It's Gemma Speaking
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<p>A podcast where we speak about healing relationships, and how to create the space for more love, joy, and peace in our lives,</p><p>Gemma is a trauma & healing informed practitioner whose work is underpinned by neuroscience, psychology, and spiritual principles that enable clients to heal and release anxiety and trauma at the deepest level for lasting change. </p>
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5/29/2025
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Recent Episodes
September 5, 2025
Why Silence Feels Like Rejection
<p>🎉 Join the LIVE Masterclass: Secure Love, release anxiety and attract secure love that feels like home:</p><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://gemmamatin.co.uk/home-to-secure-love/">https://gemmamatin.co.uk/home-to-secure-love/</a></p><p>📲 <strong>Connect on Instagram</strong> @itsgemmamatin</p><p>📚 <strong>Grab a copy of my book </strong>[FREE copy available in pre-launch only]: The Monday to Friday Principle:</p><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://gemmamatin.co.uk/the-monday-to-friday-principle-book">https://gemmamatin.co.uk/the-monday-to-friday-principle-book</a></p><p><strong>♥️ 1:1 Coaching</strong> <strong>& Subconscious Healing</strong></p><p><strong>Details here:</strong> <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://gemmamatin.thrivecart.com/one-to-one/">https://gemmamatin.thrivecart.com/one-to-one/</a></p><p><strong>🔗 Share:</strong> If this episode resonates, please feel free to share it with someone you think would like to hear it too.</p><p>💌 <strong>Say hello: </strong>drop me an email: <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="mailto:hello@gemmamatin.com">hello@gemmamatin.com</a> to share your thoughts and take aways from the show, and feel free to ask any questions you may have, I’ll try my best to answer them on the next episode.</p><p>------------------------------------------------------------------------------------</p><p><strong>In this episode I’m answering questions on: why silence feels like rejection</strong></p><p>Whether you’re dating or in a relationship, being met with silence — a delayed text, no reply, or no call back — can trigger a powerful emotional response. Suddenly your mind spirals with worst-case scenarios, and you sacrifice your sleep, focus at work, and peace of mind over one simple text. WHY?!</p><p>In this episode, I unpack why silence can feel so overwhelming and how to break free from the spiral so you can return to calm.</p><p><strong>We explore:</strong></p><p>· Why high-achieving, confident women feel completely undone by early dating dynamics.</p><p>· The difference between constant communication (dopamine hits) and consistent communication (emotional safety).</p><p>· How dopamine circuits, attachment wounds, and subconscious fears fuel the spiral when someone doesn’t reply.</p><p>· Why silence activates the fight–flight–freeze response in your nervous system.</p><p>· How subconscious fears of abandonment and rejection from childhood or past relationships get projected into dating today.</p><p>· Practical ways to release anxiety and communicate your needs with calm confidence.</p><p><strong>Questions answered in this episode:</strong></p><p>1. Why do confident, successful women spiral in early dating dynamics when replies are delayed?</p><p>2. Why does silence or a delayed reply trigger such a strong fight-or-flight response in the body?</p><p>3. How do subconscious fears of abandonment and rejection from past experiences project into new dating situations?</p><p>If this resonates with you, I’m also hosting a <strong>live masterclass on Secure Love</strong> in September, where I’ll guide you through one powerful subconscious shift to release anxiety and find calm, so you can attract secure love that feels like home. The link is in the show notes and in my Instagram bio.</p>
July 22, 2025
How Not to be Ghosted: Red Flags, Triggers & Closure
<p>Ghosting is one of the most confusing and painful experiences when dating—and yet it’s become so ANNOYINGLY common. </p><p>In this episode, we explore the emotional, energetic, and subconscious layers behind ghosting so you can close the loop with clarity and protect your peace. Whether you’re actively dating or navigating attachment trauma, this episode is for you. </p><p>🎙️ <strong>Episode 8: How Not to be Ghosted:</strong> <strong>Red Flags, Nervous Systems Triggers, and the Power of Closure</strong></p><p><strong>I’m speaking on:</strong></p><p>· <strong>Why ghosting hurts </strong>– if you've ever spiralled after being ghosted, you'll learn how this activates your abandonment wound and dysregulates your nervous system.</p><p>· <strong>The psychology behind ghosting</strong> – we explore why emotionally unavailable people ghost and how to recognise it before it happens 🧠</p><p>· <strong>How to close the energetic loop (without closure)</strong> – we break down healing practices to reclaim your peace, get closure, and stop holding space for someone who’s not choosing you 🔋</p><p>· <strong>Red flags to watch for early on</strong> – learn how to spot inconsistency, false intimacy, and subtle emotional unavailability so that you can avoid investing in someone who isn’t aligned with your higher vision for love 🚩</p><p>· <strong>How to respond with compassion—not chaos</strong> –break the cycle and lead with emotional maturity 🌿</p><p>This episode is relevant for anyone navigating dating anxiety or attachment trauma 💔 </p><p>Ghosting SUCKS - it’s time to break the cycle and protect your own peace. </p><p>The love you’re seeking is on its way to you my love, but you need to heal the past patterns that are keeping you in the cycles that are attracting emotionally unavailable partners. </p><p>It starts with you 🫶🏼</p><p>------------------------------------------------------------------------------------</p><p>📲 <strong>Connect on Instagram</strong> @itsgemmamatin</p><p>📚 <strong>Grab a copy of my book </strong>[FREE copy available in pre-launch only]: The Monday to Friday Principle:</p><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://gemmamatin.co.uk/the-monday-to-friday-principle-book">https://gemmamatin.co.uk/the-monday-to-friday-principle-book</a></p><p><strong>♥️ 1:1 Coaching</strong> <strong>& Subconscious Healing</strong></p><p><strong>Details here:</strong> <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://gemmamatin.thrivecart.com/one-to-one/">https://gemmamatin.thrivecart.com/one-to-one/</a></p><p><strong>Book a free consultation call here: </strong><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://calendly.com/gemma-matin/consultation-call">https://calendly.com/gemma-matin/consultation-call</a></p><p><strong>🔗 Share:</strong> If this episode resonates, please feel free to share it with someone you think would like to hear it too.</p><p>💌 <strong>Say hello: </strong>drop me an email: <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="mailto:hello@gemmamatin.com">hello@gemmamatin.com</a> to share your thoughts and take aways from the show, and feel free to ask any questions you may have, I’ll try my best to answer them on the next episode.</p>
June 25, 2025
Letting Go: Heal Your Heart & Move On
Gemma Matin guides listeners through the complex process of letting go after a relationship, addressing attachment trauma and anxious-avoidant dynamics, and provides five steps to grieve, ground, and heal.
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- What is It's Gemma Speaking?
<p>A podcast where we speak about healing relationships, and how to create the space for more love, joy, and peace in our lives,</p><p>Gemma is a trauma & healing informed practitioner whose work is underpinned by neuroscience, psychology, and spiritual principles that enable clients to heal and release anxiety and trauma at the deepest level for lasting change. </p> - How often does this podcast release new episodes?
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