It Ends With You is a space for courageous conversations about interrupting inherited patterns, reclaiming your truth, and freeing future generations. Hosted by Patricia Díaz-Kismarton, this podcast features real, everyday people sharing honest stories of the subtle family dynamics that often go unnamed.
At the end of each episode, Patricia offers reflections and insights drawn from her work with clients, bringing a grounded perspective to what it takes to break cycles and choose something different. New episodes are released one to two times a month, inviting listeners to notice what has been quietly repeating and discover what becomes possible when they begin to change it.
About your Host, Patricia Díaz-Kismarton
Patricia is a certified conscious parenting coach and ICF PCC-credentialed practitioner, trained in Compassionate Inquiry with Dr. Gabor Mate and BTC™ Generational Trauma Therapy. She partners with parents ready to embrace parenthood as fertile ground for personal growth, integration, and deeper connection. She supports them in reconnecting with their true selves so they can nurture their child's connection to theirs.
She also supports parents and adult children navigating emotional distance and inherited patterns, helping interrupt cycles before they are passed on and guiding them toward relationships rooted in presence, safety, and belonging.
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This podcast is intended for personal reflection and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for therapy, medical care, or professional mental health support.
If you are looking for deeper support in the cycle breaking and parenting space, you can explore coaching and resources at www.branchout.life and follow along on Instagram at @branchout.life.
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It Ends With You is a space for courageous conversations about interrupting inherited patterns, reclaiming your truth, and freeing future generations. Hosted by Patricia Díaz-Kismarton, this podcast features real, everyday people sharing honest stories of the subtle family dynamics that often go unnamed. At the end of each episode, Patricia offers reflections and insights drawn from her work with clients, bringing a grounded perspective to what it takes to break cycles and choose someth...
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