Just Say This! How to have sex talks with tweens

About Just Say This! How to have sex talks with tweens

Are you dragging your feet about having the sex talks? Do you wish someone would just tell you what to say to your kid about this important part of life? You are in the right place. Whether your kid is neurotypical or neurodivergent, I've got ya. I'm Amy Lang, a sex and parent educator, and in my frank (really frank), opinionated, and full-of-swears-advice-column style parenting podcast, I answer real questions from real parents about the talks. I also provide topic-specific scripts so you can sound like a pro. Most episodes are a potluck of questions that run the gamut from abortion to porn and everything in between. They need to know about all of these things by the time they start middle school. When you have no idea about the best age to start the birds and bees talks, what's age-appropriate, and what to actually SAY to them about sex, it makes the sex talks daunting (to say the least)! When it comes to communicating about all things related to sexuality, keeping it sex-positive, light, and fact-based is key to getting them to listen to you and see you as their go-to birds and bees source. Just Say This can help you make this happen. To record a question for me to answer in a later show (even if you think it's a stupid one), call 206-926-1522.* I love funny sex talk stories, too. So feel free to call those in, too. + IG @BirdsBeesKids + FB @BirdsBeesKids + BirdsAndBeesAndKids.com *In middle school, they talk about everything, so it's better (and safer) for your kid to be super-well informed so that they feel confident and smart as things get so real. Do you remember middle school? Wouldn't it have been so much better if you had known everything? Or anything? **Not a thing.

Publisher

Amy Lang, M.A.

Category

health & fitness · kids & family

Language

en

Explicit

Yes

First episode

22 Dec 2021

Latest episode

11 Jun 2026

Latest episodes

16 of 122 episodes have a transcript.

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   11 Jun 2026TRANSCRIPT

   How to talk to kids about sexual slang!

   Host Amy Goldman, author of "Sex Talks With Tweens," guides parents on explaining sexual slang to neurotypical and neurodivergent children, fostering clear communication.

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   5 May 2026TRANSCRIPT

   Girl won't talk about her period; kid won't stop telling everyone she's gay; explaining circumcision to a 5-year-old

   Host Dr. Meg Meeker guides parents through sensitive conversations about puberty, identity, and body autonomy with their children in this interview.

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   22 Apr 2026TRANSCRIPT

   REPLAY! How to explain intersex people to your kid!

   In this replay episode, I talk about how to explain intersex people to your kid. RESOURCES What is Intersex? What's it like to be intersex? Your next step? Check out The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for ALL Kids: Neurotypical & Neurodivergent. Your one-stop shop for all the topics you'll need to cover. Watch here: All Kids Episode on YouTube ND Kids Episode on YouTube Got some thoughts or questions? Amy@BirdsAndBeesAndKid.com Learn more! BirdsAndBeesAndKids.com Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It! Struggling to find the words? Worried you'll say too much? Not to worry, my book is all scripts, so you don't have to figure this out on your own. 30-minute Quickie Consultation Get clarity fast with a focused 30-minute session on your most concerning sex talk question. The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for ALL Kids: Neurotypical & Neurodivergent All the topics you'll need to cover as your kids grow up! Puberty, consent, relationship, and sex (of course)! The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for Parents of Neurodivergent Kids Get the tools to communicate with your neurodivergent kid about sex, consent, and safety—without awkwardness or overwhelm. The Porn Talk Info Kit Simple tools for the porn and online safety talks—plus videos and tech tips to calm your worries. Includes a specific video for parents of neurodivergent kids.

Reach and audience

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Apple Podcasts (US)

4.9 / 5

148 ratings

Spotify

5.0 / 5

7 ratings