Learning From Our Mistakes

About Learning From Our Mistakes

Father / Daughter duo get together to reminisce about days gone by as well as discuss the funny things that happen while raising a young family. You’ll get an old man’s reflections on things in the past and grow with a young mom as she raises her family.

Publisher

Addison Ruiz

Category

education · kids & family

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

10 May 2026

Latest episode

20 Sept 2026

Latest episodes

16 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   20 Sept 2026

   #16 - Learning from Others' Mistakes

   Kids are brilliant, brutally honest, and capable of turning the simplest moment into a full-blown parenting lesson. This week Josh and Addison unpack three listener stories that reveal what happens when you underestimate a child, miss a red flag, or accidentally teach them the wrong lesson.From a kindergarten mix-up that starts with a child not even knowing his real name, to a concussion that gets mistaken for attitude, to a painfully awkward family moment that spirals into a bigger conversation about sarcasm, this episode is equal parts hilarious and humbling. Josh and Addison also share their own real-life parenting chaos, from teething tantrums and sauce obsession at In-N-Out to kids who are observant enough to learn your secrets before you realize they know them. What they discuss: Why some “small” parenting oversights don’t show up until school roll call How easy it is to confuse pain, stress, and stubbornness in kids Why sarcasm can backfire hard when children are always listening What kids are really absorbing from your habits, language, and reactions The surprising value of car rides, shared routines, and ordinary time together Josh adds his perspective as a dad who’s coached his kids, tried to stay connected through packed schedules, and learned that the mundane moments often matter most. Addison brings the mom side of the story, with the kind of unscripted kid updates every parent instantly recognizes.If you’ve ever wondered whether your kids are actually paying attention, this one will answer that question fast. Funny, candid, and occasionally cringe-inducing, this episode is perfect for parents who need a laugh, a reality check, or a reminder that nobody gets this whole thing exactly right.

2. 

   13 Sept 2026

   #15 - What We'd Tell Our Younger Selves

   The advice you need most at 15, 25, and 45 is probably the same: stop wasting energy on pride, comparison, and stuff that does not matter. Josh and Addison unpack the mistakes they would tell their younger selves to avoid - and the lessons that only become clear once you have lived a little. What starts as a funny, slightly chaotic conversation quickly turns into a surprisingly honest discussion about identity, parenting, perspective, and the moments that actually shape a life. Josh opens up about realizing he was arrogant and mean in high school, how a brutally honest letter from his mom changed the way he saw himself, and why a mission in Venezuela became a turning point in learning humility and charity. Addison reflects on being more introverted, learning to take more chances, and how marriage and motherhood changed the way she sees effort, responsibility, and grace. You will discover: Why pride can quietly wreck your relationships long before you notice it The power of being corrected by someone who truly loves you How parenting changes the way you judge your younger self Why cherishing ordinary moments matters more than chasing the “cool” stuff How prayer, perspective, and gratitude can completely change what you carry Josh also shares a moving story about interviewing his uncle, a Vietnam veteran, and hearing how prayer brought peace in the middle of fear, chaos, and uncertainty. Addison adds a timely reminder about loving yourself because Jesus loves you, and about looking for the good that is always happening, even when the world is loud with bad news.This episode is for anyone reflecting on who they were, who they are becoming, and what they want to pass on to their kids. If you need a reset on what really matters, this conversation will meet you right where you are.

3. 

   6 Sept 2026

   #14 - Trials That Turned Out to be Blessings

   Some of the hardest moments in life are the ones that quietly reroute everything for the better. Josh and Addison unpack the trials that felt frustrating, unfair, or even devastating at the time - and the surprising ways those setbacks became turning points. Josh shares the layoff that sent him from Bank of America to Wells Fargo, then into a community bank where he learned far more than he ever could have in a bigger system. What felt like a blow at the time ended up opening the path to his current role as chief lending officer. He also opens up about nearly backing out of a home purchase, only to later realize that decision connected his family to people who would change his career trajectory. Addison brings her own example of getting shut out of her college major after missing the cutoff by a single grade. The disappointment was brutal, but it eventually placed her in the same class with friends from Las Vegas who became the support system she didn’t know she would need. You’ll also hear: Why a bad season can become the exact season that prepares you How one “wrong” decision can lead to the right people The mindset shift that helps you spot blessings inside setbacks A powerful real-life reminder that even painful diagnoses can bring families back together Josh and Addison also talk about gratitude, service, connection, and why small habits like smiling at strangers or noticing what you’re thankful for can reshape your outlook over time. They close with a deeply human reminder that you may not be able to see the full picture while you’re in the middle of the struggle, but hindsight often reveals the pattern.Essential listening if you’ve ever asked, “Why is this happening to me?” and needed proof that the answer may not make sense yet, but still matters.

