welcome to intimate the podcast. here we talk about all things intimate; dating, relationships, friendships AND sex. if you find any of the former mentioned topics titillating then join me, kelley nele; dating, relationships, sex and sexuality writer and coach, as i discuss love, sex, & everything in between.
in episode 18 of season 2 of sex and the city, samantha jones said that men are (just) for fucking, but is this true?
in today’s episode we explore the world of having “lovers” as opposed to long-term partners, whether or not this is the direction women are headed, as well as whether or not this is a better alternative.
if you enjoyed this episode, make sure to share it with a friend and to give the podcast a solid rating on apple or spotify ☺️
i’d love to hear your thoughts so do share a comment 💭
if you need advice or coaching, contact me here: https://kelleybnele.wordpress.com/services
instagram: @kelley.nele
music by DJ Spaxy / 📧 : spaxypharmacy@gmail.com
article on quisamory: https://www.thecwordmag.co.uk/sexandrelationships/quisamorous-okay-in-a-relationship-okay-single
https://carefree.substack.com/p/discovering-im-quisamorous
blog post on quisamory: https://kelleybnele.wordpress.com/2025/07/27/quisamorous-okay-in-a-relationship-okay-single/
20 May 2026
stop healing, you’re ruining yourself
is your self-awareness making you more miserable? has your healing journey caused you to feel more isolated? you’re not the only one. most of gen z is struggling with the same issue of being “too self-aware” whilst not being able to actually process their feelings. in today’s episode we explore why your self-awareness is causing you more distress, why you’re actually hurting yourself by “healing” and how to actually heal once and for all.
if you enjoyed this episode, make sure to share it with a friend and to give the podcast a solid rating on apple or spotify ☺️
i’d love to hear your thoughts so do share a comment 💭
if you need advice or coaching, contact me here: https://kelleybnele.wordpress.com/services
instagram: @kelley.nele
music by DJ Spaxy / 📧 : spaxypharmacy@gmail.com
28 Apr 2026
we don’t wanna hang out with your boyfriend, sis
we all know the friend, the one that wants to bring their boyfriend to every girl date. it’s annoying, i know. that’s why, in today’s episode, i breakdown what you should do when you have a friend like this.
if you enjoyed this episode, make sure to share it with a friend and to give the podcast a solid rating on apple or spotify ☺️
i’d love to hear your thoughts so do share a comment 💭
if you need advice or coaching, contact me here: https://kelleybnele.wordpress.com/services
instagram: @kelley.nele
music by DJ Spaxy / 📧 : spaxypharmacy@gmail.com
14 Apr 2026
this is how you actually find “the one”
you don’t need to ask the universe or god for a sign or compare birth charts to know iff someone is “the one,” in fact there’s only one real way of knowing, and that’s what i break down in today’s episode so tune it.
if you enjoyed this episode, make sure to share it with a friend and to give the podcast a solid rating on apple or spotify ☺️
i’d love to hear your thoughts so do share a comment 💭
if you need advice or coaching, contact me here: https://kelleybnele.wordpress.com/services
instagram: @kelley.nele
music by DJ Spaxy / 📧 : spaxypharmacy@gmail.com
31 Mar 2026
what dating is really like when you’re transgender
happy trans day of visibility ☺️🏳️⚧️
if you’ve ever wondered what dating is like for transgender people then you’ve come to the right place. in today’s episode we answer the following questions: do people find transgender individuals attractive? what is dating like when you’re transgender? are people who are attracted to transgender individuals gay?
if you enjoyed this episode, make sure to share it with a friend and to give the podcast a solid rating on apple or spotify ☺️
i’d love to hear your thoughts so do share a comment 💭
if you need advice or coaching, contact me here: https://kelleybnele.wordpress.com/services
instagram: @kelley.nele
music by DJ Spaxy / 📧 : spaxypharmacy@gmail.com
17 Mar 2026
do you have to be fully healed to date?
in today’s episode we answer the age-old question of whether or not you need to be fully healed to date.
