It's Never Just Sex

About It's Never Just Sex

Host Anita Banks AKA Trinity Blake and Licensed Sex Therapist Diana Ryan and their uninhibited friends share uncensored, candid, and often hilarious thoughts about sex, life, and relationships. Everyone is welcome, all lifestyles and preferences are invited to this party.

Publisher

Trinity Blake

Category

health & fitness · society & culture

Language

en

Explicit

Yes

First episode

7 Mar 2023

Latest episode

26 Sept 2023

Latest episodes

19 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   26 Sept 2023

   Ep 17 - Wet and Wild

   The 47 plus flavors of documented kinks, and still counting. Anita and her panel touch on a few of their favorites. Follow along @itsneverjustsexpodcast at Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok. Cast: Anita Banks AKA Trinity Blake Diana Ryan, LPC, CST, ACC Jae Jizzle Brought to you by Wicked Apple: Theme Song Produced By: Sir Tim Produced By: Jenny McGee, Gini Mascorro, Sam Damask Executive Producers: Joe Groves, Marla Watson

2. 

   12 Sept 2023

   Ep 16 - In the Event of a Funky Monkey

   Anita, Diana, and Jai discuss that when it comes to sex experience doesn’t always equal knowledge and the importance of avoiding the dreaded “Funky Monkey.” Follow along @itsneverjustsexpodcast at Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok Cast: Anita Banks AKA Trinity Blake Diana Ryan, LPC, CST, ACC Jai AKA “The Coach” Brought to you by Wicked Apple: Theme Song Produced By: Sir Tim Produced By: Jenny McGee, Gini Mascorro, Sam Damask Executive Producers: Joe Groves, Marla Watson

3. 

   29 Aug 2023

   Ep 15 - Let Your Cookie Run Wild

   Anita and Diana have a heart to heart discussion about relinquishing control, bringing the perfect scenario in your head to life, and their sex doula. Follow along @itsneverjustsexpodcast at Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok. Cast: Anita Banks AKA Trinity Blake Diana Ryan, LPC, CST, ACC Brought to you by Wicked Apple: Theme Song Produced By: Sir Tim Produced By: Jenny McGee, Gini Mascorro, Sam Damask Executive Producers: Joe Groves, Marla Watson

4. 

   15 Aug 2023

   Ep 14 - Red Flags

   How a fuzzy sense of boundaries, the pitfalls of “potential,” and endless insecurities can cause people to overlook red and yellow flags, and be all together blind to green flags. Keep the fun going and follow us @itsneverjustsexpodcast on Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok. Cast: Anita Banks AKA Trinity Blake Diana Ryan, LPC, CST, ACC Jai AKA “The Coach” Jae Jizzle Brought to you by Wicked Apple: Theme Song Produced By: Sir Tim Produced By: Jenny McGee, Gini Mascorro, Sam Damask Executive Producers: Joe Groves, Marla Watson

5. 

   1 Aug 2023

   Ep 13 - Pretty But Vacant

   Looks aren’t necessarily everything, or are they? What to do when the game is weak and the sex is whack. How to handle consent if you suspect you might become a post party Sleeping Beauty. Follow along @itsneverjustsexpodcast on Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok Cast: Anita Banks AKA Trinity Blake Diana Ryan, LPC, CST, ACC Jai AKA “The Coach” Brought to you by Wicked Apple: Theme Song Produced By: Sir Tim Produced By: Jenny McGee, Gini Mascorro, Sam Damask Executive Producers: Joe Groves, Marla Watson

6. 

   18 Jul 2023

   Ep 12 - I'm a Delicate Flower, Damnit!

   Anita defends her status as “a delicate flower,” Diana is voted most likely to survive a zombie apocalypse, and a lack of topic leads to some wild revelations. Cast: Anita Banks AKA Trinity Blake Diana Ryan, LPC, CST, ACC Jae Jizzle Jai AKA The Coach Brought to you by Wicked Apple Created by: Anita Banks AKA Trinity Blake Theme Song Produced By: Sir Tim Produced By: Sam Damask, Gini Mascorro, Jenny McGee Executive Producers: Joe Groves, Marla Watson

7. 