4. 

   30 Aug 2026

   #13 - Relationship Lessons Nobody Taught Us

   Marriage is not built on perfect chemistry, it is built on choosing someone you can actually grow with. Josh and Addison sit down with Renae, for a candid conversation about the relationship mistakes that matter most and the lessons that can save you years of frustration. Renee opens up about her first marriage at 19 and the hard truth she learned the painful way: love is not enough if you are trying to carry a partner instead of walking beside one. From there, the conversation gets practical fast, covering what most people miss before they say yes, why uncommunicated expectations cause so many fights, and how repair after conflict can make or break a r (http://relationship.You)elationship. You’ll hear their honest takes on: Why “red flags” can look charming at first The difference between attraction and compatibility How shared goals and shared effort strengthen a marriage Why little things like toothpaste, finances, and house habits can become big issues The underrated power of dating your spouse long after the wedding Josh and Addison also talk about the role of grace, patience, and faith in keeping a relationship healthy, plus the surprising ways marriage can help you become a better version of yourself. Renae’s perspective is especially valuable if you are dating, engaged, newly married, or simply trying to build a relationship that lasts.If you have ever wondered what actually keeps couples together after the honeymoon ends, this episode is a must-listen. Honest, funny, and full of real-world wisdom, it is the kind of conversation that helps you avoid the mistakes that most people do not see until it is too late.

5. 

   23 Aug 2026

   #12 - Most Embarrassing Mistakes

   In this episode, we share a string of unforgettable embarrassing moments—from awkward comments and misunderstood jokes to a disastrous best man toast, a piano mishap, and a very unfortunate carnival ride. We also swap a few weekly joys, including a Lionel Richie concert, a fun work swim party, and a family performance coming up in the community orchestra. If you’ve ever said something at exactly the wrong time, laughed when you shouldn’t have, or had a moment you can’t stop thinking about years later, this episode is for you.

6. 

   9 Aug 2026

   #11 - Things We Were Completely Wrong About

   Josh and Addison look back at beliefs they once held strongly and how those views shifted with age, marriage, and parenting. They cover everything from sports obsession to having kids young, the pressure to be “established” before starting a family, and the importance of enjoying life in the present instead of always waiting for some future milestone. In this episode, Josh and Addison each share how real life has challenged the assumptions they had in their 20s and teens. They keep coming back to the theme that most of the things that feel urgent, permanent, or overwhelming usually aren’t.

7. 

   2 Aug 2026

   #10 - Advice We Ignored and Regretted

   In this episode, Addison and Josh share personal stories, practical advice, and reflections on life’s joys and challenges. From adventurous climbs and boat outings to managing technology and health, they explore how small habits and perspectives can transform daily living. Key Topics The thrill and safety measures of Via Ferrata climbing adventures The importance of taking intentional breaks from technology Practical habits for maintaining organization and order at home The value of regular date nights and quality time with your spouse Insights on health, nutrition, and listening to your body The dangers of early cell phone use and social media for kids The significance of forward-looking goals and fun experiences The importance of learning new skills regardless of age How small daily commitments can lead to lifelong habits

8. 

   26 Jul 2026

   #9 - Financial Lessons We Learned the Hard Way

   In this episode Josh and Addison take a look at financial decisions they have made and how they have impacted their lives. Come learn from and with Josh and Addison while they talk all things finance this episode! Find us on Instagram @learnwithaddy or TikTok @learningfromourmistakes. Email us at learningfromourmistakes@gmail.com (mailto:learningfromourmistakes@gmail.com)

9. 

   19 Jul 2026

   #8 - Parenting Mistakes We Didn't See Coming

   In this episode Josh and Addison dive into the topic of parenting. With Addison having the experience raising her two little toddlers and Josh having 5 kids that are ages 23-13, they combine their experiences to share with you today! We hope you enjoy listening. Find us on Instagram @lfom or TikTok @learningfromourmistakes. Email us at learningfromourmistakes@gmail.com

10. 

