THE UK MADE ME DREAM SMALLER l Breaking Patterns Abroad Part 3
This is Part 3 of the Breaking Patterns Abroad series đŹđ§â¨If you're moving to the UK (or already here) and trying to build your career, this is the conversation I wish more people had.Because itâs not just about getting a job.Itâs about unlearning patterns, shifting your mindset, and building a life that actually aligns with who you are.In this episode, we talk about:â Navigating your career in a new countryâ Letting go of survival mode and thinking long-termâ Discernment: not every opportunity is for youâ The power of community (you cannot do life alone)â Aligning your career with purpose, identity, and GodThis is for you if:Youâre feeling stuck, uncertain, or like youâre playing small in a new environment.
16 Apr 2026
3 Mistakes Affecting Your Health in the UK | Breaking Patterns Abroad Part 2 | Health & Wellness
Moving to the UK was supposed to change my life for the betterâŚbut instead, my health slowly started breaking down.At first, I didnât even realise it.The constant fatigue.The migraines.The stress.Trying to navigate the NHS.I was in âgo modeâ for months⌠until my body forced me to stop.In this video, I share the real truth about what happens to your health when you move abroad â especially as an immigrant trying to survive, succeed, and keep going no matter what.If youâve ever felt:- constantly tired- overwhelmed for no clear reason- confused about the healthcare systemor like your body just doesnât feel the same anymoreThis video is for you.⨠What youâll learn:- Why your health can decline after moving abroad- The silent habits that make it worse- How stress and lifestyle changes impact your body- What I wish I knew earlierDon't forget to like, subscribe and share!
6 Apr 2026
I Cut My Hair⌠Life Update, Moving to the UK & My Faith Journey
I cut my hair⌠but this wasnât just about hair.After 4 years of living in the UK, Iâve been reflecting on my life â my faith, my identity, and the patterns Iâve had to break to become who God is calling me to be.In this video, Iâm sharing a real and honest life update, what moving to the UK has actually been like, and how my faith has been tested, stretched, and rebuilt in a completely new environment.If youâve ever felt lost in a new season, struggled with consistency in your faith, or questioned who youâre becoming⌠this is for you.⨠In this video, I talk about:- Why I cut my hair (and what it really meant)- The truth about moving to the UK after 4 years- How my faith was shaken when I moved abroad- Finding a good church and rebuilding structure- Devotion, burnout, and learning balance- Letting go of things that are no longer serving youđ This is part of my Breaking Patterns Abroad seriesWhere I break down the real truth about life abroad:â Faithâ Career & Moneyâ Health & Lifestyleâ Relationships & Community
6 Mar 2026
Adult Friendships, Christian Dating & Community | Season 2 Episode 2
Why is adult friendship so hard? Can you date yourself? And what happens when your life doesnât look like everyone elseâs?
In this episode of the It Ends With Me Podcast, we dive into one of the most honest conversations about adult friendships, Christian dating, community, and navigating life seasons.
From relationship standards to friendship loyalty, heartbreak, and staying grounded in faith, this episode explores the real questions people are asking but rarely discussing openly.
We talk about:
⢠Can you date yourself and still want a partner?
⢠What to do when your partner dislikes your best friend
⢠Should you tell a friend their boyfriend is cheating?
⢠Navigating friendships when your life stage is different
⢠Being single while your friends are married
⢠Why community matters in adulthood
⢠How to rebuild trust after friendship disappointment
⢠Christian perspectives on love, dating, and relationships
This episode is a reminder that we were never meant to do life alone.
Whether you're navigating adult friendships, Christian relationships, singleness, or community, this conversation will help you reflect on the kind of people you surround yourself with.
If you're searching for Christian relationship advice, friendship wisdom, or honest life conversations, this episode is for you.
16 Feb 2026
What Men Think About Love | Valentine's Special
What do men actually mean when they say they love you?
In this Valentineâs special episode of It Ends With Me, weâre unpacking Men & Love â Expectations, Myths, and Reality.
We talk about how men learn love, how they really express it, and what people often misunderstand about masculinity and emotional connection. The conversation goes beyond romance into friendship, family, emotional safety, and the quiet ways men show up when they care.
This is honest, reflective, and sometimes surprising. Whether youâre single, dating, married, healing, or unlearning patterns, thereâs something here that might shift how you see love and how you receive it.
Join the conversation in the comments: whatâs one thing you wish people understood about love?
7 Nov 2025
Daddy Issues: How God Became the Father I Needed
What happens when the person who was meant to protect you becomes the reason you question love, trust, and even God?
