超越单向输出，超越朋友圈点赞关系的探索，这是由雯子、美玲、豆浆三个人发起的社交实验。每周，我们将基于共同感兴趣的议题发起一场结构化聊天，致力让知识与资讯既经由「我们」之所、又不囿于个体经验。 我们的口号是：鼓励即兴、不批评撤退。
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超越单向输出，超越朋友圈点赞关系的探索，这是由雯子、美玲、豆浆三个人发起的社交实验。每周，我们将基于共同感兴趣的议题发起一场结构化聊天，致力让知识与资讯既经由「我们」之所、又不囿于个体经验。 我们的口号是：鼓励即兴、不批评撤退。
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August 25, 2022
Vol.14 即兴标签：始终重要的是看见标签背后的人
<p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>听完上期谈「性别对立」的节目之后，雯子的多年网友 @日天 说想一起聊聊关于“贴标签”的内容，引起这个话题背后的事件看似是又一次一小撮人的互联网“狂欢”，但实际上背后有很多现象和细节值得我们去思考和玩味。</span></p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>本期我们<span>从"蟹蟹梨事件"开始说起，聊聊给人贴标签是不是刻在两脚兽基因里的自然冲动？女性一般会被贴啥标签，男性一般会被贴上啥标签？这些标签背后隐含的文化符号是什么，贴标签这件事给人带来的困扰和后果会是什么？</span></span></p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><strong style="color:#FC5832;word-break:break-all;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;font-weight: normal;"><span>提示：</span></strong><span>本期的嘉宾和雯子都是游戏、漫画、动画爱好者，两个老朋友聊天难免会聊到一些容易让人摸不着头脑的游戏和动漫梗，在此先向听众道歉。我们会将与话题有关的内容提到的内容列在Shownotes最后。当然，如果你实在好奇，可以先搜索再留言，我们很高兴和你聊聊。</span><span><br></span></p><br><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>本期嘉宾</span><br></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>ACG爱好者 模型爱好者 新媒体从业者</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>@<strong style="color:#FC5832;word-break:break-all;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;font-weight: normal;">日天</strong></span></p><span><br></span><span><br></span><p data-flag="subtitle" style="font-size:17px;line-height:30px;margin:10px 0px;color:#333333;font-weight:900;"><span><span>Show Notes </span></span></p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span><strong style="color:#FC5832;word-break:break-all;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;font-weight: normal;">part 1 <strong style="color:#FC5832;word-break:break-all;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;font-weight: normal;"><strong style="color:#FC5832;word-break:break-all;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;font-weight: normal;">�</strong></strong></strong></span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span><strong style="color:#FC5832;word-break:break-all;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;font-weight: normal;">一个</strong><strong style="color:#FC5832;word-break:break-all;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;font-weight: normal;">蟹蟹梨</strong><strong style="color:#FC5832;word-break:break-all;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;font-weight: normal;">事件</strong></span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>1:46 一个蟹蟹梨事件</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>5:58 活的“耶路撒冷”</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>9:27 只是我们老了冲不动浪了？</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>15:00 <span>又一场男性凝视下的</span><span>互联网狂欢</span><br></span></p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><strong style="color:#FC5832;word-break:break-all;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;font-weight: normal;"><span>part 2 <strong style="color:#FC5832;word-break:break-all;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;font-weight: normal;"><span>�️</span></strong></span></strong></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><strong style="color:#FC5832;word-break:break-all;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;font-weight: normal;"><span>贴标签保护了谁？又伤害了谁</span></strong><br></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>19:30 贴标签可以堵住想要认真表达的窗口</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span><span>21:37 过往我们都被贴过什么标签</span></span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span><span>26:38 贴标签是划分自己和他者的方法</span></span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span><span>30:00 我们身上的标签来自他人和自己，更来自于社会建构</span></span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span><span>32:38 标签是一种优秀高效的分类手段，但问题是怎么用它<br></span></span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span><span><span>36:30 标签帮助我们快速</span><span>对不熟悉的事物建立认知</span><br></span></span></p><span><br></span><span><strong