Shameproof Your Desires is the podcast for women standing at a turning point: divorce, loss, career change or simply the decision that you don't have to answer to anyone the same way anymore. Hosted by Auntie Carmen, The Desire Midwife, a certified sex and relationship coach, this show is for the woman who's done believing she's “too much,” especially when it comes to what she wants sexually. Auntie Carmen is your trusted, spicy friend who never shames you, she just holds space while you figure it out and nudges you a little closer to the edges you've been circling, kinky or otherwise.
Book the Balcony | Romantic Travel, Power Exchange Rituals and Keeping the Passion Alive
What does your life look like once you’re impossible to shame? For Auntie Carmen it looks like a balcony over a lake in Italy at 5:30 in the morning. In part 3 of my travel series, she shares how she now plans trips around pleasure instead of the must-see list. And she shares how her D/s rituals keep her passion alive at home after 10 years together.
If you’re kink-curious, already kinky or just want to feel close and turned on with your partner again, this episode is for you. She talks about:
Romantic travel for couples and why her #1 checklist item is a gorgeous view with enough privacy to get it on
How knowing what turns you on lets you plan adventurous sex, date nights and trips around your desires
A little bit of naughty risk: a balcony at sunrise, a rented boat, a roadside stop in the French countryside and church bells through an open window
Why a "hell yes" partner shows up when you stop toning down your sexuality
The daily dominant and submissive rituals that keeps her power exchange marriage so juicy
How sexual shame and kink shame keep you from even knowing what you want
Desires are not the problem. Shame is.
Want to make this possible for yourself?
Shameproof Your Desires walks you there in four weeks: https://shameproofyourdesires.com/shameproof-course/shameproof-course (https://shameproofyourdesires.com/shameproof-course/shameproof-course)
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13 Oct 2026
I Didn’t Know I Had Kinks | Discovering Kink and Power Exchange After Divorce
When I got divorced, I just wanted intimacy. I had no idea I was a woman with kinks. In this episode I share how the very first person I slept with after my divorce made me curious about power. It took me from “no man will ever control me” to loving sexual submission in a consensual D/s relationship with my husband.
If you’re kink-curious and stuck asking “why do I like this?” or “is this just trauma?” this one is for you. We talk about:
How to discover your kinks when you don’t even know where to start
Why things you used to hate can become a turn-on once you have full consent and a real choice
The “I want to be taken” fantasy so many women have and how to explore it safely with consent and trust
Why kink shame and sexual shame shut down your curiosity and why shameproofing comes first
You can’t get curious and judge yourself at the same time.
Ready to become impossible to shame? Shameproof Your Desires: Become Impossible to Shame, Claim Your Kinks and Have the Kind of Sex You’ve Been Craving is my four-week course. You get short mini lessons five days a week. https://shameproofyourdesires.com/shameproof-course/shameproof-course (https://shameproofyourdesires.com/shameproof-course/shameproof-course)
Want my kinky origin story? Listen to Season 2, Episode 6 (August 11, 2026). [link] (https://open.spotify.com/episode/63h30AzOHxYyckO7sIYFzl?si=umGR6SYtRfKFFEUZRtW9QA)
6 Oct 2026
Alone at the Trevi Fountain
I once stood in front of the most romantic fountain in Rome all by myself, on a trip with my husband. In this episode I share what that morning taught me about shrinking, staying busy and telling myself "it's fine." If you have been toning down what you want, this is your wake-up call.
Ready to stop? Shameproof Your Desires is my four-week course to help you become impossible to shame, claim your kinks and start having the sex you want.
https://shameproofyourdesires.com/shameproof-course/shameproof-course (https://shameproofyourdesires.com/shameproof-course/shameproof-course)
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