Lesbian in Her Feelings is a relationship and friendship podcast focused on real conversations, emotional honesty, and lived experiences from a queer perspective.
Each episode explores topics like situationships, dating women, friendship wounds, boundaries, trust, emotional attachment, and personal growth through open dialogue, storytimes, guest conversations, and anonymous listener questions.
This channel is for anyone who’s ever felt deeply, loved hard, or struggled to let go.
No advice-guru energy. Just honesty, reflection, and real talk.
Why We Stay Longer Than We Should (And Why It’s Hard To Leave)
Have you ever looked back at a relationship and wondered, “Why did I stay so long?”
In this episode of Lesbian In Her Feelings, we’re talking about why leaving isn’t as simple as people think. From fear of being alone to getting attached to someone’s potential, I share why so many of us normalize unhealthy patterns, ignore repeated red flags, and settle for relationships that no longer serve us.
If you’ve ever stayed hoping things would change, this conversation is for you.
💗 In this episode:
Why we stay longer than we should
Fear of being alone vs. fear of settling
Why the good moments keep us stuck
How unhealthy patterns become “normal”
Choosing yourself, even when it’s hard
If this episode resonated with you, don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for honest conversations about healing, relationships, and self-worth.
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6 Jul 2026
Why You Couldn’t See the Red Flags Until It Was Over
Have you ever looked back at a relationship and wondered, “How did I miss all of those red flags?”
In this episode, I’m talking about why we often don’t recognize unhealthy behaviors until we’ve had time apart to heal. When you’re emotionally attached, your brain naturally focuses on keeping the relationship alive. But once you create distance, gain clarity, and begin healing, you start seeing the relationship for what it really was—not just the version you wanted it to be.
If you’ve ever struggled to let go of someone, replayed only the good memories, or questioned why it took so long to leave, this episode is for you.
24 Feb 2026
How My Childhood & Past Relationships Shaped How I Love Today
In this episode of Lesbian in Her Feelings, I open up about how my childhood, past relationships, and love languages shaped the way I show up in love today. From growing up used to gifts and holidays feeling important, to learning how triggers and old patterns can follow you into healthy relationships — this is an honest conversation about healing, giving grace, and learning to love differently as an adult.
If you’ve ever felt loved right but still struggled with old wounds, this one’s for you.
16 Feb 2026
The Truth About Healthy Love Nobody Told Me (Stop Losing Yourself)
In this episode of Lesbian in Her Feelings, we’re talking about what healthy love actually looks like — and why losing yourself in a relationship isn’t the goal.
We get into boundaries, emotional balance, showing up for yourself, and the importance of having structure so you don’t give all your time and energy away to other people. Because real love should support who you are — not replace you.
If you’ve ever felt like you disappeared in a relationship, struggled with consistency, or needed people around you who match your effort… this conversation is for you.
✨ Topics in this episode:
• Healthy relationship balance
• Boundaries & self-respect
• Prioritizing yourself
• Consistency & personal growth
• Staying true to who you are in love
💬 Drop your thoughts in the comments and don’t forget to subscribe for more honest conversations.
12 Jan 2026
Stories I Said I’d Take To The Grave (But Here We Are) Ft Essence
In this episode, I sit down with my friend Essence for an honest, unfiltered conversation about dating, boundaries, trust, and attention — and how past experiences still show up in our relationships today.
We talk about:
• My past as a stripper and what that season of life was really like
• People in the DMs and how attention can blur boundaries
• Checking a partner’s phone and navigating trust in relationships
• A story about someone in my DMs — and the truth I found out later
• Being guarded, casual connections, and protecting your peace
This episode dives into dating, relationship boundaries, jealousy, trust issues, and personal growth, all through real stories and honest reflection.
If you’ve ever struggled with trust, attention from others, boundaries in relationships, or letting your past follow you, this conversation will resonate.
4 Jan 2026
Making Friends As An Adult Is Hard… Here’s The Part No One Admits
Making friends as an adult is harder than anyone prepares you for.
In this episode, I answer an anonymous question about how to make friends as an adult and build meaningful friendships that actually last.
We talk about:
• Why adult friendships feel so difficult
• Where to meet genuine people as an adult
• How to tell the difference between surface-level connections and real friendships
• The boundaries and behaviors that create healthy, lasting friendships
If you’ve ever felt lonely, outgrown old friendships, or struggled to connect as an adult, this episode is for you.
21 Dec 2025
Friendship Breakups Hurt More Than Dating And Nobody Talks About It
Friendship breakups don’t get talked about enough especially the quiet ones.
In this episode, I open up about the friendship wounds we rarely acknowledge: losing friends without closure, being the “strong friend,” betrayal, growing apart, and learning how to grieve people who are still alive.
We talk about what it feels like to give so much to a friendship that no longer feels mutual, how silence can hurt more than confrontation, and why outgrowing people doesn’t make you cold it makes you honest.
If you’ve ever lost a friend, felt unseen, or had to heal quietly while wanting to be heard loudly, this episode is for you.
14 Dec 2025
The Situationship Cycle Nobody Warns You About (ft. Courtney)
In this first episode, Courtney and I get real about situationships — why we stay, what keeps us attached, and the people we should’ve let go of way sooner.
We talk about exes, toxic patterns, dating, emotional attachment, and being stuck in something that never really chose us. From never truly being in love, to ignoring red flags because it felt familiar… yeah, we went there.
If you’ve ever stayed longer than you should’ve, questioned your own boundaries, — this one’s for you.
11 Dec 2025
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