style="color:#FC5832;word-break:break-all;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;font-weight: normal;"><p data-flag="normal" style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;"><span><strong style="color:#FC5832;word-break:break-all;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;font-weight: normal;"><span>part 3 �</span></strong></span></p><p data-flag="normal" style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;"><span><strong style="color:#FC5832;word-break:break-all;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;font-weight: normal;"><span>标签不可怕，看不到标签后面的人才可怕</span></strong></span></p></strong></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>39:20 当一个人和一类人单纯被标签定义，标签后的人就会被忽略</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>40:00 一个坏标签或许能影响一个行业的发展，或者一个人的自我认知</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>46:05 “贤妻良母”这个标签怎样变成了一种对女性的限制</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span><span>51:00 看到标签背后的人有超越标签的人性，而不是反过来觉得“人设崩塌”</span></span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span><span><span>56:10 标签是一种语言，而语言的含义是在不断</span>地<span>变化的</span></span></span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span><span>1:08:23 面对标签，生气之前或许可以先澄清一下概念</span></span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span><span>1:11:39 归根结底还是需要同理心，看到标签之前先看到人</span></span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span><span>1:15:16 保持善良，交流之前还是先把对方当个人吧 <br><br></span></span></p><span><br></span><p style="font-size:17px;line-height:30px;margin:10px 0px;color:#333333;font-weight:900;" data-flag="subtitle"><span><span>References</span></span></p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><strong style="color:#FC5832;word-break:break-all;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;font-weight: normal;"><span>* 一个蟹蟹梨事件</span></strong></p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><strong style="color:#FC5832;word-break:break-all;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;font-weight: normal;"><span>* 《异世界归来的舅舅》</span></strong></p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><strong style="color:#FC5832;word-break:break-all;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;font-weight: normal;"><span>* 小红书相亲事件</span></strong></p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><strong style="color:#FC5832;word-break:break-all;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;font-weight: normal;"><span>* 宫崎勤事件</span></strong></p><span><br></span><span><br></span><p style="font-size:14px;line-height:24px;color:#999999;word-break:break-all;font-weight:normal;" data-flag="backup"><strong style="color:#FC5832;word-break:break-all;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;font-weight: normal;">Music</strong><strong style="color:#FC5832;word-break:break-all;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;font-weight: normal;"><br></strong></p><p style="font-size:14px;line-height:24px;color:#999999;word-break:break-all;font-weight:normal;" data-flag="backup"><span><span> OP: </span></span><span>Final Fantasy VII-Tifa's Theme (Pianoピアノ）- ChaconneScott ACG on Piano</span></p><p style="font-size:14px;line-height:24px;color:#999999;word-break:break-all;font-weight:normal;" data-flag="backup"><span><span> ED</span></span><span>:</span><span> Eye's on me - Faye Wang</span></p><span><br></span><span><br></span><p data-flag="backup" style="font-size:14px;line-height:24px;color:#999999;word-break:break-all;"><span><strong style="color:#FC5832;word-break:break-all;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;font-weight: normal;">封面图片</strong></span></p><p style="font-size:14px;line-height:24px;color:#999999;word-break:break-all;font-weight:normal;" data-flag="backup"><span><span>素材：<span>Final </span><span>Fantasy VII Remake </span></span></span><span><span>INTERGRADE</span></span><span><span> 游戏截图<br></span></span></p><p style="font-size:14px;line-height:24px;color:#999999;word-break:break-all;font-weight:normal;" data-flag="backup"><span><span>制作：王雯子</span></span></p><br>
June 27, 2022
Vol.13 即兴回归：从男女“对立”到性别教育
