It's Hard Out Here

About It's Hard Out Here

The show that allows you to peek into the lives of two mildly unhinged individuals in their 20’s, trying to navigate the complexities of the modern age. The aim of this podcast, in a world full of podcasts, is to create a safe space for everyday people who have strong opinions and dissect controversial topics such as mental health, sexuality, gender, politics, and spirituality.

Publisher

It's Hard Out Here

Category

society & culture

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

24 Feb 2023

Latest episode

18 Sept 2024

Latest episodes

14 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   18 Sept 2024

   Episode 1 - Dark Rooms and Resentment: Diving into the Femcel Milieu

   Welcome back to It’s Hard Out Here, where the mildly unhinged come together to explore the strange and fascinating corners of modern life. In today’s episode, we’re diving headfirst into the enigmatic world of femcels with our new co-host, the mysterious and delightfully off-kilter Lee.Join us as we unravel the complexities of the femcel subculture, from its origins to its present-day manifestations. We’ll explore:What It Means to Be a Femcel: Discover the evolution from first-wave femcels—wo...

2. 

   13 Mar 2024

   Episode - Corporate Culture

   In this episode, Hayley and Kerri discuss what it's like navigating the corporate world as a neurodivergent woman in their mid-20s. They consider having to maintain that customer service facade (a.k.a. masking), not understanding peoples' true intentions, dealing with emotions at work, and working with people you don't like. To share your thoughts and opinions, or suggest topics, find It's Hard Out Here on socials. Connect with us on Socials! TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardoutherepodcast (https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardoutherepodcast) Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itshardoutherepodcast/ (https://www.instagram.com/itshardoutherepodcast/) Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/itshardoutherepodcast (https://www.facebook.com/itshardoutherepodcast) Hayley and Kerri Hayley on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hayley__marshall/ (https://www.instagram.com/hayley__marshall/) Kerri on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kezzatiems/ (https://www.instagram.com/kezzatiems/)

3. 

   28 Feb 2024

   Episode 2 - Everything You Need To Know About Relationships

   Join Hayley and Kerri with their special guest Isabella, in discussing whether relationships make a person whole, how to be successful in one, and when it's time to leave. To share your thoughts and opinions, or suggest topics, find It's Hard Out Here on socials. Connect with us on Socials! TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardoutherepodcast (https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardoutherepodcast) Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itshardoutherepodcast/ (https://www.instagram.com/itshardoutherepodcast/) Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/itshardoutherepodcast (https://www.facebook.com/itshardoutherepodcast) Hayley and Kerri Hayley on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hayley__marshall/ (https://www.instagram.com/hayley__marshall/) Kerri on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kezzatiems/ (https://www.instagram.com/kezzatiems/)

4. 

   14 Feb 2024

   Episode 1 - Reading Icebreaker, ACOMAF, Pucking Around & Andrew Tate Fanfiction

   In this Valentine's Day Special, Hayley and Kerri read smut novels, 'Icebreaker', 'A Court of Mist and Fury' and 'Pucking Around'. They discover the Archive of Our Own webpage and giggle along at the unrealistic expectations in the bedroom that is explored in modern literature. To share your thoughts and opinions, or suggest topics, find It's Hard Out Here on socials. Connect with us on Socials! TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardoutherepodcast (https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardoutherepodcast) Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itshardoutherepodcast/ (https://www.instagram.com/itshardoutherepodcast/) Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/itshardoutherepodcast (https://www.facebook.com/itshardoutherepodcast) Hayley and Kerri Hayley on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hayley__marshall/ (https://www.instagram.com/hayley__marshall/) Kerri on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kezzatiems/ (https://www.instagram.com/kezzatiems/)

5. 

   2 Nov 2023

   Episode 10 - How Neurodivergence Relates to Interpersonal Relationships

   In this episode, Hayley and Kerri unpack how being neurodivergent may relate to an individual's interpersonal relationships. Does mental illness stop people from making friends or do people with diagnoses just not want relationships as much as neurotypical individuals? Is it fair to force neurodivergent individuals to participate in the same social norms as neurotypical people and judge them by the same standards? Is it even a disadvantage to be neurodivergent? Hayley and Kez break it down. To share your thoughts and opinions, or suggest topics, find It's Hard Out Here on socials. 'Hard Out Here' by Lily Allen has been adapted under copyright legislation: Fair dealing of the copyright act Cth s 28, ss 40 (103C), s 45, ss 47, ss 111. Connect with us on Socials! TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardoutherepodcast (https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardoutherepodcast) Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itshardoutherepodcast/ (https://www.instagram.com/itshardoutherepodcast/) Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/itshardoutherepodcast (https://www.facebook.com/itshardoutherepodcast) Hayley and Kerri Hayley on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hayley__marshall/ (https://www.instagram.com/hayley__marshall/) Kerri on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kezzatiems/ (https://www.instagram.com/kezzatiems/)

6. 