    28 Jun 2026

    #7 - Mistakes From Our 20s

    This is the first episode in our limited series, "Cost of Being Wrong". In this intro episode, Josh and Addison look at a brief birds eye view of mistakes made in their 20s specifically focusing on relationships, parenting, and finances. Come see what mistakes they have made and learn from them! Email any and all parenting stories to learningfromourmistakespod@gmail.com (mailto:learningfromourmistakespod@gmail.com). You can also find us on Instagram @lfom or on TikTok @learningfromourmistakes. We hope to hear from you!

11. 

    21 Jun 2026

    #6 - Creating a Community

    Josh and Addison talk about different ways they've been able to create a community with those around them. They also visit different stories from their weeks including Eliza swimming and working out. They look back on a time when Josh had set a yearly goal and a funny memory from that moment. Come listen to hear more about their crazy weeks! Share any parenting fails or stories with us at learningfromourmistakedspod@gmail.com. Find us also on Instagram @lfompod or TikTok @learningfromourmistakes!

12. 

    14 Jun 2026

    #5 - Singing Doesn't Make You Cool

    Well well well. After technology issues last week, Josh and Addison are back and better than ever. Come listen to some hilarious stories about bringing things you shouldn't to school, parenting fails, and Josh and Addison's favorite parenting book. This episode will bring some joy to your crazy weeks!

13. 

    31 May 2026

    The One Where Eliza has a Birthday

    In this episode Josh and Addison talk about potty training, birthday celebrations, surprise pregnancies and so much more. New episodes weekly! If you have any crazy or noteworthy parenting stories please share them with us at learningfromourmistakespod@gmail.com (mailto:learningfromourmistakespod@gmail.com) or on our Instagram @lfompod or TikTok @learningfromourmistakes. We'd love to hear from you!

14. 

    24 May 2026

    The Funny but Humbling Parenting Mistake I Wish I Could Take Back

    In this episode, Josh and Addison share hilarious parenting stories, discuss connecting with kids through shared experiences, and reflect on mistakes made along the way. They explore how parenting joys and challenges shape family life, offering relatable insights for parents everywhere.

15. 

    17 May 2026

    Tantrums, Cacti, and Bathroom Mishaps

    Most parents know the chaos, but few realize how hilarious and heartwarming it truly is—until now. On this episode, Addison and Josh pull back the curtain on the unpredictable rollercoaster ride of parenthood, sharing wild stories that will make you both laugh and appreciate every messy, hilarious moment with your kids. From bathroom disasters to the hilarious chaos of siblings pushing each other into cacti—yes, cacti—they explore the unfiltered reality of raising humans. You’ll discover the true joys of seeing your kids learn to share, and how even the most embarrassing moments at church become perfect stories in hindsight. We break down the struggles and funny struggles of handling toddler tantrums over sour cream, navigating diaper disasters at gas stations, and the absurdity of bathroom chaos with multiple little ones. Addison shares her favorite moments of her kids finally playing together, learning how to share, and even taking charge of their own funny antics—like biting, pushing, and the quintessential potty humor. Plus, hear why motherhood isn’t just a sacrifice but a profound act of strength and connection. Addison’s honest reflections on juggling time for herself, managing the chaos with her supportive husband, and embracing the beautiful imperfections of parenting will inspire you. Meanwhile, Josh offers his seasoned grandparent perspective, highlighting that a little patience and humor go a long way in raising resilient, kind children. If you need a reminder that parenthood is messy, hilarious, and deeply rewarding, this episode is your dose of authentic motherhood mojo. Perfect for parents, guardians, or anyone who loves a good laugh about life’s unpredictable joys. Tune in to hear real stories, practical insights, and plenty of laughs—and maybe get inspired to embrace your own parenting adventures with a little more patience and a lot more humor.

16. 

    10 May 2026

    WELCOME TO THE PODCAST!

    In this Episode Josh and Addison talk about some fun moments from their week. They touch on some ways they've been able to find time for themselves as young parents and what they would values and traditions they hope to have in their families as they continue to grow. Tune in to learn more!

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