I Just Got Here is your virtual coffee chat with the brutally honest big sister you never knew you needed. We talk growth, love, insecurity, healing, and learning to trust yourself even when your brain doubts you. No fake perfection here, just real life lessons, honest reflection, and figuring things out in real time. If you want clarity, comfort, or a gentle reality check while you walk, drive, or reset your life, you’re in the right place. New episodes every Wednesday. See you there beautiful humans ♡
Sometimes, you can miss someone and still know you deserve better.
In this episode of I Just Got Here, I talk about the complicated grief that comes with leaving a long-term relationship. I miss the memories. I miss the person I thought he was. I grieve the future I imagined we would have. But I’m also realizing that I wasn’t asking for too much—I was asking for the bare minimum. And somewhere along the way, I started lowering my expectations just to make the relationship feel like enough.
This is what it looks like to grieve someone while choosing yourself. To admit that you still care, while also accepting that love isn’t enough when there’s no growth, effort, or willingness to change.
I don’t regret loving him. But I’m finally learning that I don’t have to settle for less just because I loved someone deeply.
Maybe you can miss someone and still move on. Maybe you can grieve what you had, grieve what you thought you’d have, and still believe that something better is waiting for you.
I’m still figuring it out.
I just got here. ♡
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i just got here
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2 Jul 2026
WHY do i feel GUILTY for moving on?
I’ve been feeling guilty for moving on.
Not because I want my old relationship back, but because after years with one person, finding happiness somewhere new felt… wrong.
In this episode, I open up about ending a long-term relationship, co-parenting, meeting someone new, and the guilt that comes with allowing yourself to be happy again. I talk about questioning my feelings, wondering if I was moving too fast, and realizing that just because a relationship ends doesn’t mean you’re not allowed to heal.
Sometimes the hardest part of moving forward isn’t letting go of the past, it’s giving yourself permission to enjoy the present.
If you’ve ever felt guilty for choosing yourself, this episode is for you.
♡
New episodes every week.
#HealingJourney #SelfLove #MovingOn #HealingAfterBreakup #CoParenting #PersonalGrowth #Podcast #SelfCare #Journaling #LifeLessons
Let’s talk about it: https://www.instagram.com/hellothere.mani/ (https://www.instagram.com/hellothere.mani/)
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@hellothereyani (https://www.youtube.com/@hellothereyani)
If this episode resonated with you, share it with someone who might need it.
Thank you for listening, beautiful humans.
i just got here
New episodes every Wednesday.
For collaborations:
Email: itsyanidavi@gmail.com
3 Jun 2026
it's time to be HONEST with yourself... are you REALLY growing or are you just performing??
This episode is what happens when you stop performing “growth” and actually sit with yourself.
I got honest about my patterns, my relationships, my impulsiveness, and the versions of me I thought I outgrew but keep finding myself revisiting. I talk about accountability, emotional triggers, and what it means to actually change instead of just looking like you are.
It’s uncomfortable. It’s real. And it’s probably the most honest I’ve been on here.
If you made it all the way to the end, come talk to me about it. I would genuinely love to hear your thoughts and experiences.
Let’s talk about it: https://www.instagram.com/hellothere.mani/ (https://www.instagram.com/hellothere.mani/)
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@hellothereyani (https://www.youtube.com/@hellothereyani)
If this episode resonated with you, share it with someone who might need it.
Thank you for listening, beautiful humans.
i just got here
New episodes every Wednesday.
For collaborations:
Email: itsyanidavi@gmail.com
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