Welcome to your new favorite podcast! Two of the hottest metamours in the game are here to spill the tea on sex, dating, and relationships with a little side helping of ~*chaos goblin*~. On this here "GayDHD" pod, we’ll be diving headfirst into the beautiful mess of non-monogamy, queer identity, special interests, and sharing whatever hyperfixation has us feral this week.
Expect hot takes, real talk, belly laughs, and plenty of spicy moments.
Knee Deep in Beats, Part 2 (Women in Music feat. @splashrecordz & @msvameproductions)
Welcome back to Knee Deep in Beats, Part 2 — our continued conversation with Sacramento’s very own audio engineers/producers @splashrecordz and @msvameproductions. This episode gets into: What it really looks like to be AFAB & queer in the music industryHow streaming platforms shape who “makes it”The tension between authenticity + capitalismThe renaissance of physical media (vinyl supremacy!!)How queerness shapes artistry, survival, and soundThe cutest queer wife stories you’ve ever heard...
26 Nov 2025
Knee Deep in Beats, Part 1 (Women in Music feat. @splashrecordz & @msvameproductions)
In this episode of Knee Deep in the Passenger Seat, hosts Cady Moore and Sharilyn Wester sit down with Sacramento-based producers and engineers Sam Splash and Ms. Vame (Vanessa Neves-Jackson) for a deep dive into queerness, feminism, and identity in today’s music industry. They break down what it means to be AFAB behind the boards, how queer artistry has shifted mainstream sound, and why community-centered collectives like ComposeHer are reshaping music from the inside out. You’ll hear conver...
12 Nov 2025
Knee Deep in Sesbian Lex feat. Eva Bloom @whatismybodydoing
This week, Cady and Sharilyn get knee deep in queer sex ed and are joined by Eva Bloom (@whatismybodydoing) — queer and trans late bloomer coach, inclusive sex educator, and host of Out in Bloom — for a cozy and frankly, charming, conversation about what it means to come into your queerness later in life, how to unlearn compulsory heterosexuality, and why sex ed should be way gayer. Together, they unpack: What “queer sex ed” actually means 🌈Late-blooming queerness and queer imposter syndromeP...
29 Oct 2025
Knee Deep in De-Nesting
What happens when you love your partner but living together just isn’t working? Cady and Sharilyn dive into the concept of de-nesting — choosing to live apart while staying together — and how it can reshape what commitment looks like. Cady shares her personal story of de-nesting with her husband Navarre after nearly a decade of cohabitation, revealing what led to the decision, how neurodivergence played a role, and how they maintain connection and intimacy across two homes. Later, Navarre joi...
15 Oct 2025
Knee Deep in Non-Monogamy
Welcome back to Knee Deep in the Passenger Seat, your favorite GayDHD podcast hosted by Cady and Sharilyn. This week, we’re taking the scenic route through non-monogamy: how we practice it, what it means to us, and how we manage everything from jealousy to joy (and all the chaos in between). 💬 In this episode, we talk about: How hierarchy, solo poly, and kitchen-table dynamics actually play out in real lifeWhat jealousy really means and how to turn it into self-knowledgeWhy communication and ...
1 Oct 2025
Knee Deep in Spooky Season
It’s officially spooky season, and we’re bringing the chills, laughs, and queer chaos straight to your ear holes! In this “minisode”, Cady and Sharilyn get real about their complicated relationships with horror, swap hilarious Halloween stories, and dig into why spooky season feels so special. From haunted house trauma to legendary costumes (hello, Big Naturals Gandalf!), this episode is part nostalgia trip, part queer nerd-out, and part cultural commentary. We’ll talk about what makes gothic...
17 Sept 2025
Knee Deep in Artistic Rope
In this episode of Knee Deep in the Passenger Seat, Cady and Sharilyn welcome Lindy — a powerhouse in the Kansas City rope community and the foundress of the Sisterhood of Artistic Rope (SOAR). Together, we unravel the art of Shibari: its rich history, its role in queer culture, and how rope can be both sensual expression and radical empowerment. Lindy opens up about building safer, more inclusive spaces for femme-identifying folks in the rope scene, shares moving success stories from SOAR pa...
3 Sept 2025
Knee Deep in Maasive Tits
Welcome to Season 2!! In this episode, Cady and Sharilyn journey into the realm of fantasy. Together, they unpack its origins, representation, and how gender bias has shaped the genre. They tackle the Bechdel Test and shine a light on why romance deserves more respect in fantasy storytelling. The conversation celebrates under-recognized voices, highlighting the importance of diversity, strong female characters, and inclusive narratives. Along the way, Cady and Sharilyn share their own childho...
