Its Her Again Podcast

About Its Her Again Podcast

Real talk on love, life & money 🎙️ Healing out loud, growing in real time No perfection—just progress ✨ It’s her again itsheragainpodcast.substack.com (https://itsheragainpodcast.substack.com?utm_medium=podcast)

Publisher

Ebonie Shante

Category

education · society & culture

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

11 Jan 2026

Latest episode

26 Feb 2026

Latest episodes

8 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   26 Feb 2026

   Ep. 7 - I’m Not Asking For Too Much, I'm Just Asking The Wrong Person

   At what point did basic effort become “too much”? In this episode of It’s Her Again, we’re unpacking the lie women get fed when we ask for consistency, communication, reassurance, and intention. Somehow:• Wanting clarity = pressure• Wanting effort = high maintenance• Wanting commitment = doing too much But is it really too much…or is he just underqualified? We’re talking about the bare minimum epidemic, why we start shrinking our standards when we get tired, and how to stop negotiating with your own needs just to keep someone around. If you’ve ever been called “too much” for simply wanting to feel secure — this episode is your confirmation. You’re not asking for too much.You’re asking the wrong person. Press play if you’re done auditioning for basic treatment. #ItsHerAgain#TooMuchOrTooAware#ChosenNotConvenient#DatingStandards#ModernDating#SoftLifeStandards#EmotionalMaturity#WomenWithBoundaries#HighValueEnergy#SecureWomen#RelationshipReality#StopSettling#HealingOutLoud#KnowYourWorth#PodcastForWomen This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit itsheragainpodcast.substack.com (https://itsheragainpodcast.substack.com?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_1)

2. 

   19 Feb 2026

   Ep. 6 - Soft Life, Hard Boundaries

   Everybody wants a soft life… until it’s time to say no. In this episode of It’s Her Again, we’re talking about the real cost of peace. Because soft life isn’t about aesthetics — it’s about emotional safety. And you cannot have emotional safety without hard boundaries. If you’re tired of over-explaining, over-giving, over-tolerating, and calling it love… this episode is your wake-up call. We’re unpacking: * Why people get mad when you enforce boundaries * How to stop over-explaining yourself * The difference between being soft and being easy to play with * Why chaos feels like chemistry to some of us This isn’t about being cold. It’s about being controlled. Because the real glow-up?Is saying no without guilt. Press play if you’re ready to protect your peace like it’s expensive — because it is. #ItsHerAgain#SoftLifeEra#HardBoundaries#ChosenEnergy#EmotionalMaturity#HealingOutLoud#WomenWithStandards#SelfRespectJourney#ProtectYourPeace#NoMorePeoplePleasing#DatingWithBoundaries#SecureEnergy#GlowUpSeason#PodcastForWomen#ModernWoman This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit itsheragainpodcast.substack.com (https://itsheragainpodcast.substack.com?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_1)

3. 

   14 Feb 2026

   Ep. 5 - Be Mine… Or Stop Playing With Me

   Valentine’s Day isn’t about flowers.It’s about position. In this episode of It’s Her Again, we’re talking about access, situationships, late-night energy, and why some people will touch you, hold you, and sleep next to you… but still won’t claim you. If he only shows up after dark…If February 14th makes him nervous…If you feel desired but not secure… This episode is for you. We’re unpacking the difference between chemistry and commitment, passion and position, and why being “almost” isn’t enough anymore. This year, we’re not being convenient. We’re being chosen. Press play if you’re ready to stop giving full access to someone who won’t give you full clarity. #ItsHerAgain#ValentinesDayVibes#SituationshipTalk#DatingIn2026#ModernLove#SoftLifeStandards#ChosenNotConvenient#WomenWithStandards#RelationshipReality#HealingOutLoud#PodcastForWomen#DatingAdvice#SelfWorthJourney#EmotionalIntelligence#UnlearnAndEvolve This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit itsheragainpodcast.substack.com (https://itsheragainpodcast.substack.com?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_1)

4. 

