Joy Revenge

About Joy Revenge

Joy Revenge is a mental health and healing podcast for highly sensitive people, deep feelers, caregivers, and cycle breakers who want to reclaim joy while healing from grief, burnout, childhood wounds, and difficult life experiences. Hosted by licensed marriage and family therapist and registered play therapist Angelique Foye-Fletcher, alongside co-host and producer Jordan Alford, each episode combines honest conversations, real-life stories, practical tools, and the Four Pillars of Healing: Connection, Nature, Play, and Books. Created for people who experience big emotions, care deeply, or feel exhausted by survival mode, Joy Revenge explores inner-child healing, grief, rest, boundaries, relationships, emotional wellness, nervous-system regulation, and joy as an act of resistance. Because humans learn and heal through stories, each episode also draws meaningful lessons from books and lived experiences. Joy Revenge helps you understand your emotions without judgment, reconnect with yourself, and build a life that feels safer, more meaningful, and more joyful. Produced by Strategic Visions JD LLC

Publisher

Angelique Foye-Fletcher

Category

health & fitness · kids & family

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

20 Jul 2026

Latest episode

30 Oct 2026

Latest episodes

7 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   30 Oct 2026

   The Art of Escape

   The Art of Escape: Burnout, Rest Guilt & Restorative Rituals | Joy Revenge Ep. 6 Have you ever been so tired that sleep didn’t fix it? Not sleepy. Soul tired. In Episode 6 of Joy Revenge, Jordan Alford and therapist Angelique Foye-Fletcher explore burnout, emotional exhaustion, rest guilt, and the difference between escaping stress and truly restoring yourself. Inspired by We Will Rest!: The Art of Escape by Tricia Hersey, this conversation challenges hustle culture and the belief that rest must be earned. From Chicago getaways during graduate school to seaside walks in England, Angelique shares how escape evolved into intentional presence. Expect honest reflections, gentle callouts about doomscrolling, and practical tools for mindfulness, nervous system regulation, and everyday self-care—without waiting for your next vacation. Whether you’re parenting, caregiving, leading, or building a business, this episode invites you to rest before exhaustion makes the decision for you. In this episode: • Burnout and rest guilt: Taking a break before everything is finished. • Rest versus escapism: Recognizing when scrolling, shopping, or overworking leaves you distracted rather than restored. • Grounding and mindfulness: A 5-4-3-2-1 sensory exercise for practicing presence. • Rest and relationships: How rest influences the way we parent, lead, love, and communicate. • Restorative routines: Making space for prayer, quiet, reading, journaling, and play. • Daily rituals: Finding moments to recharge between vacations and deadlines. Pour your tea, settle in after your shower, or make this your Sunday reset. Your to-do list doesn’t have to be finished before you pause. The Joy Revenge Framework Book: We Will Rest!: The Art of Escape Author: Tricia Hersey Revenge Theme: Rest as Revolution Questions to consider: • Am I avoiding my life—or returning to myself? • What leaves me restored rather than distracted? • Where am I waiting for permission to rest? Takeaway: Intentional rest is revenge on every season when you only stopped because you collapsed. This Week’s Invitation Choose one small ritual: a quiet cup of tea, a phone-free pause, a slow walk, reading, or journaling. Make room for it before everything else is done. Continue the Conversation Share this episode with someone who could use permission to rest. Explore the Joy Revenge Book List (https://foyefletchertherapy.com/new-page). Schedule a free 15-minute consultation at foyefletchertherapy.com (https://foyefletchertherapy.com/). Therapy is available in Missouri and Kansas, with coaching options outside those states. Subscribe, follow, and leave a five-star rating and written review to help others discover Joy Revenge. 📧 Questions, speaking inquiries, or episode suggestions? joyrevengepodcast@gmail.com (mailto:joyrevengepodcast@gmail.com) Content Note Includes discussion of burnout, emotional exhaustion, caregiving, productivity pressure, and brief adult reading references. Joy Revenge is educational and does not replace therapy, diagnosis, or individualized mental health treatment. Produced by Strategic Visions JD LLC. #JoyRevenge #BurnoutRecovery #RestAsResistance #RestGuilt #NervousSystemRegulation #IntentionalRest #EmotionalWellness #TheArtOfEscape

2. 

