I Should Say That Out Loud

About I Should Say That Out Loud

When Donna Brendel was diagnosed with autism as an adult, the drive behind her passion for advocacy made more sense than ever. Her special interest is fighting for hurting people. She has a lot to say, and she's finally ready to say it out loud.

Publisher

Donna Brendel

Category

society & culture

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

11 Oct 2020

Latest episode

10 Sept 2025

Latest episodes

42 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   10 Sept 2025

   J.D. Barker on Autism, Writing, Business, Balance, and His Journey to Structure it all Successfully

   "Everything's a little scary until you understand it," is how J.D. Barker sums up the end of this incredible interview. In this episode of 'I Should Say That Out Loud,' host Donna Brendel engages in a deep conversation with bestselling author J.D. Barker about his journey as an autistic individual and how it has shaped his writing career. They explore the influence of Barker's Midwestern roots, the impact of autism on creativity, and the importance of structure in both writing and daily life. Barker shares personal anecdotes about his diagnosis, the challenges he faced, and the strategies he developed to succeed as a writer. The discussion also highlights the significance of reading, the business side of writing, and the encouragement for autistic individuals and their families to embrace their uniqueness and pursue their passions.J.D. is a true inspiration for anyone who desires to face their fears head on and overcome them, because he's done just that in so many instances. You will have much to chew on after listening, as J.D. will challenge, inspire, and encourage you, which is a scary endeavor. And well, that's what J.D. is best at, writing to bring about that emotional reaction that causes us to feel. Even when he talks about writing, he spurs an emotional reaction, and better yet, an encouraging and inspirational reaction. How amazing and wonderful is that!J.D.'s website: JDBarker.comChapters: 00:00 - Introduction to JD Barker and Writing Journey05:23 - Navigating Life with Autism09:57 - The Aha Moment of Diagnosis and Impact on Life and Career13:51 - The Role of Reading in Childhood and Beyond16:01 - Seeing Words in Color and Synesthesia19:09 - Exploring Character Development and Traits20:52 - Where Do Your Stories and Characters Come From?22:10 - Balancing Creativity and Business in Writing24:30 - Public Speaking - Overcoming a Huge Autistic Fear25:59 - The Emotional Connection to Characters26:42 - Writing Process and Daily Routine29:12 - The Balance of Structure and Creativity30:15 - Inspiration From Real Life31:06 - JD's Favorite Genre, the Thriller, Chasing the Emotional Reaction33:16 - The Impact of Reading on Personal Growth34:51 - The Plus Column of Autism - Focus, Creativity, Finishing Projects37:25 - Visualizing Characters and Settings38:09 - Seeing the World in Greater Detail39:33 - Communication: Verbally vs. Written41:06 - JD's Encouragement for Autistic Families42:41 - I See You, the Autistic Connection43:26 - The Idea of Writing a Memoir47:23 - Closing Thoughts and Future Works

2. 

   1 Sept 2025

   Art and Autism: A Journey of Expression with Reclaimed Materials Artist Grant Maniér

