It's Funny How

About It's Funny How

“It’s Funny How” is a thought-provoking and humorous podcast hosted by Safa Kadiri. From personal experiences to cultural observations, each episode aims to create self-awareness and encourage critical thinking, challenging listeners to analyze their decision-making processes. Through banter and candid conversations, Safa and her guests shed light on the everyday challenges and concerns that impact our lives. Tune in to “It’s Funny How” for an engaging exploration of the issues that shape our society and a fresh perspective on the complexities of life.

Publisher

Jamit

Category

society & culture

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

11 Aug 2023

Latest episode

31 Oct 2023

Latest episodes

10 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   31 Oct 2023

   Guys Can't Handle Rejection

   Alright, folks, let's dive into something we've all probably heard about or seen at some point – guys and rejection. It's like some kind of unsolved mystery. When a girl turns down a guy, some dudes just can't handle it, and things can take a nasty turn. It's time to unpack this phenomenon because, spoiler alert, it's not okay. So, here's the deal – rejection stings, right? Nobody likes to hear a "no." But here's where it gets messy. Some guys, when rejected, take it as a direct hit to their pride. It's like a personal attack, and they feel the need to retaliate. This can come in all sorts of forms, and none of them are pretty. Sometimes, they resort to hurtful words, trying to bring the girl down to make themselves feel better. It's like, "If I can't have you, I'll make sure no one else will want you either." And that's just plain mean. Then there are those who turn to humiliation. They might spread rumors, share personal stuff, or even try to embarrass the girl in public. It's as if they're saying, "You made me feel bad, so now I'll make you feel even worse." Seriously, guys, that's not how grown-ups should handle things. Now, you might wonder why this happens. Well, it's often because of the way some guys are raised. Society can feed this idea that they should never show vulnerability. They're taught that they always have to be in control and on top. So, when a girl turns them down, it's like their world is crashing, and they freak out. But here's the thing – this reaction isn't just uncool; it's also downright harmful. It creates a culture where girls might fear rejecting someone because they're afraid of the consequences. It also perpetuates this idea that guys can't show emotions or be sensitive, which is a lousy deal for everyone. The reality is that rejection is a part of life. It's not fun, but it's necessary. Not every connection or attraction will lead to a relationship, and that's perfectly fine. People have the right to say "no" without fearing retaliation. So, guys, let's do better. Rejection doesn't have to be the end of the world. It's an opportunity to grow, learn, and handle things gracefully. Instead of lashing out, let's respect each other's decisions and feelings, and maybe, just maybe, we can create a kinder and more understanding world.

2. 

   24 Oct 2023

   People Shouldn't Get ''busy'' Before Marriage (Sex & Cohabiting)

   In today's episode, we're going to dive headfirst into the wild world of pre-marital intimacy. You know, that thing we don't talk about too much in polite society. It's like there's this unwritten "rule" that says couples have to get busy before they walk down the aisle. But, seriously, why is there so much hype around this, and what's with all the pressure? Throughout history, our ideas about romantic relationships have been influenced by society's expectations. One big expectation is that couples should get down and dirty before they tie the knot. It's like abstaining from sex while dating is considered some kind of weird exception to the rule. But why has this belief become so widespread, and what's it mean for those who choose a different path? This unspoken rule, shaped by society, often makes people feel like they should hop into the sack before marriage. It's all based on this idea that sex is a crucial part of a successful relationship and a way to test your compatibility. But guess what? This norm completely ignores the wide variety of values and beliefs that different people and cultures hold. The downside to this pressure is that it can lead people to compromise their principles, all because they feel like they have to follow the crowd. But, here's the deal: there's no one-size-fits-all approach to relationships, and everyone's pace should be respected. This pressure around pre-marital intimacy can also lead to people rushing into things, sometimes without really getting to know their partner. Let's not forget, intimacy should be based on genuine love, respect, and a mutual understanding. And you know what else doesn't help? The media and pop culture often make it seem like sex is the ultimate expression of love. So, we're bombarded with unrealistic expectations, and that just adds even more pressure to the mix. it's totally okay to spend time at your boyfriend or fiance's place to get a feel for what it's like to live together. A few visits here and there, cooking dinner together, maybe even trying to assemble that IKEA furniture – all part of the journey to domestic bliss. But here's the kicker – you don't have to jump into bed together. You can take things at your own pace and keep the intimacy dial where you're both comfortable. After all, what really matters is building a strong emotional connection and understanding each other on a deeper level. So, go ahead and enjoy the perks of living together without the pressure. So, to wrap it up, this whole unspoken "rule" that says couples need to get hot and heavy before marriage is just society's way of pushing its ideas on us. But here's the thing: every person's journey is unique, and healthy relationships are built on mutual respect, understanding, and emotional connection, not just what happens behind closed doors. It's time to ditch the pressure and embrace love and relationships on our own terms. Be a part of the conversation by following and leaving comments on the It's Funny How page on Instagram @itsfunny_howpodcast and being a part of the WhatsApp community where you get to meet and interact with the host and other listeners. https://chat.whatsapp.com/GupLUpG1TlB21q61r4mbT1