   12 Sept 2023

   Episode 9 - Body Image

   In this episode, Hayley and Kerri chat with special guest, Chiara Sanday about what body image means to them. They unpack some of the things they have been influenced by, and some of the things their body image has influenced them to do. To share your thoughts and opinions, or suggest topics, find It's Hard Out Here on socials. Connect with us on Socials! TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardoutherepodcast (https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardoutherepodcast) Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itshardoutherepodcast/ (https://www.instagram.com/itshardoutherepodcast/) Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/itshardoutherepodcast (https://www.facebook.com/itshardoutherepodcast) Hayley and Kerri Hayley on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hayley__marshall/ (https://www.instagram.com/hayley__marshall/) Kerri on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kezzatiems/ (https://www.instagram.com/kezzatiems/)

7. 

   28 Jul 2023

   Episode 8 - Conspiracy Theories

   In this episode, Hayley and Kerri have their VERY first guest, Miss Alana. The three of them discuss conspiracy theories, touching on the Tik Tok viral 'Lady on an Airplane' who saw a man who apparently, "was not real", the glitter shortage, The Illuminati, religion, and the Flat Earth Theory. To share your thoughts and opinions, or suggest topics, find It's Hard Out Here on socials. Connect with us on Socials! TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardoutherepodcast (https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardoutherepodcast) Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itshardoutherepodcast/ (https://www.instagram.com/itshardoutherepodcast/) Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/itshardoutherepodcast (https://www.facebook.com/itshardoutherepodcast) Hayley and Kerri Hayley on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hayley__marshall/ (https://www.instagram.com/hayley__marshall/) Kerri on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kezzatiems/ (https://www.instagram.com/kezzatiems/)

8. 

   7 Jul 2023

   Episode 7 - r/AITA

   In this episode, Hayley and Kerri delve into the subreddit 'Am I the Asshole'.  Is it okay to mock your friend's husband's weight? Is it okay to tell someone no one cares about their child? Should dads get an hour off from parenting their kids on Father's Day? Is it okay to keep things from your significant other? Is it rude to serve your girlfriend a smaller portion of food? Are you entitled to your dad's ashes? Listen to this episode to find out Hayley and Kerri's thoughts Connect with us on Socials! TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardoutherepodcast (https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardoutherepodcast) Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itshardoutherepodcast/ (https://www.instagram.com/itshardoutherepodcast/) Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/itshardoutherepodcast (https://www.facebook.com/itshardoutherepodcast) Hayley and Kerri Hayley on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hayley__marshall/ (https://www.instagram.com/hayley__marshall/) Kerri on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kezzatiems/ (https://www.instagram.com/kezzatiems/)

9. 

   22 Jun 2023

   Episode 6 - Do Men or Women Face More Mental Health Stigma?

   In this episode, Hayley and Kerri discuss how gender interacts with mental health stigma. Some of the factors they consider include toxic masculinity, female hysteria, and overdiagnosis in men and women. Some of the suggestions to combat stigma include accessible healthcare, education, and open communication. Sources: https://pastebin.com/0WKE57fx Connect with us on Socials! TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardoutherepodcast (https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardoutherepodcast) Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itshardoutherepodcast/ (https://www.instagram.com/itshardoutherepodcast/) Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/itshardoutherepodcast (https://www.facebook.com/itshardoutherepodcast) Hayley and Kerri Hayley on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hayley__marshall/ (https://www.instagram.com/hayley__marshall/) Kerri on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kezzatiems/ (https://www.instagram.com/kezzatiems/)

10. 

