Welcome to Kiss & Tell đthe ultimate girly podcast where weâre spilling all the tea on modern dating! đď¸ Whether youâre swiping right, caught in a situationship, or manifesting your dream partner, this is your safe space to laugh, learn, and share all the details.
From first-date fails and juicy ghosting stories to mastering the art of flirting and embracing your single-girl glow, weâve got you covered. Because here at Kiss & Tell, nothing is off-limits, and every story deserves to be told!
Ready to dish? đ Tune in every week for a fun and flirty deep dive into all things dating and girly!
Doing It for the Plot đ˛âĽď¸ â The Chaos & Charm of Saying YES, Main Character Energy: Is This Worth the Plot Twist?
Roxy James explores the concept of "doing it for the plot," encouraging listeners to embrace new experiences and adventures while navigating potential risks and red flags.
24 Jul 2025
The *Truth* about Rebounds that No One Tells you About- Can a Rebound be a Good Thing? The good, the bad and the ugly truth đĽ
Roxy James explores the truths about rebound relationships, discussing their potential benefits for healing and confidence after toxic experiences in this interview.
11 Jun 2025
Hoe-lier Than Thou: Dating a âHolyâ Guy Whoâs Actually a Hoe đŠâ
Roxy James discusses her experience dating a man who presented himself as religious but displayed hypocritical and manipulative behaviors, revealing the potential for deception.
28 May 2025
Friends with Your Ex? Girl, be serious. Here's Why it's a NO for Me
Roxy James explores the complexities of maintaining friendships with ex-partners, highlighting the potential for emotional setbacks and advocating for clear boundaries to foster personal growth.
21 May 2025
5 Dates I Went On & Cute Ideas for Your Next Night Out đď¸
In this flirty and fun Season 2 kickoff episode, Iâm sharing the tea on 5 dates I went onâfrom a classic sushi night to a sultry salsa dancing class. Whether youâre planning your next romantic night out or just looking to switch things up, these date ideas are cute, creative, and full of personality. Weâre talking dancing, group vibes, playful competition, and intentional effort. Spoiler alert: bare minimum energy is not welcome this season x.
Find me đ
instagram: â â â â @itsroxyjamesâ â â â (https://www.instagram.com/itsroxyjames/?hl=en)
pod instagram: â â â â @xokissandtellâ â â â (https://www.instagram.com/xokissandtell/?hl=en)
youtube: â â â â Roxy Jamesâ â â â (https://www.youtube.com/@ITSROXYJAMES)
blog: â â â â www.roxyjames.com (https://www.roxyjames.com/)
19 Mar 2025
Men Who âFORGETâ to mention their girlfriends: Guys who Conveniently Hide Their Relationships? The Secret Lives of Cheaters & Time-Wasters đŠ
Nothing is more infuriating than men who conveniently âforgetâ to mention they have a whole girlfriend, fiancĂŠ, or even wife- while theyâre out here flirting, texting, and trying to see you? Why do they play these games, and what can you do to protect yourself? Grab your tea-or wine-, because weâre about to spill all of it.
Find me đ
instagram: â â â â @itsroxyjamesâ â â â (https://www.instagram.com/itsroxyjames/?hl=en)
pod instagram: â â â â @xokissandtellâ â â â (https://www.instagram.com/xokissandtell/?hl=en)
youtube: â â â â Roxy Jamesâ â â â (https://www.youtube.com/@ITSROXYJAMES)
blog: â â â â www.roxyjames.com (https://www.roxyjames.com/)
15 Mar 2025
First Date Tips đš Mindset + Main Character Energy, How to be Confident, Have Fun & Make it Effortless đˇ
Babe- if you have a first dating coming up, I got you! Weâre covering everything from mindset shifts to outfit and conversation tips and how to actually have a fun, pressure-free first date. Grab your drink, get comfy, and letâs get into it!
Find me â¨
instagram: â â â â â â @itsroxyjamesâ â â â â â (https://www.instagram.com/itsroxyjames/?hl=en)
pod instagram: â â â â â â @xokissandtellâ â â â â â (https://www.instagram.com/xokissandtell/?hl=en)
youtube: â â â â â â Roxy Jamesâ â â â â â (https://www.youtube.com/@ITSROXYJAMES)
blog: â â â â â â www.roxyjames.com (https://www.roxyjames.com/)
27 Feb 2025
Small Dick Energy đ- Dating Insecure Men, Red Flags đŠHow to Overcome and More đŞ
Weâve all been thereâdating a guy who seemed promising at first but then turned out to be an insecure, ego-driven, emotionally draining mess. Whether itâs him âhumblingâ you, getting jealous of your success, or making you feel like you need to *shrink* yourself to make him feel big, weâre breaking it all down today. Buckle up, because we are NOT holding back!
Find me â¨
instagram: â â â â â @itsroxyjamesâ â â â â (https://www.instagram.com/itsroxyjames/?hl=en)
pod instagram: â â â â â @xokissandtellâ â â â â (https://www.instagram.com/xokissandtell/?hl=en)
youtube: â â â â â Roxy Jamesâ â â â â (https://www.youtube.com/@ITSROXYJAMES)
blog: â â â â â www.roxyjames.com (https://www.roxyjames.com/)
19 Feb 2025
I went on a First Date + My Cringe First Impression LOL I am so awkward! He brought me flowers though đ
OMG it feels so surreal to say it, but after telling you guys I was entering my dating era just a few episodes ago- i was asked out on a whole date. But since my life is a movie THE most awkward thing happened to me LOL. He was so sweet about everything and even showed up with a vase of flowers. I'm spilling all the tea đ
Find me â¨
instagram: â â â â @itsroxyjamesâ â â â (https://www.instagram.com/itsroxyjames/?hl=en)
pod instagram: â â â â @xokissandtellâ â â â (https://www.instagram.com/xokissandtell/?hl=en)
youtube: â â â â Roxy Jamesâ â â â (https://www.youtube.com/@ITSROXYJAMES)
blog: â â â â www.roxyjames.com (https://www.roxyjames.com/)
13 Feb 2025
The Ultimate Single Girl's Guide to Valentine's Day- What to do and How to Get Through it đ đź
You guys firstly- someone asked me out on a dateee and I will be going on a date for the first time in almost a year. How wild is that- literally shook! But in today's episode, Iâm giving you the ultimate Single Girlâs Guide to Valentineâs Dayâhow to make it fun, fabulous, and all about you! No moping, no feeling left outâjust a whole lot of self-love and celebration.
