I'm So Grown

About I'm So Grown

Welcome to I'm So Grown! In just 10-15 minutes, Shatiya share relatable stories, life lessons, and mindset gems to help you pause, reflect, and grow. Each episode blends faith, emotional intelligence, and personal growth-- leaving you saying, "Old Me Could Never."

Publisher

Shatiya

Category

society & culture

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

8 Oct 2025

Latest episode

19 Sept 2026

Latest episodes

44 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   19 Sept 2026

   Stop Waiting to Live with Raven Connor

   44. What are you waiting to do because you’re waiting for someone else? In this episode of I’m So Grown Podcast, we’re talking about solo travel, living life on your own terms, exploring your own joys, and the cost of waiting. I sit down with my friend Raven to explore what it means to stop living by the phrase, “I’ll do this when…” Whether it’s traveling internationally, buying a home, going to dinner alone, attending an event, moving to a new city, or simply trying something new, how much of our lives do we postpone while waiting for the “right” person or circumstance? We talk about the difference between being alone and being lonely, learning to enjoy your own company, and creating a life that doesn’t require a plus-one to be meaningful. Because you can desire love, partnership, friendship, and community—and still refuse to put your life on pause waiting for them. Maybe the question isn’t, “Who am I going to go with?” Maybe it’s: “Why can’t I go with myself?” "Go solo. Meet new people when you get there." is a mantra Shatiya started to live by. Because sometimes being grown is realizing you don’t need a permission slip to live. Go anyway! Keywords: solo travel, solo travel for women, women traveling alone, living life on your own terms, the cost of waiting, “I’ll do this when,” enjoying your own company, exploring your own joys, being alone vs. lonely, independent women, self-discovery, personal growth, women and relationships, waiting for love, single life, lifestyle podcast, personal development, travel podcast, women’s empowerment, I’m So Grown Podcast, Shatiya Macon.

2. 

   30 Aug 2026

   Break The Pattern

   Awareness is one thing. Choosing differently is another. You don’t break a pattern because you recognize it once. You break it every time you’re given the opportunity to repeat it—and choose something different. In this episode of I’m So Grown Podcast, we’re talking about what happens after you recognize a pattern in your life. Because seeing the behavior doesn’t automatically mean you’ll stop repeating it. Why do we return to situations that have already hurt us? Why can familiar behavior feel more comfortable than the unknown? And what does it actually take to interrupt a cycle and make a different choice? From parenting and relationships to boundaries and the habits we continue even when we know better, this episode explores the difference between recognizing a pattern and actually breaking it. Sometimes breaking the pattern isn’t just having the strength to leave—it’s having the strength not to return. If you’ve been noticing the same situations, behaviors, or outcomes repeating in your life, this episode is your reminder: you don’t break a pattern simply by becoming aware of it. You break it every time you have the opportunity to repeat it—and choose differently. Sometimes being grown is not just recognizing the pattern—but having the courage to choose differently. SEO Keywords:breaking patterns, break the cycle, self awareness, personal growth, healing journey, changing behavior, toxic relationship patterns, relationship cycles, family patterns, parenting differently, generational patterns, setting boundaries, emotional growth, self improvement, choosing differently, healing habits, women’s personal growth, adulthood podcast, life lessons, I’m So Grown Podcast

3. 

   22 Aug 2026

   Blindspot Patterns Part 2: Work Life Balance

   Episode 42: Blindspot Patterns, Part 2 In this episode of I’m So Grown Podcast, I uncover another blindspot pattern: when work and responsibilities increase, the things that make me feel like me—working out, creating, podcasting, having time for myself—are often the first things I sacrifice. After noticing that I stopped going to the gym for three months and stopped podcasting for four months after returning to work, I started connecting the dots between my career choices, motherhood, time freedom, and the kind of life I actually want to build. Now, as I prepare for a new school year with my child, starting a new job, I’m asking a bigger question: Can I have a career without abandoning myself? This isn’t just about finding work. It’s about finding a way to earn money, build a career, care for my family, and still make room for me. Sometimes being grown is recognizing being responsible for your life doesn’t mean abandoning yourself in the process.” SEO Keywords: blindspot patterns, self-awareness, personal growth, work-life balance, career and motherhood, career journey, finding yourself, burnout, self-abandonment, healthy boundaries, time freedom, working mom, career decisions, personal development, life balance, I’m So Grown Podcast, Tiya Today

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Apple Podcasts (US)

5.0 / 5

15 ratings

Spotify

3.0 / 5

2 ratings

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