Hello，大家最近还好吗？转眼已经到秋天了，好久没有来跟大家聊天了（抱歉）。今天想跟大家聊聊纽约时报在2006年发布的婚前15问，虽然是10多年前的文章了，但问题放到现在看也还是很relevant，直击婚姻的基础面。希望大家喜欢这期真诚的分享聊天，如果喜欢请给我们点赞或留言告诉我们。我们也把这15个问题放在了下面，欢迎大家留言跟我们分享你们的想法和观点哟。
1) Have we discussed whether or not to have children, and if the answer is yes, who is going to be the primary care giver?
我们要不要孩子？如果要，主要由谁负责？
2) Do we have a clear idea of each other’s financial obligations and goals, and do our ideas about spending and saving mesh?
我们的赚钱能力及目标是什么？消费观及储蓄观会不会发生冲突？
3) Have we discussed our expectations for how the household will be maintained, and are we in agreement on who will manage the chores?
我们的家庭如何维持？由谁来掌握可能出现的风险？
4) Have we fully disclosed our health histories, both physical and mental?
我们有没有详尽地交换过双方的疾病史？包括精神上的。
5) Is my partner affectionate to the degree that I expect?
我们父母的态度有没有达到我们的预期？会不会给足够的祝福？
6) Can we comfortably and openly discuss our sexual needs, preferences and fears?
我们有没有自然、坦诚地说出自己的性需求、性的偏好及恐惧？
7) Will there be a television in the bedroom?
卧室能放电视机吗？
8) Do we truly listen to each other and fairly consider one another’s ideas and complaints?
我们真的能倾听对方诉说，并公平对待对方的想法和抱怨吗？
9) Have we reached a clear understanding of each other’s spiritual beliefs and needs, and have we discussed when and how our children will be exposed to religious/moral education?
我们清晰地了解对方的精神需求及信仰吗？我们讨论过孩子将来的信仰问题吗？
10) Do we like and respect each other’s friends?
我们喜欢并尊重对方的朋友吗？
11) Do we value and respect each other’s parents, and is either of us concerned about whether the parents will interfere with the relationship?
我们能不能看重并尊敬对方的父母？我们有没考虑到父母可能会干涉我们的关系？
12) What does my family do that annoys you?
我的家族最让你心烦的事情是什么？
13) Are there some things that you and I are NOT prepared to give up in the marriage?
我们永远不会因为婚姻放弃的东西是什么？
14) If one of us were to be offered a career opportunity in a location far from the other’s family, are we prepared to move?
如果我们中的一人需要离开其家族所在地陪同另一人到外地工作，做得到吗？
15) Does each of us feel fully confident in the other’s commitment to the marriage and believe that the bond can survive whatever challenges we may face?
我们是不是充满信心面对任何挑战使婚姻一直往前走？
From: Rere & Bella
Music | 音乐：
《Night Run Away》- An Jone
11 Aug 2021
Ep5. Rere和贝拉的不定期·影视分享
Hello 大家，拖更但不断更的Rere和Isabella来报道了！
这期想要跟大家分享吐槽我们近期看过的一些影视剧集，希望大家听的开心！
As always 欢迎大家跟我们分享吐槽你们看过的电影电视剧综艺呀～
P.S., 贝拉被Rere种草，熬夜看完了东城梦魇。
Music: An Jone | Night Run Away
Hello大家，这期播客我们两个断舍离小白想跟大家分享我们在过去这一年为了断舍离都做了些什么以及一些感悟。希望大家喜欢！也欢迎大家跟我们分享你们的断舍离经验和小技巧呀！�
Music | 音乐：
《Mosswood》Steve Adams
21 May 2021
Ep2. 不录了？！九点开播就遇危机｜什么是你内心最深的恐惧？你够了解自己吗？
普鲁斯特问卷（Proust Questionnaire）是一种用来调查被提问者个人生活方式、价值观、人生经验等问题的调查问卷，是19世纪在流行于英国法国上流社会和中产阶级间的一种会客的游戏（Parlour game）。这个问卷后来好像被传了几个版本，但都大同小异，我们今天用的是名利场杂志的版本，一共有35题。这期播客跟大家分享一下我们的答案，但都仅代表我们个人想法，大家轻松的听听就好，希望你们喜欢，也欢迎大家跟我们分享你们的答案哟！
