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May 14, 2024
【MBTI T/F篇】f人情绪化吗？人类大脑有一坨生物组织主管“情绪”！
<p>🧎本爪作为最爱创人的entp，我的f人朋友们深受其害（得意脸</p><p><strong>🙋♀️Blynn：INFJ</strong></p><p><strong>🙋♀️鸡爪：ENTP</strong></p><p>-</p><p>这一期不仅聊了<strong>T人和F人的n多区别</strong>，还有！</p><p>13:03 生物学/神经学角度来拆解<strong>人类的三重大脑</strong>：</p><ul> <li><strong>本能脑</strong>：源于约3.6亿年前，爬行动物时代。结构简单，爬行动物为求生存对环境快速做出本能反应。这一阶段主要是为了生存需求，没有情绪、没有理性，所有的判断完全凭借本能，用于控制生理需求。</li> <li><strong>情绪脑</strong>：源于约2亿年前，哺乳动物时代。它是在家庭生存的需求状态下形成。它关系着社交、互惠和育儿等，渴望被尊重、被爱、被接纳、被信任。所有哺乳动物都拥有情绪脑，它们一般能养育后代，也能成群成家族地生活，</li> <li><strong>理智脑</strong>：源于约250万年前，灵长动物时代。属人类独有。跟本能脑和情绪脑比较，它十分弱小，对身体的控制权一般占据很小的一部分。</li></ul><p>15:51 性别视角下的T和F 。众所周知：<strong>本节目的底色是性别议题。有：</strong></p><ul> <li>🚺🚹情绪化的不同表现，情绪化不是女性的“第二性征”</li> <li>🚹对于情感的压抑：你是不是男人？真男人不能“弱”！</li> <li>🚺对于情感的需求：让爱情中的“情绪价值”往后稍稍</li></ul><p>👂这两部分真的有点东西</p><p><strong>-</strong></p><p>尊贵的MBTI系列已经聊了两期 p人&j人，🔗在此（拯救内耗速速跳转👉👈</p><p><a href="https://www.xiaoyuzhoufm.com/episode/656323b5f10bbce63525a1e5"><strong>【MBTI J/P篇】</strong>“🫵受不了你们p人一点！”P人进，听完这期尊嘟会被疗愈到！</a></p><p><a href="https://www.xiaoyuzhoufm.com/episode/65f429c5696bd9a8796764e0"><strong>【MBTI J/P篇】</strong>“j人更在乎社会评价，p人更在乎自我评价”</a></p>
March 15, 2024
【MBTI J/P篇】“j人更在乎社会评价，p人更在乎自我评价”
<p>本系列节目源于我的一条pyq</p><figure><img src="https://image.xyzcdn.net/Fl9Pvsi93HMyl53QU7ANKYI0pVMS.jpg"/></figure><p>作为P人，我常常困惑于自己很难“完成”一件事，很多时候都是“有始无终”。我总是兴致勃勃地开启新项目，却很难执行重复性的任务，得到复利，拿到结果。</p><p>同时我好像很羡慕J人总是能够不费吹灰之力地“自律”，他们对生活的把控力是我所不具备的。我也切实看到了J人在工作、学习中的正反馈，难道他们的思维方式处事逻辑就是“成功学”密码？</p><p><strong>🤔我开始思考，是不是我真的出了问题？</strong></p><p><strong>🤬我倒要看看！J人你到底是怎么个事！</strong></p><p>-</p><p>本系列的第二期和二丫聊一聊。</p><p>二丫作为j人，提出了一个震撼我灵魂的观点：<strong>j人更在乎社会评价，而p人更在乎自我评价（单方面声明不包括s人，笑鼠</strong></p><p><strong>🙋♀️二丫：ENTJ</strong></p><p><strong>🙋♀️鸡爪：ENTP</strong></p><p><strong>-</strong></p><p><strong>Highlight时刻：</strong></p><ul> <li>p人更优先考虑<strong>“内在体验”</strong>，j人更容易优先考虑<strong>“结果”</strong>？