   4 Jul 2023

   Ep 11 - Black Sexuality: Myths and Assumptions

   A deep dive into how Black sexuality is steeped in our uncomfortable American history. Also, the allure of power couples, bootcamps for threesomes, and 'nasty' vs. 'wild.' Check us out @itsneverjustsexpodcast at Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok. Cast: Anita Banks AKA Trinity Blake Diana Ryan, LPC, CST, ACC Jai AKA The Coach Brought to you by Wicked Apple Created by: Anita Banks AKA Trinity Blake Theme Song Produced By: Sir Tim Produced By: Jenny McGee, Gini Mascorro, Sam Damask Executive Producers: Joe Groves, Marla Watson

8. 

   21 Jun 2023

   Ep 10 - Wifey Material?!

   Anita explores the vanilla version of online dating, explains why she prefers the “Boyfriend Experience”, and her special skill that earned her the title of “The Dick Whisperer.” Dr. Diana discusses how being up front and direct about her desires typically gets her what she wants, without added drama or complications. The group weighs in on hygiene and how to avoid the dreaded dick cheese or funky monkey. Check us out @itsneverjustsexpodcast on Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok. Cast: Anita Banks AKA Trinity Blake Diana Ryan, LPC, CST, ACC Jae Jizzle Brought to you by Wicked Apple Created by: Anita Banks AKA Trinity Blake Theme Song Produced By: Sir Tim Produced By: Jenny McGee, Gini Mascorro, Sam Damask Executive Producers: Joe Groves, Marla Watson

9. 

   6 Jun 2023

   EP 09 - Sex Work : A 21st Century Look at the World's Oldest Profession

   The world's oldest profession, 21st century style. Would you, could you? A thoughtful, no-nonsense discussion about the many aspects of sex work: the traditional, the transactional, the art of the agreement, why sometimes it pays to pay, and legalizing it already. Check us out @itsneverjustsexpodcast at Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok. Cast: Anita Banks AKA Trinity Blake Diana Ryan, LPC, CST, ACC Jai AKA The Coach Brought to you by Wicked Apple Created by: Anita Banks AKA Trinity Blake Theme Song Produced By: Sir Tim Produced By: Jenny McGee, Gini Mascorro, Sam Damask Executive Producers: Joe Groves, Marla Watson

10. 

    23 May 2023

    Ep 08 - Cheaters Anonymous

    The crew discusses what defines cheating, their personal experiences being a cheater or having been cheated on, and Anita shares the relationship food rule she considers cheating. Check us out @itsneverjustsexpodcast at Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok. Cast: Anita Banks AKA Trinity Blake Diana Ryan, LPC, CST, ACC Jae Jizzle Jai AKA The Coach Brought to you by Wicked Apple Created by: Anita Banks AKA Trinity Blake Theme Song Produced By: Sir Tim Produced By: Jenny McGee, Gini Mascorro, Sam Damask Executive Producers: Joe Groves, Marla Watson

11. 

    9 May 2023

    Ep 07 - Kink and Color

    The do's and don'ts, wills and won'ts of kinks and fetishes. The panel talks about their experiences as people of color in the world of fetishism, wax play, voyeurism, pegging, and Dr. Diana shares her electro-play expertise. Check us out @itsneverjustsexpodcast at Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok or email us at itsneverjustsex@wickedapplemedia.com. Cast: Anita Banks AKA Trinity Blake Diana Ryan, LPC, CST, ACC Jai AKA The Coach Brought to you by Wicked Apple Created by: Anita Banks AKA Trinity Blake Theme Song Produced By: Sir Tim Produced By: Jenny McGee, Gini Mascorro, Sam Damask Executive Producers: Joe Groves, Marla Watson

12. 

    25 Apr 2023

    Ep 06 - Condom Sense & Toy Box Etiquette for Parties and Partners

    Dr. Diana gives a brief history of the prophylactic and discusses the myth of ‘recycling,’ conflict avoidance and clearly defining consent when it comes to having the ‘condom talk,’ and everyone weighs in on etiquette and best practices when it comes to parties and sex toys. Check us out @itsneverjustsexpodcast at Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok. Cast: Anita Banks AKA Trinity Blake Diana Ryan, LPC, CST, ACC Jae Jizzle Jai AKA The Coach Brought to you by Wicked Apple Created by: Anita Banks AKA Trinity Blake Theme Song Produced By: Sir Tim Produced By: Jenny McGee, Gini Mascorro, Sam Damask Executive Producers: Joe Groves, Marla Watson

13. 