<p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>随着又一起针对女性的恶性暴力事件的发生，性别议题的讨论在原本就火热的今天又被推向一个新的高点。但是我们发现身边的一些朋友也在担心“男女对立”的问题，我想和TA们聊一聊,听听TA们的担心和关心。</span></p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>面对现在的舆论氛围，你的担心和感受是什么？</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>你从什么时候开始有这样的感受和担心的？</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>你觉得在你的生活中和你的感受上受到了什么样影响吗？</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>【本期嘉宾】潜艇，家有一男宝，学习性教育ing. <span>公众号：泥蜻蜓（诈尸式更新）</span></span></p><span><br></span><blockquote style="font-size:14px;margin:10px 0px;color:rgb(102, 102, 102);border-left:5px solid rgb(232, 232, 232);padding-left:15px;"><p style="color:#666666;font-size:14px;" data-flag="bk-span"><span data-flag="bk-span" style="color:#666666;font-size:14px;">妈妈的身份让我更关心下一代，近期关于性教育的学习和关注，也让我有了更多性别视角的思考与体悟。努力保持思考，希望成为温和而有力量的人。</span></p></blockquote><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal">【关键词】性教育 性别气质 舆论环境 </p><span><br></span><p style="font-size:17px;line-height:30px;margin:10px 0px;color:#333333;font-weight:900;" data-flag="subtitle"><b><i>ShowNote</i></b></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;"><span>part 1</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><strong style="color:#FC5832;word-break:break-all;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;font-weight: normal;"><i>我们在担心什么？</i></strong></p><p data-flag="normal" style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;"><strong style="color:#FC5832;word-break:break-all;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;font-weight: normal;">04:05 担心“男女对立”，我们到底在担心什么？</strong></p><p data-flag="normal" style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;"><strong style="color:#FC5832;word-break:break-all;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;font-weight: normal;">05:19 “下定义”“扣帽子”的方式将可以变成盟友的男性推得更远</strong></p><p data-flag="normal" style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;"><strong style="color:#FC5832;word-break:break-all;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;font-weight: normal;">08:09 男生女生都产生了不安全感</strong></p><span><br></span><strong style="color:#FC5832;word-break:break-all;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;font-weight: normal;"><strong style="color:#FC5832;word-break:break-all;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;font-weight: normal;"><i>part 2</i></strong></strong><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><strong style="color:#FC5832;word-break:break-all;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;font-weight: normal;"><strong style="color:#FC5832;word-break:break-all;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;font-weight: normal;"><i>性教育的很重要一部分是性别教育</i></strong></strong></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal">10:00 赋权型性教育：性的去污名化+破除错误的性别观念<br></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>13:12赋权：</span><span>每个人知道如何做出对自己和对他人都负责任的选择</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>14:55 一些具体案例和场景</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>17:13 我们如何建构更好的性别观念？</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>19:50 一些关于性别气质建构的例子</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal">27:33 我们需要更好的性教育，也需要更好的性别教育</p><br><strong style="color:#FC5832;word-break:break-all;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;font-weight: normal;"><p data-flag="normal" style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;"><strong style="color:#FC5832;word-break:break-all;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;font-weight: normal;">part 3</strong></p><p data-flag="normal" style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;"><strong style="color:#FC5832;word-break:break-all;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;font-weight: normal;">无论男女，都是在结构下被压迫的存在</strong></p></strong><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal">29:15 性别公平和性别“特权”</p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>33:00 不公无处不在，我们需要努力看到这些不公</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>36:44 从言传身教的方式开始教育</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>38:49 强调男性的性别特权会压缩男女沟通的空间</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>43:17 