Inner language is for everyone going through a change.
About outgrowing versions of yourself, questioning your direction, and learning to trust what you feel when life no longer makes sense.
Through honest reflections and personal stories, I explore what it means to navigate fear, intuition, identity, and change, without needing to have it all figured out.
This is for you if you feel stuck between who you were and who you’re becoming. If you’re questioning your choices, your path, or even yourself… you’re not alone in that.
Inner Language is about learning to understand yourself, so you can start moving again.
Many of the biggest decisions in our lives seem to be about what we should do. Should I leave this relationship? Should I start a business? Should I move cities? Should I quit my job? Should I go back to school? But often, we're not really afraid of the decision itself. We're afraid of what the decision says about us. What if I'm not good enough for a different life? What if I fail? What will other people think? What if they discover that I have no idea what I'm doing? In this episode, I expl...
29 May 2026
I made the change… so why don’t I feel better yet?
I thought quitting would fix everything… but somehow I felt worse before I felt better. In this episode, I talk about the grief that comes after choosing yourself. The strange emptiness that can follow a decision you know was right. The shame of pausing while everyone else seems to keep moving. And the identity crisis that happens when you no longer recognize the version of yourself you used to be. We talk about: – comparing yourself to your “old self” – feeling behind, lost, or embarrassed f...
22 May 2026
How to move forward when you don’t have clarity yet.
In the last episode, I talked about the feeling of outgrowing an old identity. The moment when your life still looks “fine” from the outside… but inside, you know something no longer fits. This episode is about what came after that. How do you move forward when you have absolutely no idea what you want next? How do you rebuild yourself after feeling completely disconnected from your own life? In this episode, I talk about: Why taking the pressure off yourself matters more than “having a plan”...
15 May 2026
The pressure to have it all figured out.
Why do we feel like we’re constantly running out of time? Like by a certain age we should already know who we are, what career we want, where we’re going, who we’ll end up with, and what our “plan” is? In this episode, I talk about the invisible timelines we grow up with, where this pressure actually comes from, and why uncertainty is not a failure, it’s part of being human. I share my own experience with feeling stuck between expectations and intuition, and how I learned to question the voic...
8 May 2026
How do you know if you take a decision out fear or intuition?
Before I made one of the biggest decisions of my life: leaving my job and my Instagram channel, I had to sit with a question most of us face at some point: Is this fear… or is this my intuition? Because they can feel confusingly similar. At some point, you notice something starts to feel off. Not wrong enough to quit immediately. But not right enough to ignore either. So you stay. You overthink. You go back and forth in your head a hundred times, and you convince yourself there is nothing dif...
4 May 2026
Intro - Inner Language Podcast
In this introduction, I'll introduce myself, and I'll tell you a little bit about my mission and the reason I'm starting this podcast.
4 May 2026
When you’ve outgrown a life… but you’re scared to leave
Have you ever felt like everything in your life looks fine on the outside… but deep down, it just doesn’t feel right anymore? In this first episode of Inner Language, I’m sharing my personal experience of outgrowing a life that once made sense: combining a full-time job with an Instagram account of almost 70K followers, and the moment I realized it no longer felt like me. We’ll talk about the fear of letting go, the weight of expectations, and what it really means to go through an identity sh...
Contact Inner language with Ellis
Guest appearances
Does not typically book guests
Based on episode analysis; this does not confirm that the show is currently accepting guests.
Host of Inner language with Ellis?
Claim your podcast to manage its listing and keep your show details accurate.
Pod Engine is an independent podcast discovery and analytics service and is not affiliated with or endorsed by this podcast. Artwork and show content belong to their owners. Full legal notice.
Explore this show Podcast research with Pod Engine
