The Thing Men Never Say Out Loud About Marriage & Fatherhood | It Is What It Is Ep 16
Victor and Casey get into the real questions men are asking about marriage and fatherhood â loving the mother, financial pressure, emotional intimacy, and what it actually means to show up for your family. Honest, unscripted, no filter.
15 Jul 2026
Actress Chisom Agoawuike on Marriage, Dating & Modern Relationships | It Is What It Is Podcast
Is marriage still worth it? Why do so many relationships fall apart? And what does it really take to build a lasting relationship today?
In this episode of It Is What It Is Podcast, we sit down with Nigerian actress Chisom Agoawuike for an honest conversation about marriage, dating, love, emotional maturity, and the realities of modern relationships.
We explore the expectations placed on men and women, the challenges successful women face in dating, the importance of consideration in love, and why healthy relationships require more than just chemistry.
If you've ever questioned relationships, marriage, or what it takes to make love last, this episode is for you.
Follow It Is What It Is Podcast for more honest, thought-provoking conversations every week.
1 Jul 2026
The Truth About Dating, Marriage & BBL Pandemic | ft. Adanna For Africa
In Episode 14, Victor and KC sit down with Adanna For Africa for an honest conversation about relationships, financial stability, marriage, modern dating, beauty standards, and the influence of social media.
Should a man wait until he's financially stable before entering a relationship? Has the rise of the "BBL culture" changed how society defines beauty? Should every relationship be intentional from the start?
Adanna shares bold opinions that challenge conventional thinking and spark meaningful discussion.
Whether you agree or disagree, this episode will leave you with plenty to think about.
đ Guest: Adanna For Africa (@adannaforafrica)
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17 Jun 2026
The Toxic Reality of Working in Nigeria Right Now â Phyce Speaks" | Ep 13
New Episode is here đĽ
Victor & KC sit down with Phyce (@phyce) for raw talk about the Nigerian working environment â toxic culture, poor structures, creative business struggles, and the daily pressure people face.
This conversation is very real and very necessary.
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Listen now and tell us your own experience in the comments.
3 Jun 2026
"Parents Wanted Me To Be An Engineer But I Chose Entertainment â Spotlyt Story" | Ep 12
This episode is full of vibes, laughter, and real inspiration đĽ
I caught up with my guy Spotlyt and we talked about how he was the dancing king in secondary school â feeling like the main guy â until university humbled him when he saw real talent everywhere.
He also shared the pressure from his dad who wanted him to become an engineer, and how he eventually followed his real passion into entertainment, performance, filmmaking, and stunts.
If youâve ever been torn between what your parents wanted for you and what you actually love doing, or youâve ever felt lost about your career path â this one will speak to you.
This conversation is fun, honest, and motivating.
Guest: Spotlyt (@spotlyt) â Filmmaker, Director & Stunt Coordinator
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Have you ever had to choose between your parentsâ dream and your own passion?
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20 May 2026
Why Most Men Are Scared To Be Vulnerable, What Happens When Women Change After Marriage & Turning 40
In this rich and honest episode of It Is What It Is, we sit down with Princess (@aiverydaypeople) for a deep conversation.
We dive into:
⢠Should men show vulnerability in relationships? (The big debate â some men say no, others say women actually love it)
⢠The real meaning of âDonât Be a Fool at 40â
⢠How some women change parts of themselves at the beginning of a relationship just to get married, then switch up after settling down
⢠Why self-awareness and knowing who you are is so important
⢠Racism, maturity, boundaries, and plenty more real talk
This episode brought different perspectives and plenty of fire. You donât want to miss it.
Guest: Blessing (@aiverydaypeople)
Hosts: Victor & KC
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Whatâs one thing youâre taking from this episode?
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7 May 2026
What Nobody Teaches You About Real Manhood
Nobody teaches you how to be a real family man. You learn on the job â waking up at 2AM, showing up exhausted, and still holding everything together for your wife and kids.
