn't name. I have a story for you. Let's begin.

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April 23, 2026

Being Competent Won't Give You Authority. This Will. - I Have a Story for You by Dr. Sonja Adzovic

<p>This episode is for women who are highly capable and no longer willing to keep adapting to environments that don’t match them.</p><p>If you’ve felt drained in conversations, under-stimulated in rooms, or quietly out of place in spaces you once thought you belonged in, this names what’s actually happening.</p><p>This is not about becoming better at fitting in.<br> It’s about recognizing when the room is beneath your level.</p><p>WHAT’S NAMED HERE</p><p>• Why high-functioning women often misread themselves instead of the room<br>• How you can be highly capable and still consistently choose the wrong environments<br>• The difference between your actual level and where you’ve learned to place yourself<br>• Why belonging can override ambition without you realizing it<br>• How environments shape your positioning, performance, and access<br>• The cost of adapting to rooms that don’t reflect your standard</p><p>This episode reframes the problem.</p><p>It’s not about becoming more.<br>It’s about placing yourself where more is already required.</p><p>A LINE THAT HOLDS THIS EPISODE</p><p>“You don’t feel out of place because something is wrong with you.<br> You feel out of place because you’ve been placing yourself in rooms below your level.”</p><p>CONTINUE THE CONVERSATION<br>If you’re starting to see how your environment has been shaping your decisions, the next step is learning how to reposition yourself intentionally.</p><p>I write privately about the patterns, decisions, and shifts that don’t get said publicly.</p><p>• Join my private list: <a href="https://sonjaadzovic.kit.com/f7c53e5d3a">Sonja’s Inner Circle</a><br>• At a Decision Point? Explore the <a href="https://sonjaadzovic.com/private-diagnostic-advisory-session/">Strategic Decision Advisory</a></p>

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March 7, 2026

Why Brilliant Women Still Get Passed Over - I Have a Story For you with Dr. Sonja Adzovic

<p>You’re not being overlooked because you lack ability.</p><p>You’re being overlooked because the rules guiding your decisions were never designed for leadership.</p><p>In this episode, Dr. Sonja Adzovic breaks down a pattern she has repeatedly seen among highly capable women: <strong>authority distortion</strong> — the quiet habit of deferring your judgment in rooms where you should be shaping direction.</p><p>Through the story of “Sarah,” a highly competent scientist who keeps being passed over for leadership roles, Sonja explains why this happens and the inherited assumptions that drive it.</p><p>Many women believe that if they simply work harder, produce excellent results, and stay socially acceptable, leadership opportunities will follow.</p><p>But leadership operates on a different set of rules.</p><p>And if you continue making decisions based on the wrong assumptions, the same pattern will follow you from company to company.</p><p>IN THIS EPISODE:</p><p>• Why competence and deep expertise do <strong>not automatically translate into leadership or power</strong></p><p>• The difference between <strong>doing the work</strong> and <strong>leading through others</strong></p><p>• How your childhood trained you to stay quiet in meetings even when you see the solution</p><p>• The childhood conditioning that teaches women to stay socially acceptable rather than strategically visible</p><p>• The hidden cost of believing that <strong>“my work will speak for itself”</strong></p><p>• How to detect <strong>authority self-betrayal</strong> in your own behaviour</p><p>• The three inherited assumptions that quietly shape many women’s career decisions</p><p><br>WANT TO GO DEEPER?</p><p>If you’re realizing you’ve been operating on inherited rules about authority, leadership, and visibility, Sonja writes privately about how to dismantle them.</p><p>Join <a href="https://sonjaadzovic.kit.com/f7c53e5d3a"><strong>Sonja’s Inner Circle</strong></a> to receive those pieces.</p><p>At a decision point? Explore the <a href="https://sonjaadzovic.com/private-diagnostic-advisory-session/">Strategic Decision Advisory</a></p>

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February 19, 2026

The Hidden Cost of Being Likeable - I Have a Story For You with Dr. Sonja Adzovic

<p>This episode is for women who are highly competent and quietly carrying more than they should.</p><p>If you’ve ever been the one who “can handle it,” the one everyone leans on, the one who is easy to work with — this conversation names what that pattern costs over time.</p><p>This is not about becoming cold.<br>It’s about understanding the difference between being pleasant and being powerful.</p><p>WHAT’S NAMED HERE</p><p>• The difference between universal likeability and authority-based respect<br>• How emotional labour and over-functioning reduce leverage and compensation over time<br>• Why competence alone does not determine leadership trajectory</p><p>This episode explores how authority shifts when you withdraw unnecessary over-functioning and what changes when your value is felt, not performed.</p><p><br>A LINE THAT HOLDS THIS EPISODE</p>“Nice makes you pleasant. Kind makes you principled. Only one builds authority.”<p>CONTINUE THE CONVERSATION</p><p>• Join my private list — <a href="https://sonjaadzovic.kit.com/f7c53e5d3a"><strong>Sonja’s Inner Circle</strong></a><br> • At a Decision Point? Explore the <a href="https://sonjaadzovic.com/private-diagnostic-advisory-session/"><strong>Strategic Decision Advisory</strong> </a><br>• <a href="https://instagram.com/sonjaadzovic">Instagram</a><br> </p>

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What is I Have a Story For You?

I Have a Story for You is a podcast about power, environment, and the gap between the rules women were taught to play by and the rules that actually determine what gets recognized.

Hosted by Dr. Sonja Adzovic — doctor turned high-stakes decisions strategist — this show is for capable, accomplished women who are working harder without changing position, and who suspect the problem isn't their effort. It's the read.

Each episode begins with a story — personal, historical, or cultural — and follows it into the kinds of questions women carry privately:

Why do I keep over-functioning in rooms that don't reward it? Why does competence stop translating at a certain level? Why does the next move feel impossible to make from where I'm standing? Why am I being told I'm "almost ready" by people whose feedback is operationally meaningless?

This is not a podcast about hustle, productivity, mindset, or confidence. It's about reading the system clearly — power, environment, identity, perception — so the next decision isn't shaped by an inaccurate map.

Expect research. Expect pattern reads. Expect the relief of finally having language for something you've been feeling but couldn't name.

I have a story for you. Let's begin.

How often does this podcast release new episodes?

This podcast updates daily.

Where can I listen to this podcast?

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Does this podcast accept guests?

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