老大+小孩儿=老孩儿
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2025年，关于成长，关于爱
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三年情侣分手后重新在一起的复盘（p1为什么分手）
<p>这一期我们先讨论了为什么我们会分手，之后我们会讨论为什么我们会再在一起以及在此之前我们有哪些反思和变化，还有在一起以后我们发生了什么改变</p><p>希望我们的思考能对你有所启发</p><p>---分割线---</p><p><strong># 老大</strong></p><ol> <li>累，原因有很多</li> <li>核心矛盾没抓对（真正核心的是没有认真沟通，卫生只是表浅问题</li> <li>正反馈的减少以及负反馈的增加，原因有减少</li></ol><p><strong># 小孩</strong></p><ul> <li>3、1互为因果，关系消耗越多越感到累，越不想消耗</li> <li>沟通问题是钥匙问题，不是锁问题，锁问题是不相信无条件的爱——计较双方付出——如果自己配不上对方的付出就要多努力，自己眼里自己的行动做不到那么多，就会很无力。</li></ul><p>合适的情侣：双方互不费力但是都很开心，你顺手做的正好是他需要的，她也一样，双方都不需要消耗自己就能得到来自对方的滋养（爱人之前先要爱己</p><p>无条件的爱不存在也不会发生在我身上：狗蛋觉得自己不值得被爱，只有自己足够优秀才会被爱，这种不安全感来自青春期成长环境</p><p>喜欢一个人思考问题，哪怕是两个人的关系也要归结到自己身上，把不属于自己的问题归到自己身上，一个人思考两个人的问题注定失败，两个人的问题注定需要两个人解决，结果就会放弃问题，放弃问题来源的关系——因为没有人照顾，所以要自己照顾自己，处理所有和其他人的关系，如果孩子过早独立，会更容易抑郁，因为他承担不动。最后会变成自己一个人面对问题，不想听别人的建议。（老大批注：小孩成长是从依赖自己过渡到依赖/相信别人，而老大成长要从依赖别人过渡到依赖自己以及让别人依赖）</p><p>小孩觉得另一个关键原因：老大没有主动性，</p>
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