   1 Oct 2026

   Play Is Discipline

   EPISODE 5 — PLAY IS DISCIPLINE What if discipline were less about control—and more about connection? In Episode 5 of Joy Revenge, therapist and registered play therapist Angelique Foye-Fletcher and co-host Jordan Alford explore positive parenting, play therapy, co-regulation, and discipline without shame. Inspired by No-Drama Discipline by Daniel J. Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson, this episode explains why children need to feel safe and connected before they can learn from correction. Angelique discusses the upstairs and downstairs brain, navigating public meltdowns, how children borrow an adult’s calm, and why play supports emotional regulation and healthy child development. The conversation also examines generational parenting patterns, physical punishment, neurodivergence, and the difference between discipline and punishment. Because offering compassion to children is revenge on every moment when a child was disciplined instead of understood. In This Episode Discipline versus punishment Why connection must come before correction How children borrow an adult’s emotional regulation The upstairs brain, downstairs brain, and survival responses How family patterns shape our reactions to emotions What play therapy is—and why it is more than playing with toys How a parent’s words become a child’s inner voice Co-regulation versus control Positive discipline for neurodivergent children Why repair matters when parents lose their composure How play supports healthy child development Practical Reminders Regulate yourself before trying to regulate a child. Lower your voice, slow your pace, and get on the child’s level. Ask what the behavior may be communicating. Set expectations before entering challenging environments. Repair the relationship when you make a mistake. Use play to teach skills, boundaries, values, and emotional language. Questions to Sit With What did discipline mean in my childhood? Did I feel taught, controlled, punished, or understood? How did my family respond to strong emotions? What inner voice am I helping a child develop? Am I responding to the child in front of me—or reacting from my own childhood? What would discipline look like if connection were the starting point? Joy Revenge Framework Book: No-Drama Discipline: The Whole-Brain Way to Calm the Chaos and Nurture Your Child’s Developing Mind by Daniel J. Siegel, M.D., and Tina Payne Bryson, Ph.D. Revenge Theme: Play as Resistance Takeaway: Connect before you correct. Continue the Conversation Send this episode to a parent, caregiver, educator, or therapist who wants to replace control and shame with connection and co-regulation. Explore the Joy Revenge Book List (https://foyefletchertherapy.com/new-page), subscribe to the show, follow us on social media, and leave a five-star rating. Schedule a free 15-minute consultation with Angelique at foyefletchertherapy.com (http://www.foyefletchertherapy.com/). Therapy is available in Missouri and Kansas, with coaching options outside those states. Questions or reflections? Email joyrevengepodcast@gmail.com (mailto:joyrevengepodcast@gmail.com). Content Note This episode discusses physical punishment, childhood discipline, public meltdowns, generational parenting patterns, emotional dysregulation, and neurodivergence. Please listen with care. Joy Revenge is an educational resource and is not a replacement for therapy, diagnosis, or individualized mental-health treatment.

3. 

   10 Sept 2026

   Boundaries with a Capital "B"