    11 Apr 2023

    Ep 05 - Loose Ends, Lessons Learned

    Is it ever really “no strings attached?” The finer points of fuck buddy boundary-setting, overstepping, and how mastering the transition in open settings makes for happier hookups. Check us out @itsneverjustsexpodcast at Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok. Cast: Anita Banks AKA Trinity Blake Diana Ryan, LPC, CST, ACC Jai AKA The Coach Brought to you by Wicked Apple Created by: Anita Banks AKA Trinity Blake Theme Song Produced By: Sir Tim Produced By: Jenny McGee, Gini Mascorro, Sam Damask Executive Producers: Joe Groves, Marla Watson

14. 

    28 Mar 2023

    Bonus Episode - Celebrating the Podcast Launch!

    Listen in as we get a little rowdy celebrating the launch of the podcast, International Penis Day, Steak and Blow Job Day, and Diana’s epic style. Check us out @itsneverjustsexpodcast at Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok. Cast: Anita Banks AKA Trinity Blake Diana Ryan, LPC, CST, ACC Jae Jizzle Jai AKA The Coach Brought to you by Wicked Apple Created by: Anita Banks AKA Trinity Blake Theme Song Produced By: Sir Tim Produced By: Jenny McGee, Gini Mascorro, Sam Damask Executive Producers: Joe Groves, Marla Watson

15. 

    28 Mar 2023

    Ep 04 - Body Count

    Special guest Mary joins Anita, Diana, and Jai to discuss the current obsession with body count, how men and women judge the number differently, why it does or doesn’t matter, and what types of encounters add to the total. Check us out @itsneverjustsexpodcast at Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok. Cast: Anita Banks AKA Trinity Blake Diana Ryan, LPC, CST, ACC Jai AKA The Coach Brought to you by Wicked Apple Created by: Anita Banks AKA Trinity Blake Theme Song Produced By: Sir Tim Produced By: Jenny McGee, Gini Mascorro, Sam Damask Executive Producers: Joe Groves, Marla Watson

16. 

    14 Mar 2023

    Ep 03 - Is It Gay For A Guy To Like His Ass Licked?

    Debating, debunking, and deconstructing the back door gambit with Anita Banks, aka Trinity Blake, and Dr. Diana Ryan. Check us out @itsneverjustsexpodcast at Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok. Cast: Anita Banks AKA Trinity Blake Diana Ryan LPC, CST, ACC Brought to you by Wicked Apple: Theme Song Produced By: Sir Tim Produced By: Jenny McGee, Gini Mascorro, Sam Damask Executive Producers: Joe Groves, Marla Watson

17. 

    14 Mar 2023

    Ep 01 - Future Sex Goals

    Anita and Diana welcome Jae and Jai as they discuss their sex goals for the future. Check us out @itsneverjustsexpodcast at Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok. Cast: Anita Banks AKA Trinity Blake Diana Ryan LPC, CST, ACC Jae Jizzle Jai AKA The Coach Brought to you by Wicked Apple: Theme Song Produced By: Sir Tim Produced By: Jenny McGee, Gini Mascorro, Sam Damask Executive Producers: Joe Groves, Marla Watson

18. 

    14 Mar 2023

    Ep 02 - An Empowering Conversation About Boundaries, Triggers, Trauma, and Consent

    Avoiding the landmines of lust by setting boundaries, creating rules for self, understanding triggers and trauma response, and being able to boldly grant and withdraw consent. Check us out @itsneverjustsexpodcast at Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok. Cast: Anita Banks AKA Trinity Blake Diana Ryan, LPC, CST, ACC Brought to you by Wicked Apple: Theme Song Produced By: Sir Tim Produced By: Jenny McGee, Gini Mascorro, Sam Damask Executive Producers: Joe Groves, Marla Watson

19. 

    7 Mar 2023

    An Introduction

    I’m the girl next door except my blinds are wide open. Join me and my uninhibited friends for uncensored, candid conversations about sex, life, and relationships. Real people, with a real sex therapist, discussing what works in and out of the bedroom. We get deep and intimate and everyone is invited, all lifestyles and preferences.

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