3. 

   17 Oct 2023

   Cheating Is A Norm

   For a while now cheating has always been a norm and for goodness sake it has to it has to stoooppp! This episode discusses the unfortunate truth on how cheating is overlooked. Be a part of the conversation by following and leaving comments on the It's Funny How page on Instagram @itsfunny_howpodcast and being a part of the WhatsApp community where you get to meet and interact with the host and other listeners. https://chat.whatsapp.com/GupLUpG1TlB21q61r4mbT1

4. 

   10 Oct 2023

   Body shaming is a Flex

   It’s sad that body shaming comes as a reflex to some people. Body shaming is no joke. This episode talks about experiences and unfortunately instances when body shaming had occurred. Be a part of the conversation by following and leaving comments on the It's Funny How page on Instagram @itsfunny_howpodcast and being a part of the WhatsApp community where you get to meet and interact with the host and other listeners. https://chat.whatsapp.com/GupLUpG1TlB21q61r4mbT1

5. 

   3 Oct 2023

   Second Hand Embarrassment Hits us Later

   You know those situations where you or someone you know does something so cringe-worthy that you actually feel it in your bones? Some people call it embarrassment by association, I like to call it secondhand embarrassment. This is a story time episode discussing, reading, and telling stories on secondhand embarrassments. Be a part of the conversation by following and leaving comments on the It's Funny How page on Instagram @itsfunny_howpodcast and being a part of the WhatsApp community where you get to meet and interact with the host and other listeners. https://chat.whatsapp.com/GupLUpG1TlB21q61r4mbT1

6. 

   26 Sept 2023

   History Repeats Itself: Colorism

   Colorism exists! This episode talks on how Colorism is alive and thriving literally everywhere. Join Safa and her guest on this episode. You can also click the link below to be a part of the community; https://chat.whatsapp.com/GupLUpG1TlB21q61r4mbT1

7. 

   18 Sept 2023

   Landlords Don't Rate Nigerian Women

   Are you a lady? Have you seen shege from a landlord? then you can certainly relate to this episode where Safa and her guest talk about the intricacies surrounding single ladies being shamed for choosing to live independently. Be a part of the conversation by following and leaving comments on the It's Funny How page on Instagram @itsfunnyhowpod and being a part of the WhatsApp community where you get to meet and interact with the host and other listeners. https://chat.whatsapp.com/GupLUpG1TlB21q61r4mbT1

8. 

   7 Sept 2023

   Situationships Are The New Thing

   It's funny how couples these days refuse to define their relationships, it's always, "We're just talking", "hanging out", or "It's complicated". Join Safa as she talks about the new intricacy that is Situationships. Be a part of the conversation by following and leaving comments on the It's Funny How page on Instagram @itsfunny_howpodcast and being a part of the WhatsApp community where you get to meet and interact with the host and other listeners. https://chat.whatsapp.com/GupLUpG1TlB21q61r4mbT1

9. 

   11 Aug 2023

   Chivalry is Dead

   A chat on how chivalry and overall decency in Gen Z is utterly deceased. These days, everyone is all about femininity and gender equality, talking about what a man can do, a woman can do better. This episode discusses the nuances surrounding chivalry in the twenty-first century.

10. 

    11 Aug 2023

    Introducing: It's Funny How

    It’s Funny How” is a thought-provoking and humorous podcast hosted by Safa. From personal experiences to cultural observations, each episode aims to create self-awareness and encourage critical thinking, challenging listeners to analyze their decision-making processes. Through banter and candid conversations, Safa and her guests shed light on the everyday challenges and concerns that impact our lives. Tune in to “It’s Funny How” for an engaging exploration of the issues that shape our society and a fresh perspective on the complexities of life

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