   What if your inability to say “no” isn’t kindness—but a survival response you learned before you were old enough to name it? In Episode 4 of the Joy Revenge Podcast, Jordan Alford and therapist Angelique Foye-Fletcher unpack the hidden cost of people-pleasing, over-functioning, and always being “the strong one.” Through candid reflections on marriage, therapy, eldest-daughter pressure, faith, family expectations, and hustle culture, they explore why boundaries can feel selfish—even when they are essential to your well-being. Inspired by Nedra Glover Tawwab’s Set Boundaries, Find Peace, Jordan and Angelique explain the difference between healthy, porous, and rigid boundaries while offering practical language for protecting your time, energy, relationships, finances, and mental health. Because boundaries aren’t barriers. Sometimes, they are how you breathe again. In This Episode Why people-pleasing can become a trauma response The difference between healthy, porous, and rigid boundaries How over-functioning becomes part of your identity Why eldest daughters and caregivers often struggle to rest How family, faith, race, and culture shape our boundaries Why guilt doesn’t automatically mean your boundary is wrong How to respond when someone repeatedly tests your limits The difference between supporting someone and absorbing their pain Practical scripts for difficult conversations How boundaries help break generational cycles Ask yourself: Who am I when I’m not producing, helping, or performing? Where am I saying yes when I genuinely want to say no? What will it cost me to continue overextending myself? Am I being a mirror for someone’s emotions—or becoming their container? Which relationships only work when I abandon myself? Joy Revenge Framework Book: Set Boundaries, Find Peace: A Guide to Reclaiming Yourself by Nedra Glover Tawwab Revenge Theme: Boundaries as Survival Takeaway: The word “no” is liberation for the child who never had permission to rest. This episode’s Joy Revenge is retiring over-functioning as a badge of honor and reclaiming your right to rest, speak clearly, and protect your peace. Continue the Conversation Send this episode to someone learning to communicate clearly and take up space without apology. Explore the Joy Revenge Book List (https://foyefletchertherapy.com/new-page), subscribe, follow the show, and leave a five-star rating. Schedule a free 15-minute consultation with Angelique at foyefletchertherapy.com (http://foyefletchertherapy.com). Therapy is available in Missouri and Kansas, with coaching options outside those states. Questions or reflections? Email joyrevengepodcast@gmail.com (mailto:joyrevengepodcast@gmail.com). Content Note This episode discusses workplace power dynamics, racial and gender expectations, people-pleasing, self-silencing, family conflict, emotional boundaries, and burnout. Please listen with care. Joy Revenge is an educational resource and is not a replacement for therapy, diagnosis, or individualized mental-health treatment. #HealthyBoundaries #PeoplePleaser #MentalHealthPodcast #SettingBoundaries #BlackWomenHealing #EldestDaughter

4. 

   27 Aug 2026

   Say It Like You Mean It

   EPISODE 3 — Say It Like You Mean It How much has staying quiet cost you? Therapist Angelique Foye-Fletcher and co-host Jordan Alford explore how to reclaim your voice, set healthy boundaries, and communicate assertively at work, at home, and in relationships. Inspired by Jefferson Fisher’s The Next Conversation, this episode examines the pressure Black women face when balancing direct communication with likability, workplace power dynamics, and harmful stereotypes. You’ll learn the difference between passive, aggressive, and assertive communication, how to check someone’s emotional capacity, and how to express your needs without over-explaining or apologizing. In This Episode People-pleasing and self-silencing in professional spaces Assertive communication versus passive or aggressive communication Setting healthy workplace and relationship boundaries Checking someone’s capacity to listen, problem-solve, or receive a vent Practical language for communicating clearly and confidently Joy Revenge Framework Book: The Next Conversation: Argue Less, Talk More by Jefferson Fisher Revenge Theme: Boundaries as Liberation Takeaway: Finding your voice is revenge on every moment you were told to shrink. Continue the Conversation Send this episode to someone learning to communicate clearly and take up space without apology. Explore the Joy Revenge Book List (https://foyefletchertherapy.com/new-page), subscribe, follow the show, and leave a five-star rating. Schedule a free 15-minute consultation with Angelique at (http://www.foyefletchertherapy.com/)foyefletchertherapy.com (http://foyefletchertherapy.com). Therapy is available in Missouri and Kansas, with coaching options outside those states. Questions or reflections? Email joyrevengepodcast@gmail.com (mailto:joyrevengepodcast@gmail.com). Content Note Joy Revenge is an educational resource and is not a replacement for therapy, diagnosis, or individualized mental-health treatment. _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ Hosted by Angelique Foye-Fletcher and Jordan Alford Produced by Strategic Visions JD LLC #JoyRevenge (https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/joyrevenge) #speakup (https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/sisterhood) #BlackMentalHealth (https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/blackmentalhealth) #MentalHealthPodcast (https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/mentalhealthpodcast) #Joy #reclaimyourvoice (https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/joy)

5. 

