It is with a heavy heart that I present to you the breakup episode-- we're talking about some of the things that prevent a relationship from working. Essentially, what makes two people incompatible. To me, incompatibility comes in four forms: intellectual incompatibility, romantic incompatibility, emotional incompatibility, and lifestyle incompatibility. That being said, I'm here to dissect each of these and decide (based purely on my own experience) which ones are absolutely damning and which can be overcome, so to speak. Enjoy.
3 Nov 2023
ep 26. Sex [featuring Jia]
Listen, this one's 18+. If that's not you, kindly do get out of here-- feel free to return upon next week's upload.
Now that we're all adults here, let's get into it. We're talking about all things sex; from the act itself to porn and masturbation all the way to discussions about virginity and its relevance to society. The basic, the raunchy, the goofy little questions! I must say, having Jia on this episode has been a lovely experience; do yourself a favor and see what she has to say ;)
@judesjustsaying
10 Oct 2023
ep 25. Red flags, manipulation, & emotional immaturity
Hi, welcome. Today we're getting real and we're getting informative. I'm talking about all things red flags, toxicity, manipulation, the like. I'll be pulling from my own past experiences (because what's the point in experiencing traumatic situations if you can't monetize the experience after the fact?) and sharing with you some of the warning signs I missed and some of the lessons that I learned. It got pretty real, and it was fun for me. So.
<3 @judesjustsaying
15 Aug 2023
ep 22. Relationships
Today it's about you guys. The subject matter of this episode was left pretty much entirely up to you -- we're talking relationships. The main things I discussed were what makes a 'serious' relationship, "right person, wrong time" (and with this, do you really need to love yourself before you love someone else?), and finally what, to me, constitutes cheating. It was a fun one and I'll see you Friday for part 2.
1 Aug 2023
ep 21. Shame & embarrassment
Listen, I'm getting real with you today. We're talking about embarrassment and as such, I'm going to share with you two of my most socially heinous moments. Two instances that I look back upon with soul-crushing regret.
We're also gonna talk about shame, what the difference between the two is, and what there is to be learned from each of them. I hope you enjoy <3
@ce1lard0or
12 Jul 2023
ep 20. Emotional availability
We're doing justice to episode 20. We are talking about emotional availability, or lack thereof. However, today I'm discussing this from the perspective of someone who, after 19 god-forsaken years on this silly little planet, finally feels emotionally available.
I talked about my understanding of what it means to be emotional unavailable, how I ended up in a place where I no longer feel that way, and the painfully cliché idea of having to love yourself in order to love anyone else. I don't know, I feel like it was a good time.
27 Jun 2023
ep 19. Confidence & growth as an artist
As an artist, it’s easy to feel like in order to be recognized and “official”, you need to choose a practice and stick to it. I think that’s bullshit.
I grew up with the notion that if I was an artist, it was in the field of drawing and painting and such; in the other fields I'd be a poser at best. It took a while for me to step out of that comfy identity and try new avenues within art, but this was honestly the most important step in my development as an artist. When I decided to explore different creative outlets, it made me grow both as a person and as an artist, and each practice I stepped into grew my confidence in different ways.
Essentially, comfort is overrated, especially as an artist. Change your mind and try new shit and get embarrassed and get excited and grow, idk.
2 Jun 2023
ep 16. Overthinking, anxiety, & the nature of goal-setting
happy Friday. Yeah. That's new, huh? Anyways, today we're having some conversations that I wish I'd had several years ago. Think of this as both a reality check and a pep talk for The Overthinker™.
A lot of the time, especially for those of us prone to overthinking, the things we can't stop ourselves from worrying about 24/7 are not even real. That is, they simply aren't a direct threat to us at all. Sometimes, however, they are real. In cases of this sort, I remind you that we're a lot more resilient than we might think. You've gotten yourself through everything thus far; it follows that you'll probably get through whatever the current object of your anxieties is as well.
A big part of keeping anxiety about the future at bay is to stay aware of your current position in life and how your circumstances are affecting it. Life doesn't go as planned the vast majority of the time -- it's important to continuously adjust these plans in accordance with your development and your experiences. If you've maybe been feeling a little overwhelmed or you're having a bit of a post-graduation crisis, this might be the episode for you. Love you, btw.
@ce1lard0or
25 Apr 2023
ep 11. Sexuality, gender, & the use of labels
Maybe you're questioning one or both of these. Maybe you're wondering whether or not labelling yourself is actually worth the effort. Maybe you just want to giggle (occasionally) and understand some perspectives that differ from your own. In any of these cases, the only reasonable course of action is to listen to this episode. Unless you don't want to.
I talked for over an hour about my experience with and my thoughts on my own sexuality and gender identity. Also, labels and whether or not I think they're actually effective. There are a few anecdotes in here that might make you chuckle, including one about my 8-year-old lesbian love story that ended in a tragedy comparable only to those of the Greeks (she snuck into my house and stole my halloween candy. I can't make this up). Anyway, I think this is my favorite and most useful episode thus far. So. Enjoy that.
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