In this raw episode, we discuss:
⢠The fastest thing that can destroy a man (Bad investment or broken family?
⢠What true bravery really looks like
⢠The real certificate of manhood most men never receive
⢠How to protect your family and your peace
Special Guest: @bdtsolutions_realestate
This conversation is for every man grinding through life, trying to become a better husband, father, and leader â even when itâs hard.
Whether youâre a young man preparing for the future or already deep in the journey, this one will hit different.
Sponsored by Mellifont Grove
Drop your thoughts in the comments â whatâs the hardest part of being a real man for you?
#RealManhood #FamilyMan #MensAdvice #Fatherhood #MarriageAdvice
24 Apr 2026
EMPLOYER VS EMPLOYEES| where the systems go wrong ft Soluchy
Not every workplace problem is about âbad employeesâ or âtoxic bossesâ sometimes, the real issue is the system itself.
In this episode, we dive into the dynamics between employers and employees, unpacking why workplace systems fail and how it affects productivity, trust, and growth.
Our guest, Soluchy, shares insights on building better structures, developing the right skills, and creating environments where both employers and employees can thrive.
Whether youâre building a team or trying to grow within one, this conversation will shift how you see work.
8 Apr 2026
PARENTING STYLE AND THEIR IMPACT ON CHILDREN | ft Campbell
The way we were raised often shows up in how we raise others.
In this episode, we explore parenting styles, the impact of words and actions on a childâs confidence, and the fine line between correction and connection. Because parenting is more than control, itâs influence.
27 Mar 2026
PERSONAL GOALS AND RESPONSIBILITIES
In this episode, we dive into personal goals and the responsibilities that come with chasing them. From staying consistent to making tough decisions, itâs an honest conversation about growth, discipline, and real-life challenges. Featuring special guest Chino, who shares his perspective and experiences on what it truly takes to stay focused and accountable.
12 Mar 2026
THE PROBLEM: SENSE OF ENTITLEMENT
In this episode, KC and Victor dive into a deep conversation about the growing culture of entitlement in todayâs society. From relationships to friendships, workplaces, and everyday interactions, they unpack how entitlement shapes peopleâs expectations and behaviors.
Why do some people feel they deserve things they havenât worked for?
Is entitlement a result of upbringing, society, or personal mindset?
And how does it affect relationships and personal growth?
25 Feb 2026
SELF LOVE.
A conversation about self-love and how our foundations, family, upbringing, and life experiences, shape who we become. This episode reflects on understanding yourself, healing, and learning to grow from where you started. A gentle reminder that self-love begins within.
12 Feb 2026
Love, Valentineâs & Relationship Truths
In this episode, we dive into all things love, from the perfect timing in relationships, the concept of a manâs vs. a womanâs âprime,â to answering your burning Valentineâs questions. Join the conversation, share your thoughts, and let us know what YOU think about love and timing!
28 Jan 2026
How to Develop Skills and Build Strong Character at the Same Time.
Everybody wants success, but not everybody is willing to build the skills and character it takes to sustain it.
In this episode, we break down what personal growth really looks like, the small daily decisions that shape your future, and why character matters just as much as competence.
No filters. No scripts. Just real talk for real growth.
14 Jan 2026
THE NEW YEAR ISNâT THE PROBLEM, YOU ARE.
Every year we blame the calendar. New year, new goals, new pressure but nothing really changes. Why? Because the problem isnât the year⌠itâs us.
In this episode, we talk about why copying trends, following societyâs noise, and moving without direction is keeping many teens and young adults exhausted and confused. If you donât decide what your life is about, the world will decide for you and it wonât be kind.
26 Dec 2025
The conversations we were never prepared for as ADULTS
Growing up didnât come with a manual. In this episode, we talk honestly about adulthood money, relationships, responsibility, Black Tax, and the pressure men carry silently. These are the conversations no one warned us about, but everyone eventually faces.
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