7 May 2025
Knee Deep in Season One: A Recap Episode
Buckle up for a season finale ride! In this episode of Knee Deep in the Passenger Seat, your hosts Cady Moore and Sharilyn Wester get personal (per usual) - talking about the chaos of moving, what they’ve learned from season one, and why community really is everything. We dig into the power of storytelling, the harm of medical misinformation, and why centering diverse voices is non-negotiable when it comes to reproductive justice and healthcare. Plus, we break down our top takeaways from the ...
24 Mar 2025
Episode 9: Knee Deep in Punicillin, Part 2 feat. Guest Dr. Thalia McCann aka @supplementhal
In this episode, we finish our crucial conversation with Dr. Thalia McCann, an infectious disease specialist, about the power of trust and communication—especially for queer patients navigating the medical system. We unpack the impact of anti-science propaganda on public health and why effective science communication is more important than ever. But that’s not all—we also discuss an exciting new project aimed at educating the public about healthcare and supplements, the representation of wome...
12 Mar 2025
Knee Deep in Punicillin, Part 1 feat. Guest Dr. Thalia McCann aka @supplementhal
In this episode, Cady and Sharilyn sit down with Dr. Thalia McCann, an infectious disease specialist, for a deep dive into the messy, fascinating world of public health and medicine. From the dangers of C. diff to the promise of phage therapy, they unpack the latest in infectious disease research and policy. The conversation explores the human side of healthcare - how intersectionality shapes patient experiences, the critical role of mentorship for marginalized communities, and the challenges...
26 Feb 2025
Knee Deep in a Virtual Reality
In this episode of Knee Deep in the Passenger Seat, Cady and Sharilyn hit start on a deep dive into the intersection of gaming and identity. From childhood nostalgia to the ways video games shape self-expression, they explore how gaming serves as both an escape and a tool for self-discovery. They share personal stories about growing up with The Sims, getting lost in World of Warcraft, and navigating the evolving landscape of online gaming communities. Along the way, they unpack the impact of ...
12 Feb 2025
Knee Deep in Syphilis
🎙️ Syphilis, Sex Ed, and Waffles, Oh My!—With Epidemiologist Stephanie Booth 🍁 In this episode of Knee Deep in the Passenger Seat, Cady and Sharilyn sit down with epidemiologist Stephanie Booth to unpack the alarming rise in syphilis cases across the U.S. and the urgent need for improved public health strategies—especially for LGBTQ2S+ communities. They dive into the barriers queer folks face in accessing accurate sexual health information, the importance of inclusive risk communication, and ...
29 Jan 2025
Knee Deep in the Pleasuresode
In this episode of Knee Deep in the Passenger Seat, Cady and Sharilyn take a deep dive into the world of pleasure—what it means, why it matters, and the barriers that keep us from fully embracing it. From the science of how stress and guilt hijack joy to personal anecdotes about navigating purity culture and inadequate sex education, they unravel the societal layers that fuel shame around pleasure.The conversation explores the role of body image, patriarchy, and economic inequality in shaping...
15 Jan 2025
Knee Deep in the Trenches, Part 2 feat. Guest MJ Hetland aka @uterusnurse
MJ Hetland, a labor and delivery nurse, shares her expertise on the critical role of midwives, the overlooked significance of the APGAR score, and the fight for reproductive autonomy in a complex healthcare system.
2 Jan 2025
Knee Deep in Cybertruck Shade: Our 2024 Recap Episode
Cady & Sharilyn are back with a ✨juicy✨ rundown of their Top Ten Lists for 2024 and a peek into their Ins & Outs for 2025 (spoiler: boundaries are IN). This episode takes a thoughtful look at the highs and lows of the past year—caregiver burnout, the joy of creativity and cosplay, and the vital role of queer community—and sets the stage for an intentional and empowered year ahead.We explore themes of self-compassion, the transformative power of art, the importance of nourishing our bo...
12 Dec 2024
Knee Deep in the Trenches, Part 1 feat. Guest Jill Lissner aka @sexedprincess
Cady and Sharilyn sit down with educator Jill Lissner to explore reproductive justice, unpack systemic barriers, and highlight the power of personal stories and compassion in abortion rights.
27 Nov 2024
Knee Deep in Gay Switzerland
Cady and Sharilyn share unfiltered insights on non-monogamy, queer identity, and ADHD life hacks, revealing authentic conversations on thriving as a queer individual.
20 Nov 2024
Knee Deep in Session Zero
In which Sharilyn and Cady realize that they yapped too much in their first episode and that they’d have to split the episode or alienate their ADHD ass fanbase before they even got started.
Translation:
Our first episode was 90 minutes long, so we yanked some stuff and made Episode 0, which, if you’re not a D&D kid, is a term that refers to the session before you start your campaign where you get together with your party and make characters, get the lore, etc.
So, please enjoy our lore 💕
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