   5 Feb 2026

   Ep. 4 - If He Wanted To, He Would… But Did He REALLY?

   “If he wanted to, he would.”We say it like it’s closure… but what if it’s only half the truth? In this episode, we unpack the gray area—the almost relationships, the mixed signals, the effort with no direction, and the way we stayed way longer than we should’ve because nothing was technically wrong. We talk about confusing love, bare minimum masquerading as effort, making excuses for grown men, and the moment you realize you been more anxious than happy. This one is for anyone who: * romanticized potential * kept explaining somebody’s behavior * felt chosen sometimes, but unsure most days * and had to finally admit confusion is an answer We’re getting honest about when he did want to… just not enough. And more importantly, why we ignored our discomfort trying to make it work. No bashing.No fairy tales.Just real clarity, real healing, and a little self-drag with love. If this episode make you pause the audio and stare at the wall for a second… yeah. That was on purpose. 🎧 Tap in. Sit with it. And don’t negotiate your worth. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit itsheragainpodcast.substack.com (https://itsheragainpodcast.substack.com?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_1)

5. 

   29 Jan 2026

   Ep 3 - Why We Go Back — Familiar Love vs Healthy Love

   Why We Go Back: Familiar Love vs Healthy Love Why does peace feel boring… but chaos feels like home? In this episode, we’re unpacking why we return to relationships we know aren’t good for us—and why healthy love can feel uncomfortable when dysfunction is all we’ve ever known. We talk familiar love, trauma bonds, addiction to potential, and why healing sometimes feels lonely before it feels right. If you’ve ever confused intensity with intimacy, this one’s for you. Press play, breathe through it, and let’s unlearn together. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit itsheragainpodcast.substack.com (https://itsheragainpodcast.substack.com?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_1)

6. 

   22 Jan 2026

   Ep. 2 - Healing Ain’t Cute: Letting Go of Who You Had to Be

   Healing don’t always look pretty. Sometimes it’s ugly cries in the car, cutting people off with love, and realizing the version of you that survived… can’t come where you’re going. In this episode, we’re talking about shedding old layers — the hustler, the people-pleaser, the strong friend, the version of you that did too much just to feel safe. The masks. The coping habits. The roles you picked up just to make it through. This is about choosing peace over performance. Softness over survival. And learning who you are when you’re no longer in fight mode. If you’ve been grieving an old version of yourself while trying to become a new one… this episode is for you. Press play. Sit with it. Heal loud or quiet — just don’t rush it. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit itsheragainpodcast.substack.com (https://itsheragainpodcast.substack.com?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_1)

7. 

   15 Jan 2026

   Ep. 1 - It’s Her Again… New Year, Same Me (Just Upgraded)

   It’s her… again. And yeah, she’s changed — but she’s still figuring it out in real time. Episode 1 is the official introduction to It’s Her Again — a podcast about love, life, money, healing, and all the beautiful chaos in between. We’re talking new year energy, releasing old versions of ourselves, setting intentions instead of unrealistic goals, and stepping into our soft-but-still-that-girl era. This is for the women who’ve been through enough to know better, but still be outside trying again. Healing out loud. Romanticizing growth. Choosing themselves even when it’s uncomfortable. No perfection. No fake guru energy. Just real conversations, real lessons, and real “damn… that hit” moments. If you’ve ever said, “okay… here I go again” — this podcast is for you. New episodes weekly Tap in & join the convo Share with a friend in her healing season This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit itsheragainpodcast.substack.com (https://itsheragainpodcast.substack.com?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_1)

8. 

   11 Jan 2026

   Its Her Again....

   I said what I said… and I’m sayin more. We talkin love, bad decisions, money moves, healing, and the mess nobody wanna admit out loud. If you’ve ever doubled back, cried, glowed up, or said “never again” (and meant it for 2 weeks)… yeah, this for you. Trailer OUT NOW. Welcome to the chaos…. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit itsheragainpodcast.substack.com (https://itsheragainpodcast.substack.com?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_1)

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