    19 May 2023

    Episode 5 - You Take a Fat Trauma Dump With Us

    In this episode, Hayley and Kerri take a fat trauma dump on you all. And you guys return the favor by joining us. TRIGGER WARNING: this episode gets into trauma involving drugs, sexual assault, violence, bullying, and other confronting themes. 'Hard Out Here' by Lily Allen has been adapted under copyright legislation: Fair dealing of the copyright act Cth s 28, ss 40 (103C), s 45, ss 47, ss 111. Connect with us on Socials! TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardoutherepodcast (https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardoutherepodcast) Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itshardoutherepodcast/ (https://www.instagram.com/itshardoutherepodcast/) Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/itshardoutherepodcast (https://www.facebook.com/itshardoutherepodcast) Hayley and Kerri Hayley on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hayley__marshall/ (https://www.instagram.com/hayley__marshall/) Kerri on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kezzatiems/ (https://www.instagram.com/kezzatiems/)

11. 

    14 Apr 2023

    Episode 4 - Are Pronouns Dumb?

    In this episode, Hayley and Kerri dive into the topic of 'pronouns'. Are they dumb? Are people pushing for inclusivity 'snowflakes'? Do people seriously identify as frogs? Watch to find out. 'Hard Out Here' by Lily Allen has been adapted under copyright legislation: Fair dealing of the copyright act Cth s 28, ss 40 (103C), s 45, ss 47, ss 111. Connect with us on Socials! TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardoutherepodcast (https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardoutherepodcast) Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itshardoutherepodcast/ (https://www.instagram.com/itshardoutherepodcast/) Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/itshardoutherepodcast (https://www.facebook.com/itshardoutherepodcast) Hayley and Kerri Hayley on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hayley__marshall/ (https://www.instagram.com/hayley__marshall/) Kerri on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kezzatiems/ (https://www.instagram.com/kezzatiems/)

12. 

    24 Mar 2023

    Episode 3 - Is Climate Change Real?

    In this episode, Hayley and Kerri discuss the basics of climate change. They explain the 'Greenhouse Effect', and cover how climate change is caused, who is causing it, if we should be panicking, who it affects, and how we can stop it. 'Hard Out Here' by Lily Allen has been adapted under copyright legislation: Fair dealing of the copyright act Cth s 28, ss 40 (103C), s 45, ss 47, ss 111. Connect with us on Socials! TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardoutherepodcast (https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardoutherepodcast) Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itshardoutherepodcast/ (https://www.instagram.com/itshardoutherepodcast/) Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/itshardoutherepodcast (https://www.facebook.com/itshardoutherepodcast) Hayley and Kerri Hayley on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hayley__marshall/ (https://www.instagram.com/hayley__marshall/) Kerri on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kezzatiems/ (https://www.instagram.com/kezzatiems/)

13. 

    10 Mar 2023

    Episode 2 - The Pros and Cons of Social Media

    In this episode, Hayley and Kerri get knee-deep into the debate surrounding the pros and cons of social media. They break down concerns around how social media can provide easy access to information, may affect one's mental health, and can influence the polarisation of political opinions. 'Hard Out Here' by Lily Allen has been adapted under copyright legislation: Fair dealing of the copyright act Cth s 28, ss 40 (103C), s 45, ss 47, ss 111. Connect with us on Socials! TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardoutherepodcast (https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardoutherepodcast) Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itshardoutherepodcast/ (https://www.instagram.com/itshardoutherepodcast/) Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/itshardoutherepodcast (https://www.facebook.com/itshardoutherepodcast) Hayley and Kerri Hayley on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hayley__marshall/ (https://www.instagram.com/hayley__marshall/) Kerri on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kezzatiems/ (https://www.instagram.com/kezzatiems/)

14. 

    24 Feb 2023

    Episode 1 - Who are Hayley and Kerri?

    This episode is all about getting to know your new hosts better. Hayley and Kerri give you their elevator pitch regarding who they are and what they're about, and then go on to play a game called 'We're Not Really Strangers'; a game that prompts deep and meaningful conversation, and reveals plenty of personal experiences. Connect with us on Socials! TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardoutherepodcast (https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardoutherepodcast) Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itshardoutherepodcast/ (https://www.instagram.com/itshardoutherepodcast/) Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/itshardoutherepodcast (https://www.facebook.com/itshardoutherepodcast) Hayley and Kerri Hayley on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hayley__marshall/ (https://www.instagram.com/hayley__marshall/) Kerri on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kezzatiems/ (https://www.instagram.com/kezzatiems/)

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