创造更好的非暴力沟通环境，拒绝更极端的舆论环境</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>45:01 不要把舆论的声音当成真正的声音，要回到生活中来理性的对话</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>54:11 个体可以力所能及地采取行动，支持女性</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal">56:52 男性理解女生的愤怒与恐惧，能促进彼此之间的对话而不是对立</p><span><br></span><p style="font-size:17px;line-height:30px;margin:10px 0px;color:#333333;font-weight:900;" data-flag="subtitle"><span><i>References </i></span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="subtitle"><span>潜艇推荐的「性教育书单」</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="subtitle"><span>《<span>家庭性教育16讲》</span></span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="subtitle"><span><span>《赋权型性教育——给孩子好的性教育》</span></span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="subtitle"><span><span>《从尿布到约会</span><span>》</span><br></span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="subtitle"><span><img data-key="0" src="http://imagev2.xmcdn.com/storages/de0d-audiofreehighqps/96/B8/GMCoOSUGj3cZAAHjDwFzKJlS.jpeg!op_type=4&device_type=ios&upload_type=attachment&name=mobile_large" alt="" data-origin="http://imagev2.xmcdn.com/storages/de0d-audiofreehighqps/96/B8/GMCoOSUGj3cZAAHjDwFzKJlS.jpeg?op_type=0" data-large="http://imagev2.xmcdn.com/storages/de0d-audiofreehighqps/96/B8/GMCoOSUGj3cZAAHjDwFzKJlS.jpeg!op_type=4&device_type=ios&upload_type=attachment&name=mobile_large" data-large-width="750" data-large-height="561.9140625" data-preview="http://imagev2.xmcdn.com/storages/de0d-audiofreehighqps/96/B8/GMCoOSUGj3cZAAHjDwFzKJlS.jpeg!op_type=4&device_type=ios&upload_type=attachment&name=mobile_small" data-preview-width="140" data-preview-height="104.890625"><br></span></p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>沈奕斐：唐山打人事件，我更担心的是...</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><a target="_blank" style="color:#4990E2;text-decoration:none;"><span>我一个男的，到底有什么与生俱来的特权？</span></a></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><a target="_blank" style="color:#4990E2;text-decoration:none;"><span>有毒的「男性气质」 ，毒女人也毒男人</span></a></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><img data-key="1" src="http://imagev2.xmcdn.com/storages/863b-audiofreehighqps/E4/86/GMCoOScGjwJMAANAFwFy48Bm.jpeg!op_type=4&device_type=ios&upload_type=attachment&name=mobile_large" alt="" data-origin="http://imagev2.xmcdn.com/storages/863b-audiofreehighqps/E4/86/GMCoOScGjwJMAANAFwFy48Bm.jpeg?op_type=0" data-large="http://imagev2.xmcdn.com/storages/863b-audiofreehighqps/E4/86/GMCoOScGjwJMAANAFwFy48Bm.jpeg!op_type=4&device_type=ios&upload_type=attachment&name=mobile_large" data-large-width="750" data-large-height="886.3636363636364" data-preview="http://imagev2.xmcdn.com/storages/863b-audiofreehighqps/E4/86/GMCoOScGjwJMAANAFwFy48Bm.jpeg!op_type=4&device_type=ios&upload_type=attachment&name=mobile_small" data-preview-width="140" data-preview-height="165.45454545454547"><br></p>
October 1, 2021
Vol.12 即兴走读：「做喜欢的事情」是温柔又残酷的历程，但我愿做十年二十年
<p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>本期的对谈嘉宾是@其林，城市空间走读者，一个长年从事写作的人。</span></p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><b>豆浆按：</b>好几年前，我和其林结识于一个写作社群，后来还成为了同事；在北京出差的短短一瞥，其林拉着我到楼下的饺子馆，蘸着醋谈萧红。今年五月，我听闻她正在开展个人的研究项目，走了一些城市、读关于建筑/空间/城市的书籍；当然，同时也在写作。九月，我们终于连线，从「读城」的话题开始。我们的这场对话从物理的客观世界、行至「写作」这一精神活动，最后落到个体存在的哲学……结尾的时候我竟泛起泪花（天呐要一个紧闭的金牛座承认这这点多不容易！</p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>当时，我们是开着视频同时通话录音的。但我感到自己无须掩饰、可以坦然抽纸巾去擦眼角。</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>因为，我所面对的是一个如此真诚袒露到勇敢的探索者。</span></p><span><br></span><p data-flag="normal" style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;"><span>致其林和我</span></p><p data-flag="normal" style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;">致这慈悲而又残酷的年岁 *离我们上次公开更新已过了一年！</p><p data-flag="backup" style="line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;">致这些年总没有放弃追寻自己内在声音的朋友们。