Join adult influencers and reality TV personalities Koaty & Sumner as they explore the world of love, dating, and relationships from a reality and adult film world point of view. So take off your clothes, it’s time to get in bed with the duo that does more than each other.
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In Bed With VACAYA CEO Randle Roper: Redefining Queer Travel, One Voyage at a Time
What if queer travel could be more than parties and pool floats?
In this week’s In Bed with Koaty & Sumner, we’re literally in bed with Randle Roper, CEO and co-founder of VACAYA — the world’s first large-scale LGBTQ+ vacation company built on radical inclusivity. 🌈
From all-gay cruises to resort takeovers in Puerto Vallarta, Randle shares how VACAYA is creating safe, affirming, and wildly fun spaces for every letter of our community — gay, lesbian, bi, trans, non-binary, plus-size, kink-curious, you name it.
We talk:
• Why queer travel is about connection, not just celebration 🏳️🌈
• How VACAYA trains its legendary “V-Team” to balance luxury + community 💫
• Randle’s leap from Atlantis to launching his own inclusive empire 🚢
• The stereotypes about gay cruises — and what actually happens 👀
• The future of LGBTQ+ travel in 2025 and beyond 🌍
Plus: rapid-fire chaos, confessions from the Blayne It On Us inbox, and our question of the week — Do you have to be open to have fun on a gay vacation?
✨ Listen for laughs, insight, and maybe your next trip idea.
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22 Oct 2025
Blayne It On Us: Live Confessions from the Queer Chaos
What happens when your ex keeps sending you money, your boyfriend disappears into afterparties, or your “open” relationship starts feeling more like an Olympic event in emotional regulation? This week, we’re diving into five confessions that live at the messy, magnetic intersection of ego, intimacy, and queer identity.
In this episode of Blayne It On Us, Sumner and Koaty unpack stories that hit a little too close to home — from the “Jealous Saint” who calls his anxiety enlightenment, to the guy who’s still texting his ex’s mom, to the Pride-goer who loves the community but hates the crowds. It’s a lineup of stories that remind us how queer relationships are rarely neat, often hilarious, and always human.
💸 A partner splitting everything 50/50 but ignoring the income gap.❤️🔥 A boyfriend who swears “it’s just dancing and vibes.”💭 A listener trying to come out not just to the world — but to himself.
Sumner brings the heart and psychology, Koaty brings the bite and brutal honesty. Together, they say what everyone’s thinking but no one admits: we’re all just trying to find balance between being enlightened, horny, and slightly emotionally unhinged.
💌 Got something to confess?Tell us your story anonymously at https://tally.so/r/mZro1o (https://tally.so/r/mZro1o) — no judgment, no names, just vibes.
Whether you’re the saint, the sinner, or somewhere between, this episode’s for you.
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15 Oct 2025
Jealousy, Thirds & the Open Relationship Hangover | Blayne It On Us
This week on we have a full episode of Blayne It On Us, where we read your confessions on are and give our take on it. We had lots of submissions this time, and we picked 4. We’re diving deep into the messy, magnetic, and totally relatable world of jealousy and open love. From silent resentment to throuple drama, we are breaking down listener confessions that prove one thing — even the most healthy relationships have their limits.
💚 Stories this episode:
“The Jealous Boyfriend Who Says He Isn’t” — when support turns into quiet control.
🔥 “Our Third Made Me Feel Second” — how an open door became a revolving one.
🧃 “He Wants a Third… But Only If I Pick” — when “being chill” means avoiding accountability.
⚖️ “Jealousy Made Me Realize I’m Not As Open As I Thought” — when your fantasy of openness meets your reality of attachment.
🎧 Tune in for the laughs, stay for the therapy you didn’t book.
💌 Submit Your Confession or Question:
Have your own wild, unfiltered, or “oh no, we did that too” story? Submit it anonymously for future episodes of Blayne It On Us!
👉 https://tally.so/r/mZro1o (https://tally.so/r/mZro1o)or visit KoatyandSumner.com/BlayneItOnUs to share your story.
You can submit about:
Relationship drama
Jealousy
Threesomes gone wrong (or right)
Open relationship rules
Sex, friendship, kink, or “did that really happen?” moments
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