__1.__What is your idea of perfect happiness?
你认为最完美的幸福/开心是怎样的？
__2.__What is your greatest fear?
你最大的恐惧是什么？
__3.__What is the trait you most deplore in yourself?
你最痛恨自己哪些特质？
__4.__What is the trait you most deplore in others?
你最痛恨别人的什么特点？
__5.__Which living person do you most admire?
还在世的人中你最欣赏谁？
__6.__What is your greatest extravagance?
你最大的奢侈/奢侈品是什么？
__7.__What is your current state of mind?
你目前的心境是怎么样的？
__8.__What do you consider the most overrated virtue?
你认为哪种美德被过高的评价了？
__9.__On what occasion do you lie?
你什么情况下会撒谎？
__10.__What do you most dislike about your appearance?
你对自己的外表哪一点最不满意？
__11.__Which living person do you most despise?
还在世的人中你最鄙视谁？
__12.__What is the quality you most like in a man?
你最喜欢男性身上的什么品质？
__13.__What is the quality you most like in a woman?
你最喜欢/欣赏女性身上的什么品质？
__14.__Which words or phrases do you most overuse?
你最过度使用的单词或短语是什么？
__15.__What or who is the greatest love of your life?
何人或何物是你此生最爱？
__16.__When and where were you happiest?
你在什么时候或什么地方是最开心的？or 何时何地你最开心？
__17.__Which talent would you most like to have?
你最想拥有什么天赋/才能？
__18.__If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be?
如果你能改变自己的一件事或一个点，那会是什么？
__19.__What do you consider your greatest achievement?
你认为自己最大的成就是什么？
__20.__If you were to die and come back as a person or a thing, what would it be?
如果有来生，你可以转世成为一个人或一样物品，会是什么？
__21.__Where would you most like to live?
你最想的要在哪里生活？或住在哪里？
__22.__What is your most treasured possession?
你最珍贵的财产是什么？
__23.__What do you regard as the lowest depth of misery?
你认为程度最浅的痛苦是什么？
__24.__What is your favorite occupation?
你最喜欢的职业是什么？
__25.__What is your most marked characteristic?
你最显著的特点是什么？
__26.__What do you most value in your friends?
你最看重朋友的哪些特点/特质？
__27.__Who are your favorite writers?
谁是你最喜欢的作家？
__28.__Who is your hero of fiction?
你心中虚拟世界里的英雄是谁？也有人翻译成小说里的英雄
__29.__Which historical figure do you most identify with?
你最认同的历史人物是谁？
__30.__Who are your heroes in real life?
谁是你现实生活里的英雄？
__31.__What are your favorite names?
你最喜欢的名字是什么？
__32.__What is it that you most dislike?
你最不喜欢什么？
__33.__What is your greatest regret?
你最大的遗憾是什么？
__34.__How would you like to die?
你想以何种方式死去？
__35.__What is your motto?
你人生的座右铭是什么？
Music | 音乐：
《Mosswood》Steve Adams
27 Apr 2021
Ep1. 我们来了｜金融白领和自媒体人的灵魂切磋｜分享工作日常及找工作不踩雷干货
我们来了！《九点》播客的第一期。
临近毕业季，首先想要先恭喜即将毕业的小伙伴，马上要步入人生的新章节了！作为三十而已的两位大龄女青年，从事自由职业的博主Regina和早九晚五的上班族贝拉想跟大家分享一下自己过去找工作的经历和这几年在工作中的一些日常及感悟，希望能给在面临职业选择的小伙伴一些鼓励和帮助。希望大家喜欢！这是我们的第一期播客，如果有什么不足，希望大家包涵，如果有些什么建议和意见，非常欢迎大家给我们留言。那我们就下期播客再见咯！
Music | 音乐：
《Mosswood》Steve Adams
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