if you enjoyed this episode, make sure to share it with a friend and to give the podcast a solid rating on apple or spotify ☺️
i’d love to hear your thoughts so do share a comment 💭
if you need advice or coaching, contact me here: https://kelleybnele.wordpress.com/services
instagram: @kelley.nele
music by DJ Spaxy / 📧 : spaxypharmacy@gmail.com
quisamorous article: https://www.thecwordmag.co.uk/sexandrelationships/quisamorous-okay-in-a-relationship-okay-single
3 Mar 2026
there’s more to queer sex than being a top, bottom and verse
what if i told you there was more to queer sex than being a top, bottom, and verse?
in today’s episode we explore all the concept of a side as well as how cis women can relate to being a side too.
if you enjoyed this episode, make sure to share it with a friend and to give the podcast a solid rating on apple or spotify ☺️
i’d love to hear your thoughts so do share a comment 💭
if you need advice or coaching, contact me here: https://kelleybnele.wordpress.com/services
instagram: @kelley.nele
music by DJ Spaxy / 📧 : spaxypharmacy@gmail.com
17 Feb 2026
alternative routes to happily ever after
unpopular opinion? not everyone should get married and/or have kids. so what do they do with their lives when the whole world tells them they should?
in today’s episode we explore all the alternatives to happily ever after and illustrate how you don’t need the nuclear family and white picket fence to be happy and fulfilled.
if you enjoyed this episode, make sure to share it with a friend and to give the podcast a solid rating on apple or spotify ☺️
i’d love to hear your thoughts so do share a comment 💭
if you need advice or coaching, contact me here: https://kelleybnele.wordpress.com/services
music by DJ Spaxy / 📧 : spaxypharmacy@gmail.com
10 Feb 2026
hedonism is the key to happiness
welcome back skanks!
tell me something… do you struggle with happiness and pleasure? is it hard for you to chill, give yourself permission to indulge yourself? this episode is for you then. today we chat about our culture obsession with suffering, the philosophy hedonism and how it’s the key to your overall happiness.
if you enjoyed this episode, make sure to share it with a friend and to give the podcast a solid rating on apple or spotify ☺️
i’d love to hear your thoughts so do share a comment 💭
if you need advice or coaching, contact me here: https://kelleybnele.wordpress.com/services
music by DJ Spaxy / 📧 : spaxypharmacy@gmail.com
3 Feb 2026
friendships with relationship-obsessed women are so out
welcome back skanks!
as you can see, today we’re going to be getting into why friendships with relationship-obsessed women are so out… done… R.I.P, grab a drink, sit back and enjoy 🍷
if you enjoyed this episode, make sure to share it with a friend and to give the podcast a solid rating on apple or spotify ☺️
i’d love to hear your thoughts so do share a comment 💭
if you need advice or coaching, contact me here: https://kelleybnele.wordpress.com/services
music by DJ Spaxy / 📧 : spaxypharmacy@gmail.com
7 Jan 2026
how to become a sex god
welcome back to intimate the podcast, formerly known as the ask kelley podcast!
today i’m going to be sharing much needed tips on how to take your sex game to the next level. both neophytes and people with tons of experience will gain something useful from this episode, so make sure to tune in!
if you enjoyed this episode, make sure to share it with a friend and to give the podcast a solid rating on apple or spotify ☺️
i’d love to hear your thoughts so do share a comment 💭
if you need advice or coaching, contact me here: https://kelleybnele.wordpress.com/services
music by DJ Spaxy / 📧 : spaxypharmacy@gmail.com
16 Dec 2025
why the straights are bad at sex (and how to fix it)
welcome back to intimate the podcast, formerly known as the ask kelley podcast!
yup, you read correctly. the straights are bad at sex and in today’s episode we’ll diving into all the reasons why this is the case, as well as how y’all can unlock new levels of pleasure.
if you enjoyed this episode, make sure to share it with a friend and to give the podcast a solid rating on apple or spotify ☺️
i’d love to hear your thoughts so do share a comment 💭
if you need advice or coaching, contact me here: https://kelleybnele.wordpress.com/services
2 Feb 2021
How To Shoot Your Shot Successfully
Shooting your shot can be nerve-racking. What makes matters worse is that you only have one chance to make a solid first impression.
Today I’ll be giving you six tips—including what not to do—on how to shoot your shot successfully and secure the bae.
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