</p><span><br><br></span><p data-flag="subtitle" style="font-size:17px;line-height:30px;margin:10px 0px;color:#333333;font-weight:900;"><span>ShowNote</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal">01:55 其林开始探索「读城·空间·建筑」的契机是什么</p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal">18:00 在景观同质化面前，开启观察视角是一种反向的凝视</p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal">26:00 复兴博物学的传统，能让我们回归学习的本初</p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal">36:42 迂回的感性经验是理性冰山下方的巨大底盘</p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal">42:45 那时候，我感受到了自己与脚下的土地，终于有了连接感</p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal">48:25 20分钟内什么都不做，只用眼睛看，你能得到多少有意思的描述！</p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal">53:00 想让我们的下一代重拾乡音，直接经验的缺位足以构成缺憾吗</p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>1:12:00 你不要太自大了，你为什么觉得你拥有的那些就比他的好</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>1:14:00 你触达了一种语言、你就进入了那个世界（也是从从这里开始，谈话进入了更玄妙的场域…</span></p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>1:20:00 走读城市的人类学工作方法：撇步！如何遁入平日里不向外人开放的区域</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>1:30:00 哪怕我瘫痪了，我依然可以观察自己的万千念头</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>1:40:00 写作者的勇敢，是历经一个个残酷又温柔的心魔阶段</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>1:54:00 在车轮滚滚的红绿灯面前，只有我自己知道鞋子里有一颗小石子</span></p><span><br></span><hr style="border:0px;margin:20px 0px;background:#ddd;display:inline-block;width:100%;border-style:solid;height:1px;"><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><strong style="color:#FC5832;word-break:break-all;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;font-weight: normal;"><span>一个勘误</span></strong></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><strong style="color:#FC5832;word-break:break-all;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;font-weight: normal;"><span><span>新京报书评周刊依然还在，只是以电子刊物的形态存在。内容比从前更加精彩！</span><br></span></strong></p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><strong style="color:#FC5832;word-break:break-all;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;font-weight: normal;">背景音乐：Beat Thee</strong></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal">Written by <a target="_blank" style="color:#4990E2;text-decoration:none;"><span>Alexander Nakarada</span></a>. Added January, 2020. This music is available for commercial and non-commercial purposes.</p><span><br></span><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>References</span><span><strong style="color:#FC5832;word-break:break-all;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;font-weight: normal;"><strong style="color:#FC5832;word-break:break-all;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;font-weight: normal;"> 其林推荐了一些书</strong></strong></span><br></p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span><a target="_blank" style="color:#4990E2;text-decoration:none;"><span>西方经典</span><span>｜</span></a>《建筑的永恒之道》《肉体与石头》《建筑的模式语言》</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span><a target="_blank" style="color:#4990E2;text-decoration:none;"><span>延伸阅读</span><span>｜</span></a>《城市读本》《文明中的城市》、《看不见的城市》《小城市空间的社会生活》 《公共生活研究方法》</span></p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>纽约生死</span><span> 邱小石推荐</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>* 主题书：《美国大城市的死与生》（简·雅各布斯 / 金衡山 / 译林出版社）</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>* 延展阅读：《美国城市的文明化》、《癫狂的纽约》、《人行道王国》</span></p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>城与市</span><span> 杨早推荐</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>* 主题书：《蒙元入侵前夜的中国日常生活》（谢和耐/江苏人民出版社）</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>* 延展阅读：《东京梦华录》、《马可波罗游记》、《陶庵梦忆》、《宋代城市研究》、《走向开放的城市：宋代东京街市研究》</span></p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>现代化</span><span> 杨早</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>* 主题书：《首都计划》（南京出版社）</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>* 延展阅读：《伪满洲国首都规划》《街头文化》《汉口》</span></p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>读历史</span><span>：杨早</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>* 主题书：《中国都市史》（斯波义信/北京大学出版社）</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>* 延展阅读：《城记》、《中国的城市生活》、《中国古代建筑师》</span></p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>其他</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>《向日本城市学习》《东大爸爸写给我的日本史》</span></p><br><span><br></span>
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