Having both dated narcissistic men, Chelsea Raque and Emily Iverson dive deeper into the personality disorder through their own personal experiences, rabbit hole research, and advice from therapists.
In part three of inside the mind of a Narcissist, Chelsea & Emily begin to discuss how to cope with the Narcissist in your life.
26 Apr 2021
16: Susie Sucks...sorry to anybody named Susie
This is their reality. This is their normal. This is how it should be. This is their world and we're just living in it, succumbing to their wants and needs 100% of the time. This is Part Two of inside the mind of a Narcissist.
19 Apr 2021
15: Punch Me in the Face and Tell Me I Suck
Ever wonder what a Narcissist is literally thinking? Do they actually mean what they're saying or are they just saying it? How they treat you... are they sincere in their feelings, their actions, and their reluctant apology? On this episode, Chelsea & Emily go inside the mind of a Narcissist.
12 Apr 2021
14: Drop Kick Him Off the Deck
In part three of Coming to Terms, Chelsea tells us the one boundary she had with Jack (it's a big one) and Emily shares the secret ingredient of what makes you a psycho bitch. Terms discussed: Boundaries, Narcissistic Supply in the form of Sleep Deprivation, Smear Campaign, & Grooming.
5 Apr 2021
13: You're a Zoologist Living in a Garbage Truck in New Zealand
Part Two of Coming to Terms: Emily & Chelsea cover the three stages of a Narcissistic relationship, and ––arguably–– the most effective tactic in keeping you in the relationship, Future Faking.
29 Mar 2021
12: Coming to Terms PT 1
Let's talk terms. We took a reddit thread on all things NPD and are matching it to our stories and other information we've come across. In this episode we cover: Cognitive Dissonance, Hoovering, & Love Bombing.
22 Mar 2021
11: Eat your Zinc!
In the second part of talking sabotage, Chelsea shares how Jack fed off her in the relationship (more Narcissistic Supply) and Emily has some sound life advice for everyone.
15 Mar 2021
10: Praise be to Baby Jesus
We're talking sabotage. How did your Narcissist sabotage you in the relationship? Was it a slow or quick burn? The worst part? You only know the sabotage exists when you get out of the kitchen (pun kind of intended).
8 Mar 2021
9: Double is A Lot Less than Single
Emily nails down why Chelsea wrote letters to Jack which poses the question: was it enough? Will anything you do or anything you say ever be enough?... Will YOU ever be enough?
28 Feb 2021
8: Half of that is Scrap Metal
The end of the ABC's of TLC for our NPD boys. Emily shares her experience and Chelsea leaves us on a cliffhanger.
22 Feb 2021
7: Grace & Frugal
How did your Narcissist liked to be cared for? Hint: it has nothing to do with love languages.
15 Feb 2021
6: Their Cover Story
They have their shit together. They are the life of the party. Their charisma and charm have you in a tail spin. We are talking grandiosity: exaggeration, big gestures, altruism; everything they do, they do in a big way, and everyone loves them for it.
11 Feb 2021
5: Gaslighting Part 2
Two more signs your partner may be gaslighting you are if (1) you have a sense that something is wrong but aren't able to identify what it is and (2) you make excuses for your partner's behavior.
8 Feb 2021
4: Gaslighting Part 1
Gaslighting does not boil down to any one fight. It is the accumulation of all fights that sum up to your partner making you feel crazy. Chelsea and Emily begin this roller coaster with some of the signs to watch out for: (1) you no longer feel like the person you used to be, (2) you feel more anxious and less confident, (3) you often wonder if you're being too sensitive, (4) you feel like everything you do is wrong (i.e. your fault), and (5) you're apologizing often.
1 Feb 2021
3: Day One
How you know you're not with the right person: Day One.
1 Feb 2021
2: How Chelsea Met Jack
He's the perfect man... or is he? This is the story of how Chelsea met Jack.
22 Jan 2021
1: What is a Narcissist?
"Narcissist" is often used loosely when describing someone's "bad" character traits. We're giving you the cold hard truth of the word and how, at the of the day, It's Not Your Fault.
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