（严谨一点，该语境不包含s人哈哈哈哈哈，s人我真的不懂</li> <li><strong>课题分离：</strong>将社会评价等同于自我评价，只会让我们陷入无限的内耗</li> <li><strong>优绩主义的裹挟</strong>，让我怀疑自己是因为缺少执行力才拿不到社会评价中的结果</li> <li>“这就是个j世界，j地球，我觉得<strong>我们p人应该有自己的p地球</strong>”</li> <li>p人听好：<strong>让自己开心没什么错！</strong></li></ul><p>-</p><ul> <li>咦，怎么还聊了<strong>“钱💰”</strong></li></ul><p><strong>-</strong></p><ul> <li>“后天养成的品性在帮我们抗衡<strong>人类动物性的本能和激素</strong>”</li></ul><p>-</p><ul> <li><strong>毛姆：“不要管别人在不在乎，因为没有人会在乎。就算有人在乎，人又算个什么东西。”</strong></li></ul>
November 28, 2023
【MBTI J/P篇】“🫵受不了你们p人一点！”P人进，听完这期尊嘟会被疗愈到！
<p>本系列节目源于我的一条pyq</p><figure><img src="https://image.xyzcdn.net/Fl9Pvsi93HMyl53QU7ANKYI0pVMS.jpg"></figure><p>作为P人，我常常困惑于自己很难“完成”一件事，很多时候都是“有始无终”。我总是兴致勃勃地开启新项目，却很难执行重复性的任务，得到复利，拿到结果。</p><p>同时我好像很羡慕J人总是能够不费吹灰之力地“自律”，他们对生活的把控力是我所不具备的。我也切实看到了J人在工作、学习中的正反馈，难道他们的思维方式处事逻辑就是“成功学”密码？</p><p>🤔<strong>我开始思考，是不是我真的出了问题？</strong></p><p>🤬<strong>我倒要看看！J人你到底是怎么个事！</strong></p><p><strong>-</strong></p><p>本系列的第一期和Chris聊一聊。</p><p>Chris是身心灵赛道的up主，在B站有两万粉丝，我和他也相识于B站。</p><p>我看到他一直在坚持做自媒体；而我，尝试了无数个赛道，也放弃了无数个（略略略！这一期我们从各自的自媒体经验谈起，延伸到各自的工作生活。看看J、P人究竟有多水火不容！（互补啦</p><p><strong>🙋♂️Chris：ENTJ/整理归纳能力强的很/酷爱搭建各种“系统”/对效率有极致追求/职场晋升噌噌噌↗️</strong></p><p><strong>🙋♀️鸡爪：ENTP/新思路新想法多的很/酷爱享受不确定性/对精神自由有极致追求/职场暂未收到正反馈</strong></p><p><strong>-</strong></p><p><strong>Highlight时刻：</strong></p><ul><li><p>“大家只是想建立自己的秩序”</p></li><li><p>“自律是个伪概念”</p></li><li><p>Chris分享了一些“高效”“自律”方法，希望给P人朋友一些启发💡</p></li><li><p>和我一样有相同困扰的P人朋友停止内耗（相信我！听Chris说话就会被疗愈到欸🥰</p></li></ul><p><strong>-</strong></p><p><strong>挖坑时刻：</strong></p><p><em>打算出一个MBTI和荣格八维系列！但会产出得慢一些啦，因为荣格八维我也得从0开始了解。想要帮助大家更加了解自己，全面认知自己才是认知世界的开始 🗺️</em></p><p><strong>-</strong></p><p><strong>Chris频道link👇</strong></p><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://space.bilibili.com/74184633?spm_id_from=333.999.0.0">老频道<strong> focus </strong>身心灵、疗愈、大众占卜(古早</a></p><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://space.bilibili.com/3546572335876917?spm_id_from=333.337.0.0">新频道<strong> focus </strong>冥想、效率管理、个人成长</a></p>
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