   13 Aug 2026

   Sisters in Seattle

   EPISODE 2 — Sisters in Seattle What does it feel like to be fully safe in a friendship—to stop performing, shrinking, or bracing for conflict? In Episode 2 of Joy Revenge, therapist Angelique Foye-Fletcher revisits an unexpected trip to Seattle with her sister that revealed what co-regulation feels like: being with someone who allows your body to soften. Angelique and co-host Jordan Alford explore biological sisterhood, chosen family, grief, jealousy, boundaries, workplace relationships, and the difference between bonding through survival and connecting through safety. Jordan also shares how losing her younger sister shaped her lifelong search for sisterhood through dance, friendship, and community. Together, they ask: Who helps your nervous system exhale—and who leaves you depleted? Book: Sisterhood Heals by Dr. Joy Harden Bradford Revenge Theme: Connection as Reclamation Takeaways: What co-regulation feels like in the body Angelique’s restorative trip to Seattle with her sister Survival bonding versus safe, regulated connection The difference between family of origin and family of choice How childhood roles, birth order, and family dynamics shape sibling relationships Jordan’s experience of grief and searching for sisterhood Repairing relationships after jealousy, competition, or conflict Creating boundaries that honor both yourself and the relationship Knowing when a friendship has become unsafe or needs to end Building meaningful adult friendships through intentional rituals Recognizing burnout in yourself and the women you love Why your sister or best friend cannot replace a licensed therapist Send this episode to the sister—by blood or by choice—who makes you feel safe, seen, and supported. Subscribe, explore the Joy Revenge Book List (https://foyefletchertherapy.com/new-page), and leave a five-star rating. Book a free 15-minute consultation with Angelique at foyefletchertherapy.com (http://foyefletchertherapy.com), or email joyrevengepodcast@gmail.com (mailto:joyrevengepodcast@gmail.com). Content Note This episode includes conversations about sibling loss, childhood trauma, emotional neglect, sibling abuse, unhealthy relationships, grief, workplace conflict, and burnout. Please listen with care. Joy Revenge is an educational resource and is not a replacement for therapy, diagnosis, or individualized mental-health treatment. ________________________________________________________ Hosted by Angelique Foye-Fletcher and Jordan Alford Produced by Strategic Visions JD LLC #JoyRevenge #sisterhood #Trauma #Grief #BlackMentalHealth #MentalHealthPodcast #Neurodivergent #Joy

6. 

   30 Jul 2026

   Dysregulated AF

   What happens when burnout, chronic stress, and unresolved trauma finally catch up with your body? In Episode 1 of Joy Revenge, therapist Angelique Foye-Fletcher shares the life-threatening health crisis that forced her to confront years of over-functioning, people-pleasing, and living in survival mode. Angelique and co-host Jordan Alford explore how burnout can masquerade as ambition, why the nervous system may crash after prolonged stress, and how unresolved trauma can surface through physical warning signs. Through candid stories about medical trauma, Black women’s mental health, neurodivergence, and emotional regulation, they reveal why vacations and temporary rest cannot heal a life that is fundamentally unsustainable. Because when the mind keeps pretending everything is fine, the body will eventually demand a rebellion. In This Episode How burnout disguises itself as ambition and competence The connection between chronic stress, trauma, and physical health Angelique’s life-threatening burnout wake-up call Jordan’s experience with a mysterious health crisis Survival mode and Black women’s mental health Neurodivergence and emotional regulation Genuine rest versus temporary escape Physical and emotional signs of burnout Grounding techniques and healing boundaries Questions for Reflection What is your body trying to tell you? Where have you mistaken survival for strength? Are you resting—or temporarily escaping? What boundary would help your nervous system feel safer? You are a human being, not a human doing. You do not have to earn rest, love, or care. Resources Mentioned The Body Keeps the Score, Post Traumatic Slave Syndrome, My Grandmother’s Hands, The Pain We Carry, Decolonizing Therapy, It Didn’t Start with You, The Nap Ministry, the Feelings Wheel, and the 5-4-3-2-1 grounding technique. Download the Free Joy Revenge Book List https://foyefletchertherapy.com/new-page (https://foyefletchertherapy.com/new-page) Connect With Joy Revenge Subscribe on YouTube Listen on your favorite podcast platform Follow Joy Revenge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joyrevengepodcast/ (https://www.instagram.com/joyrevengepodcast/) Submit a question or topic: joyrevengepodcast@gmail.com (mailto:joyrevengepodcast@gmail.com) If this episode resonated with you, subscribe, leave a five-star rating, and share it with someone who is ready to reclaim their joy. Connect With Foye-Fletcher Therapy Learn more or schedule a free 15-minute consultation: https://foyefletchertherapy.com (https://foyefletchertherapy.com) Follow @joyrevengepodcast and @FoyeFletcherTherapy on Instagram. Foye-Fletcher Therapy supports deep-feeling adults, caregivers, creatives, cycle breakers, couples, and parents ready to soften survival mode and reconnect with themselves and others. Important Disclaimer Joy Revenge provides general educational and psycho-educational information. It is not therapy, medical advice, or a substitute for care from a qualified mental health professional. ________________________________________________________ Hosted by Angelique Foye-Fletcher and Jordan Alford Produced by Strategic Visions JD LLC #JoyRevenge #BurnoutRecovery #Trauma #SurvivalMode #BlackMentalHealth #MentalHealthPodcast #Neurodivergent #RestIsResistance