Find me â¨
instagram:â â â â â @itsroxyjamesâ â â â â (https://www.instagram.com/itsroxyjames/?hl=en)
pod instagram:â â â â â @xokissandtellâ â â â â (https://www.instagram.com/xokissandtell/?hl=en)
youtube:â â â â â Roxy Jamesâ â â â â (https://www.youtube.com/@ITSROXYJAMES)
blog:â â â â â www.roxyjames.comâ (https://www.roxyjames.com/)
5 Feb 2025
Entering my Dating Era- How to Date after taking a Break, Talking to Guys, Dating Mindset & Putting Myself Out There đĽ
OMG so Iâm officially entering my dating era! I've been intentionally single for a hot minute. For my entire life, I've hopped from one relationship/situationship into the next and this time around, I really wanted to take time off from men and dating, to really just focus on ME and what I wanted for the first time in my life.
I think I'm finally ready to put myself out there and start dating. I'm sharing my dating mindset, Iâm looking for and so much more.
Find me â¨
instagram: â â â â @itsroxyjamesâ â â â (https://www.instagram.com/itsroxyjames/?hl=en)
pod instagram: â â â â @xokissandtellâ â â â (https://www.instagram.com/xokissandtell/?hl=en)
youtube: â â â â Roxy Jamesâ â â â (https://www.youtube.com/@ITSROXYJAMES)
blog: â â â â www.roxyjames.com (https://www.roxyjames.com/)
29 Jan 2025
Cringe AF Birthdays- Why You Should NEVER wait on a Guy to Celebrate your Birthday, My First Single Birthday as an Adult đ
My birthday is right around the corner and itâs my first SINGLE birthday as an adult. Can you believe it - like thereâs absolutely no guy around this time around.
It really made me reflect and I wanted to share some of my CRINGE af birthdays where I waited and waited for a guy to do something special for me and he didn't.
I'm spilling all the tea âď¸ and how I overcame that trash mindset.
Find me â¨
instagram: â â â @itsroxyjamesâ â â (https://www.instagram.com/itsroxyjames/?hl=en)
pod instagram: â â â @xokissandtellâ â â (https://www.instagram.com/xokissandtell/?hl=en)
youtube: â â â Roxy Jamesâ â â (https://www.youtube.com/@ITSROXYJAMES)
blog: â â â www.roxyjames.com (https://www.roxyjames.com/)
22 Jan 2025
That time I Dated a Wayy Older Guy, The Maturity Myth, Red Flags đŠ and More!
Hellooo my loves! Welcome back to Kiss & Tell, the podcast where we spill all the dating tea. Todayâs episode is juicy and cautionaryâIâm talking about that time I dated a wayy older guy. Spoiler alert: It was a total disaster.
Weâre diving into the challenges of dating someone much older, from their outdated expectations to their big ego vibes. Plus, Iâll share all the ways it went wrong and why itâs a lesson Iâll never forget.
Find me â¨
instagram: â â @itsroxyjamesâ â (https://www.instagram.com/itsroxyjames/?hl=en)
pod instagram: â â @xokissandtellâ â (https://www.instagram.com/xokissandtell/?hl=en)
youtube: â â Roxy Jamesâ â (https://www.youtube.com/@ITSROXYJAMES)
blog: â â www.roxyjames.com (https://www.roxyjames.com/)
15 Jan 2025
Funding the Relationship- Babe, are you an ATM?! đ¸Spot the signs, learn how to set boundaries & protect your peace!
Hey, babes! Welcome back to Kiss & Tell! Todayâs episode is spicy because weâre talking about something a lot of us have been guilty of: funding relationships that donât deserve our energyâor our wallets đ¸ Have you ever been in a relationship where you felt like their sugar mama, their therapist, or their cheerleaderâbut they couldnât even text back? Get ready as I kiss and tell. We also have our first listener submission so grab something to sip on and let's get into it.
Find me â¨
instagram: â @itsroxyjamesâ (https://www.instagram.com/itsroxyjames/?hl=en)
pod instagram: â @xokissandtellâ (https://www.instagram.com/xokissandtell/?hl=en)
youtube: â Roxy Jamesâ (https://www.youtube.com/@ITSROXYJAMES)
blog: â www.roxyjames.com (https://www.roxyjames.com/)
8 Jan 2025
Why Dating at the Start of the Year is Not my Thing
âNew year, new relationship? Hard pass! On this weekâs Kiss & Tell, Iâm spilling all the tea on why dating in January is just not my thing.
Find me â¨
instagram: @itsroxyjames (https://www.instagram.com/itsroxyjames/?hl=en)
pod instagram: @xokissandtell (https://www.instagram.com/xokissandtell/?hl=en)
youtube: Roxy James (https://www.youtube.com/@ITSROXYJAMES)
blog: www.roxyjames.com (https://www.roxyjames.com/)
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