   In this engaging conversation, host Donna Brendel interviews artist Grant Maniér, who shares his journey with autism and how it has shaped his artistic expression. Grant discusses the therapeutic nature of his art, the materials he uses, and the messages he conveys through his work. He emphasizes the importance of finding joy, overcoming challenges, and using art as a means of communication. The conversation also touches on the impact of negative feedback and bullying, as well as the significance of storytelling in his art and books. Grant's positive outlook and motivation serve as an inspiration for others, highlighting that it's never too late to discover one's talents.Grant beautifully epitomizes what the best-selling author of "Flow," Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi has stated in his newest book "The Evolving Self." He explains that experiences, such that Grant has explained in this episode, "focus our whole being in a harmonious rush of energy, and lift us out of the anxieties and boredom that characterize so much of everyday life." Mihaly also says that, "any activity can do it," and Grant says that, "it's never too late to discover your talents."This is such great news for everyone, autistic and neurotypical, young and old, alike! Whatever your talent, whatever may bring you joy, be it cooking, reading, sports, enjoying nature, art, science, when you allow yourself to narrow your attention on that passion or talent, you can experience reduced anxiety and greater joy. May Grant's message be an encouragement to you today.Grant's Website: jigsawgrant.comInstagram: @jigsawgrantChapters:00:00 - Introduction to Grant Maniér and His Art01:39 - Understanding Autism and Its Impact on Art03:48 - The Art of Paper and Puzzle Pieces08:03 - Art as a Therapeutic Outlet09:10 - Watching People Appreciate Grant's Artwork10:09 - Grant's Process of Making Art11:57 - Grant's Inspiring Messages14:16 - A Beacon of Hope for Other Families17:25 - Perfectionism and Growth as an Artist18:31 - Art as a Language of Emotion20:24 - Stories Behind the Art22:18 - Overcoming Challenges and Bullying23:07 - Autism and Bullying aka Negative Feedback24:31 - Social Life and Friendships Through Art26:32 - Art as Communication27:32 - Conclusion and Where to Find Grant's Work

3. 

   11 Jul 2025

   A Journey of Autism Awareness through Children's Books: with Author and Mother Dalisse Sequeiros

   In this incredibly honest and vulnerable conversation, host Donna Brendel speaks with Dalisse Sequeiros, an author and digital specialist from Barcelona, about her journey as a mother of two autistic children and her mission to create children's books that provide representation and understanding of autism. They discuss the importance of social stories, anticipating changes, communication between parents, and building confidence in autistic children. Dalisse shares her experiences in writing and self-publishing her books, emphasizing the need for resources that help both children and parents navigate the complexities of autism. The conversation highlights the power of literature in fostering awareness and acceptance of autism in society. Dalisse and Donna also explore the challenges and joys of parenting autistic children, emphasizing the importance of acceptance, community support, and personal faith. They discuss practical strategies for navigating social perceptions of autism, coping with meltdowns, planning and communication, and balancing family responsibilities. The conversation also touches on the significance of trying new experiences and letting go of preconceived expectations as parents. Dalisse shares her personal faith journey and the role of prayer in her life, highlighting the interconnectedness of faith and autism. The discussion concludes with a focus on the importance of creating a positive environment for autistic children and the need for community support.Dalisse's new book, "Autism: New School Year" releases July 16, so order your copy on Amazon! All of her books are available in English, Spanish, and Catalan!!00:00 - Preview of Interview with Dalisse Sequeiros00:24 - Introduction to Dalisse Sequeiros03:52 - Navigating Autism: Personal Journeys08:41 - The Birth of Children's Books on Autism12:38 - Understanding Meltdowns and Emotions14:13 - Building Confidence Through Stories15:26 - Making Books So Our Kiddos Feel Seen and Understood16:28 - The Sweetest Mom Story - Filling a Need20:12 - The Books are Resources for Parents and Caregivers Too21:56 - The Global Autism Community and Connection23:50 - What Are "Social Stories" & Why Are They Helpful?26:30 - Visual Learning and Emotional Regulation29:37 - The Importance of Social Stories29:46 - The Importance of Anticipating the Unexpected32:26 - Understanding Anxiety and Self-Regulation33:37 - Preparing for New Experiences35:43 - Creating Resources for Autism Awareness37:25 - Creating a World Where Kids Don't Feel Bad About Autism41:38 - Balancing Family Life and Responsibilities45:13 - How Did You Develop Such a Beautiful Communication System?48:51 - Understanding Autism's Complexity50:02 - The Role of Faith in Parenting & Autism Diagnoses52:47 - Navigating Community and Support56:11 - Connecting with God: Faith and Autism59:03 - Communicating Faith to Our Non-Verbal Children01:01:27 - Autistic Family Outings - They're Important and Possible01:06:50 - Be the Parent that YOUR Kids Need01:09:28 - Empowering Through Resources and Community

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Apple Podcasts (US)

5.0 / 5

5 ratings

Spotify

5.0 / 5

3 ratings

Podcast Authority Score: 37 / 100

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