The opposite of ‘abstinence only’ education.
Dying to feel less weird and alone?
Listen to as i share my professional sex advice mixed with my vulnerable sex, relationship, and intimacy lessons I learned the hard way so you don't have to. I'm your host Danie, a self growth junkie, Somatic Sex Coach + Sexologist. You can expect holistic sex ed-meaning this pleasure podcast goes beyond basic anatomy into communication, trauma, self discovery ,nervous system and so much more. Let's melt shame and shed light on the unexplored corners of the queer erotic mind. LGBTQ+
Get ur free present sex roadmap here (https://sapphicsexologist.myflodesk.com/kwv031nzc4) What if what we commonly call "low libido" was actually a symptom of a nervous system overwhelmed by shame, conditioning and trauma?
Listen to learn:-how the body and nervous system is playing out patterns from the past that block desire in the present (yes, even when you love her so much)-how to feel more desire and pleasure without overwhelming your body or pushing through-The process I teach all my clients that helps you get clear on exactly what you need to feel interested in sex againwanna work together? book your connection call here (https://www.sapphicsexologist.com/apply)
9 Mar 2026
lesbians, drop the therapy speak to have better sex (im begging you)
are you more "emotionally mature" or just using fancy words to hide your vulnerability?
in this episode i cover:
-why the rise of therapy speak is eroding intimacy
-the 'flat stanley' effect and the emotional distance it creates in partnership
-why Expansive Communication is the key to productive conversations that get your sex life back on track
Feel called out in a good way or intrigued? Let's talk. :)
book a connection call with me (https://calendly.com/daniebergstrom/discovery-call)
learn how the feral effect creates deeper connection (https://sapphicsexologist.myflodesk.com/freebie)
6 Feb 2026
the freeze response to sexual trauma, explained
Work with me (https://calendly.com/daniebergstrom/discovery-call)Access the Feral Effect here (https://sapphicsexologist.myflodesk.com/freebie)Lets normalize the freeze response so we can feel less shame and access more joy after sexual trauma.Listen for
-what is happening in the body when Freeze happens, and why its not the same as "doing nothing"
-How to gently come out of a freeze response
-the next phase of healing after "survivor" that I want everyone to experience
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