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EP.87 Why the pickiest girlies have the best relationships
Ever been told your standards are too high or that you are too quick to walk away? Here is why being “too picky” is actually the secret to finding the right guy, and why you should absolutely refuse to settle. Many people stay in unhappy situations because they fear being alone or worry about how things look on social media.
This discussion is for anyone ready to prioritize their mental peace over a performative connection. By setting firm relationship boundaries, you create a clear path for what you will and will not tolerate. It is so easy to get caught up in the illusion of "Instagram relationship goals," but true happiness means protecting your peace and walking away when your needs aren't being met.
Today, I’m getting real about my own dating history, why the flashy, confident guys are usually a trap, and why overlooking the genuine "good guys" is the biggest mistake we make. We are leaving the situationships, red flags, and bare-minimum relationships behind!
I want to hear from you: What is your absolute, non-negotiable dealbreaker in a relationship?
Let me know in the comments down below! 👇If you enjoy honest chats about life, love, and navigating adulthood, make sure to hit that subscribe button! ✨
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TIMESTAMPS
[00:00] - the hook: if i'm not happy, i'm leaving
[00:21] - intro: what "relationship goals" actually means to me
[01:46] - dating is like shopping at tj maxx
[03:10] - why the flashy, confident guys are usually a trap[04:51] - why the "good guys" are so easy to overlook
[06:33] - the first date with my man
[08:26] - why you NEED a non-negotiable dealbreaker list
[10:09] - stop giving men 3rd and 4th chances (be quick with the exit!)[13:01] - the "bikini model" debate & bare minimum men
[14:48] - final thoughts: being alone is better than a bad relationship
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18 May 2026
EP.86 The situationship TRAP nobody warns you about
Dating in 2026 feels exhausting… and honestly? A lot of people are losing hope in modern dating.In this episode, I talk about situationships, noncommittal men, dating culture, and why finding “the one” can sometimes feel more like luck than strategy.
I also share the biggest signs of an unserious man early on, so you can protect your peace, avoid wasting time, and stop ignoring red flags.If you’ve ever:
• Been stuck in a situationship
• Felt emotionally drained by dating apps
• Wondered why commitment feels rare now
• Struggled with mixed signals and inconsistency
• Questioned whether modern dating is getting worse… this conversation is for you.
This is an honest, unfiltered conversation about love, relationships, self-worth, and navigating dating in today’s world.💬
COMMENT BELOW: Do you think dating has gotten worse over the years?
🫶 Don’t forget to LIKE & SUBSCRIBE for more honest conversations on: dating, relationships, femininity, self-worth, modern love, heartbreak, healing, and personal growth.🎧 Also available on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and wherever you get your pods!FIND ME HERE 🎤📹YouTube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/@ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy?sub_confirmation=1Tiktok - tiktok.com/@ThinkingoutloudwithAnjy✉Contactfor business inquiries, please email: ThinkAnjy@gmail.com
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5 Sept 2025
EP.85 Taylor Swift is engaged - but why are we all so happy for her?
Taylor Swift is finally engaged, and the internet lost its mind. But why do engagements, weddings, and “being chosen” hit us so hard?In this video, I break down the cultural obsession with love stories, why engagement posts dominate Instagram, how society glamorizes weddings over marriage, and why Taylor Swift’s engagement feels like a collective win for her fans and beyond.This isn’t just about Taylor Swift — it’s about us, our craving for love, validation, and the fairytale ending.💍 Let’s talk about why engagements are the ultimate internet currency.If you enjoy this video, don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more cultural deep dives.#TaylorSwift #TaylorSwiftEngaged #traviskelce #traviskelceandtaylorswift #EngagementCulture #CelebrityEngagement #TaylorSwiftNews #Swifties #WeddingCulture #PopCultureAnalysis
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