In this honest and redemptive conversation, we talk about Daddy Issues â not as a label or statistic, but as real stories carried quietly in the hearts of many.
My guest, Olamide, shares her journey of growing up without her father â how that absence shaped her into the âstrong one,â the responsible one, the one who never asked for help. Beneath all that strength was a girl battling depression, numbness, and even thoughts of giving up⌠until God interrupted her story.
This episode isnât just about absent fathers. Itâs about the daughters who learned to hide, the ones who stopped depending on anyone, and the ones still trying to believe that love can be safe again.
We talk about forgiveness after fifteen silent years, finding trust again, and what it truly means to be fathered by God.
đŹ Because behind every statistic about broken homes is a real person learning to be whole again.
If youâve ever felt unseen, unprotected, or unloved â this oneâs for you.
đ§ Listen in, and maybe⌠let healing begin for you too.
26 Oct 2025
5 Patterns I am Breaking: Up Close and Personal
This one is a little different; no guest, just me.
I decided to pause mid-season and get real with you about some patterns Iâve been breaking in my own life. These are things that have shaped how I see faith, relationships, money, and even myself.
Itâs vulnerable, itâs honest, and itâs very much still a journey. My hope is that as you listen, youâll reflect on the patterns you might need to break too.
Iâd love to hear from you; what resonated with you the most?
26 Sept 2025
Am I Doing Too Much?
Are you a young dreamer questioning whether youâre doing too much or if you are too young? In this episode of It Ends With Me, I sit down with Miracle, to talk about dreaming big, pursuing your goals, and staying true to your faith as a young person.
This is the young and getting it conversation, because it is possible to be young and doing things right.We dive into:- How to chase big dreams without burning out- Overcoming the pressure of othersâ opinions on your age and ambition- Identifying what a âtoo big dreamâ really looks like- Balancing multiple passions while staying grounded in faithIf youâre in your 20s, early career, or just young at heart and want practical advice on pursuing your God-given dreams, this episode is for you!#YoungDreamers #FaithAndDreams #ItEndsWithMePodcast #BreakingPatterns #MillennialMindset #GenZGoals
7 Sept 2025
God, Money and Me with Nancy
đ¸ Does God care about your money?
In this episode of It Ends With Me, I sit down with my friend and Chartered Accountant (time and exam qualified) Nancy to break down the patterns many of us inherit around money; scarcity mindsets, fear of investing, secrecy about income and how faith can help us build new, healthier habits.
We talk about:
Common money cycles that hold people back
Aligning faith and finances: does God want you to prosper?
Mindset shifts that help you save, invest, and plan with confidence
Practical steps to steward your resources wisely (from ISAs to investments)
Why money isnât just survival, itâs about legacy
Whether youâre trying to pay off debt, start investing, or reframe how you view money as a believer, this conversation will give you practical steps and fresh perspective.
đ Donât forget to subscribe for more episodes on faith, healing, and legacy.
đ This episode is not financial advice.
22 Aug 2025
Helping The Next Generation Win
What if your 9â5 wasnât just a job⌠but an assignment to shift generations?
In todayâs episode, I sit with Itoro, whose everyday role has become a lifeline for young people in the UK. From helping teenagers spot harmful patterns early, to keeping them from gangs, drugs, and cycles of brokenness, to covering them in prayer, she shows us what it truly means to help the next generation win.
This conversation is reflective, practical, and full of wisdom for parents, guardians, mentors, and anyone who cares about the future. It will stir you to think deeply about the legacy youâre leaving behind.
8 Aug 2025
Filled with Courage ft. Neme l Episode 1
Meet our very first guest on It Ends With Me, Neme đ.
Sheâs a tech leader, storyteller, and a woman who chooses courage daily.
In this episode titled âFilled with Courageâ, we talk about what it really means to obey God when itâs hard, to show up afraid, and to silence the fear that tells you youâre too much or not enough.
This one is personal, bold, and necessary.
8 Aug 2025
Episode 0 : Another Podcast? It Ends With Me
In a world overflowing with podcasts, why start another one? In this honest and heartfelt teaser episode, Ajoke shares the why behind It Ends With Meâa podcast born from a deep desire to break generational patterns, build unshakeable faith, and help women create lasting legacies.
This episode sets the tone for whatâs to come: faith-rooted, real-life conversations that will challenge, comfort, and transform you. If youâve ever felt like the cycle stops with you, this is your safe space. Letâs walk this journey together.
đ§ Press play. It ends with you.
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