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In the Flesh

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by Tess van Niel

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In the Flesh explores sexuality, intimacy, communication, and confidence through open, judgement-free conversations. I’m Tess, I'm a sexuality coach and I truely believe these conversations can be sex positive, empowering and playful. In each episode, I share practical insights, gentle guidance, and real talk to help you understand your desires, how to communicate clearly, and build deeper connections with yourself and others. Join me as we get real, get curious, and step fully into our authenticity!

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11/27/2025

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April 15, 2026

Polarity

Women are tired. And not just "I need an early night" tired.In this episode of In the Flesh, I get honest about the bone-deep exhaustion that comes from living in constant doing mode, and why so many women have lost touch with the softer, more receptive parts of themselves.We're talking about polarity. The masculine and feminine that lives within all of us, and what happens when one side has been running the show for way too long.If you've been feeling flat, disconnected, or like you just can't stop even when your body is begging you to, this one is for you.Softness is not weakness. It's power. And your feminine is asking to be felt again 🧡I'm a certified Sexuality Coach and founder of Seggs with Tess. Find me on Instagram @seggswithtess (<a href="https://www.instagram.com/seggswithtess/⁠⁠⁠">⁠https://www.instagram.com/seggswithtess/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> )or book into my upcoming live workshop Polarity at <a href="https://events.humanitix.com/polarity">https://events.humanitix.com/polarity</a>

March 10, 2026

My 21 Day Pleasure Experience

In this episode of In the Flesh, I share my experience completing a 21-day pleasure experience and the unexpected things it taught me about my body.I talk about what I experienced, felt and processed throughout the 3 week commitment. But more specifically a big break through moment that happened in week 2 - and how it just connected me to myself in such a mind blowing way. This experience I share is all about how spending intentional time with my body shifted the way I experience pleasure, curiosity, and connection.Sometimes the greatest teacher we have is the body itself.Follow me! <a href="https://www.instagram.com/seggswithtess/⁠⁠⁠">⁠https://www.instagram.com/seggswithtess/⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> ✨

February 10, 2026

V-Day Special: Bossy Massage ❤️ 🌹

Don't want to just do dinner and a movie this Valentines Day?Or maybe you're spending it with friends and would love to share a connecting experience together. In this episode, I explore Bossy Massage, inspired by Betty Martin and her Wheel of Consent (from The Art of Giving and Receiving).One person receives. One person gives. The receiver directs the touch, clearly and unapologetically. The giver follows.We cover how to:• Set up a safe container• Create a playful “sensation basket”• Practice different giving/receiving dynamics• Try this with a lover or a friend!Have fuuuuun! ❤️ 🌹 Follow me! <a href="https://www.instagram.com/seggswithtess/⁠⁠⁠" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">https://www.instagram.com/seggswithtess/⁠⁠⁠</a> ✨

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What is In the Flesh?: In the Flesh explores sexuality, intimacy, communication, and confidence through open, judgement-free conversations.

I’m Tess, I'm a sexuality coach and I truely believe these conversations can be sex positive, empowering and playful.

In each episode, I share practical insights, gentle guidance, and real talk to help you understand your desires, how to communicate clearly, and build deeper connections with yourself and others.

Join me as we get real, get curious, and step fully into our authenticity!
How often does this podcast release new episodes?: This podcast updates daily.
Where can I listen to this podcast?: This podcast is available on 4 platforms including Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and more. You can also use the RSS feed directly.
Does this podcast accept guests?: No, this podcast does not typically feature guests.

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