It's a coffee date

About It's a coffee date

This podcast is about Me living in a world full of everything... Literally everything be it love, hate, jealousy, abuse, negativity, positivity, life...ect. Maybe I was destined to forever fall for people I couldn't have. Maybe there's a whole assortment of impossible people waiting for me to find them. Waiting to make me feel the same impossibility over and over again. All I want is to stop having to keep this a secret. I want to be able to hold your hands and tell our friends about the date we went on last night. I want to stop hiding, stop worrying what will happen if someone finds out.

Publisher

Tsholofelo Makau

Category

society & culture

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

17 Mar 2020

Latest episode

16 Jan 2023

Latest episodes

8 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   16 Jan 2023

   Most Important Type Of Love

   Everyone wants to be loved and we often think that means we need to seek it from other people. But when you seek love from external sources you are allowing it to be taken away from you, which can leave you feeling empty and broken on the inside. Speaking of inside, why don’t we look inside of ourselves for love?Learning to love and approve of yourself is one of the hardest things to do. It requires you to take the time out to put yourself first, focusing on your wants and needs over those of others. It might seem selfish at first, but after a while, you will realize that before you can truly take care of others, you have to first take care of yourself. This could include engaging in activities that make you happy or spending time alone with your thoughts. You could even practice stating positive affirmations or reading uplifting quotes to help you view yourself in a better light. Nobody will stand to lose from you choosing to do so.

2. 

   8 Apr 2021

   Sexual attraction

   Sexual attraction is attraction on the basis of sexual desire or the quality of arousing such interest. Sexual attractiveness or sex appeal is an individual's ability to attract the sexual or erotic interests of other people, and is a factor in sexual selection or mate choice. The attraction can be to the physical or other qualities or traits of a person, or to such qualities in the context where they appear. The attraction may be to a person's aesthetics or movements or to their voice or smell, besides other factors. The attraction may be enhanced by a person's adornments, clothing, perfume or style. It can be influenced by individual genetic, psychological, or cultural factors, or to other, more amorphous qualities. Sexual attraction is also a response to another person that depends on a combination of the person possessing the traits and on the criteria of the person who is attracted.

3. 

   25 May 2020

   21 Questions|| Shejust Muma ||South African Queer Youtuber

   Hey, I go by the name of Kamo but well known as Muma🙈🔥. LISTEN🤣. What you're about to hear is what you'll be seeing all through out this channel on YouTube 🔥. The channel is a NO BOUNDARY channel. From Talks, challenges, story time, to Tags. Anything YOU would like to talk. please feel freee just send me your thoughts by following me on.. instagram on @shejust_muma and that is where all the updates based on my channel will also be. You're ON a roller-coaster 🙈 so HOLD ON TIGHT 🔥🔥And🔥🔥 enjoy. IG: @shejust_muma FACEBOOK: Kamo Muma Mokoena TWITTER: @shejust_muma

4. 

   18 May 2020

   Feedback on what is love and when do you realize you're in love?

   WHAT IS LOVE? Love has been a favored topic of philosophers, poets, writers, and scientists for generations, and different people and groups have often fought about its definition. While most people agree that love implies strong feelings of affection, there are many disagreements about its precise meaning, and one person’s “I love you” might mean something quite different than another’s. Some possible definitions of love include: A willingness to prioritize another’s well-being or happiness above your own. Extreme feelings of attachment, affection, and need. Dramatic, sudden feelings of attraction and respect. A fleeting emotion of care, affection, and like. A choice to commit to helping, respecting, and caring for another, such as in marriage  or when having a child. Some combination of the above emotions. There has been much debate about whether love is a choice, is something that is permanent or fleeting, and whether the love between family members and spouses is biologically programmed or culturally indoctrinated. Love may vary from person to person and culture to culture. Each of the debates about love may be accurate in some time and some place. For example, in some instances, love may be a choice while in others it may feel uncontrollable.

5. 

   30 Apr 2020

   Love and other strange conditions

   Love, well love is technically just a chemical or string of chemicals but I can’t remember which, but I can tell you that chemical is the single most important thing inside your brain. Love means companionship, love is what makes you decide who you want to be around, love will show you pain, pleasure, regret, hope, and everything in between… Love will make you cry, or it can make you laugh. Life is meaningless without it, dull and grey, and when you find it everything fills with vivid color! Love is what everyone searches for in one way or another, isn’t it? People love money, sports, cars, make up, books, their career, their kids, their mother and father… now, when I hear “love” I think of a girl, not any specific girl anymore, but I think female. Not everyone searches for love in the form of another human being, and I don’t either. I THINK female but what love really is, love is the bond, the connection between two people. Physically, mentally, and emotionally. Love is the spark, the fire, the passion in a relationship that makes it work. Love is understanding, communicating, and trusting the other in a relationship. I really do miss the warm & fuzzy feeling of love. It sounds strange but love is what drives me forward these days… “Maybe tomorrow, maybe tomorrow” is what love means to me.

6. 

   20 Mar 2020

   Truth is I move to fast

   Its just weird because I grew up thinking that people waited until they were 18 to drink, couples waited until they were married to have sex and people didn’t do drugs. I thought you would always end up marrying your soulmate and I thought your friends were your friends and they would never leave your side and everyone you said “ I love you” to would say it back. It’s just crazy how you grow up with all this love and hope in your heart and then you’re thrown into what you think is a twisted world but it’s actually just life and you gotta live it.

7. 

   18 Mar 2020

   You call her nothing

   When I was young, I escaped a traumatic abuse that left a great mark in my soul. I was scarred for life; psychologically and emotionally. I was exposed to a lot of negativity that was life-changing. All of these put together pushed me into a state of depression and confinement, with no one to talk to. Those times, writing, playing soccer was my only means of escaping from worries and depressing thoughts. This poem is dedicated to every single woman out there who experienced abuse in any form of way.

8. 

   17 Mar 2020

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