7. 

   20 Jul 2026

   Welcome to Your Joy Revenge Era!

   What if reclaiming your joy could be an act of healing, restoration—and revenge? Welcome to the first episode of Joy Revenge, a podcast where healing meets play and joy becomes intentional. Hosted by licensed marriage and family therapist and registered play therapist Angelique Foye-Fletcher, alongside co-host and producer Jordan Alford, Joy Revenge creates space for deep feelers, highly sensitive adults, caregivers, creatives, cycle breakers, and anyone learning how to soften survival mode. In this introductory episode, Angelique and Jordan explore: - What “Joy Revenge” means - Why joy and grief can exist together - Healing the inner child through intentional play - The experiences of highly sensitive adults and deep-feeling children Angelique also introduces the four healing foundations woven throughout the Joy Revenge podcast: -Play -Books and bibliotherapy -Nature -Connection If you have spent years caring for everyone else, suppressing your emotions, or simply surviving, this podcast is your invitation to reconnect with the parts of yourself that still deserve safety, softness, curiosity, and joy. Continue your journey with a curated collection of books centered on play, connection, nature, emotional healing, and reclaiming joy. Download the free Joy Revenge Book List: https://foyefletchertherapy.com/new-page (https://foyefletchertherapy.com/new-page) Connect With Joy Revenge - Subscribe on YouTube - Listen on your favorite podcast platform: - Follow Joy Revenge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joyrevengepodcast/ (https://www.instagram.com/joyrevengepodcast/) - Submit a question or topic: joyrevengepodcast@gmail.com (mailto:joyrevengepodcast@gmail.com) If this episode resonated with you, subscribe, leave a five-star rating, and share it with someone who is ready to reclaim their joy. Connect With Foye-Fletcher Therapy - Learn more or schedule a free 15-minute consultation: https://foyefletchertherapy.com (https://foyefletchertherapy.com) - Follow @joyrevengepodcast and @FoyeFletcherTherapy on Instagram Foye-Fletcher Therapy supports deep-feeling adults, caregivers, creatives, cycle breakers, couples, and parents who are ready to soften survival mode and reconnect with themselves and others. Important Disclaimer Joy Revenge provides general educational and psychoeducational information. It is not therapy, medical advice, or a substitute for care from a qualified mental health professional. If you or someone else is in immediate danger, call 911 or your local emergency services. In the United States, call or text 988 to reach the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline. Hosted by Angelique Foye-Fletcher and Jordan Alford Produced by Strategic Visions JD LLC #JoyRevenge #InnerChildHealing #MentalHealthPodcast #HighlySensitivePerson #HealingJourney #JoyAsResistance #PlayTherapy #EmotionalWellness #SelfCare #CaregiverBurnout #SurvivalMode #Bibliotherapy #PersonalGrowth #RestIsResistance #BlackMentalHealth

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5.0 / 5

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5.0 / 5

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